Anyway, just wanted some thoughts on Protestant (specifically non-denominational) services.
Well, since you asked…
My biggest problem with the wannabe evangelical mega-churches we end up trying out is not the doctrine but the service. As far as I personally can tell, Catholicism makes no effort to attract converts. In my world, bringing in new people is the test of a church’s success. I can’t tell you how often we are badgered to bring a guest. That in itself is good, but usually a ton of time and money is poured into being attractively worldly
to newcomers.
I have often found in evangelical and non-denominational churches that the worship rock-band is calculated to draw in converts. No expense is spared on the sound system. When we attend a new church with our kids, we’ve been asked in advance to keep our children quiet in the sanctuary, only to have the worship music SO LOUD it was literally frightening to our children. The expectation is that we would drop them off in daycare. It’s
supposed to be class but I’ve taught it,and it’s daycare, no matter how hard you try. Our kids like playing, but they want to go to church WITH us. Anyway. The style of music is as
worldly as possible, and it is not uncommon, in my experience, for the “audience” to be chided by the “worship” (music) pastor for failing to be sufficiently LOUD and emotive. While singing at the top of one’s lungs CAN be a spiritual experience, it can also be awful. Often a worship pastor will require us to stand for half an hour.
Despite the extensive printed church bulletin, you may expect up to half an hour to be taken up with announcements of… exactly what is in the bulletin. This drives my husband nuts, but my personal quirk, it never fails to turn my stomach when the various ministry leaders and church A-listers get applause. I guarantee it doesn’t bother anyone else but it makes my skin crawl. Just… let’s praise God, okay? Since we’re nothing without him?
The actual sermons vary so widely that it’s tough to comment. Many are deeply moving. All of the catholic converts I’ve ever known complain that in Catholicism, going through the motions is all there is. You practicing Catholics would disagree, but if you’re curious, there it is. Something about having the bible and one’s relationship to God and Jesus spelled out over and over and over and over again fulfills a need that wasn’t filled by mass. Just so you know.
I don’t know what taking Eucharist is like, maybe some day I’ll get there, but honestly symbolic bread and wine is as meaning-full or -less as your desire to follow Christ in taking communion.
Thanks for the opportunity to vent, I don’t have anybody I can share those frustrations with.
I am so glad of the anonymous forum format just now, don’t even bother to flame me!