Dear brother WesleyF,
I support those who have pointed out that there are many beautiful, kind Orthodox people on this planet.
However, as a former anti-Catholic, Orthodox NOT in communion with Rome, I can testify to this very attitude of which you are concerned. There is often a deliberate attempt to misrepresent Catholic teachings (particularly Latin Catholic teachings). It was only by “going outside the box” that I was able to see Catholicism for what it actually was.
As I’ve always maintained:
(1) Orthodox do a disservice to themselves by attacking Catholicism with their distortions. If they stuck simply to supporting Orthodoxy, we’d be in a much better world (in terms of Catholic-Orthodox relations), and much closer to re-union.
(2) The beauty of Catholicism is its inherent Catholicity - able to seek out what actually unites the whole and thus unite the Church. Copts, Chaldeans, Latins, Armenians, Syriacs, Melkites, Ukranians, etc, etc. We have all been able to go beyond our parochialisms, our local Traditions, our local spiritualities, our local theologies, our local practices, beyond what makes us distinct, and find what it is that unites us as apostolic Christians - the FAITH.
Blessings,
Marduk