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St. Teresa of Avila says that,
Self knowledge is an important factor when it comes to understanding our weaknesses and our frequent failings.
Now we come to the main point of discussion: the identification of your root sin.
Taken from Fr. John Bartunek on Spiritual Direction, there are three categories of root sins.
COMMON MANIFESTATIONS OF PRIDE
Self knowledge can be cultivated through our own realization of God’s goodness and our own baseness; by looking at his purity we shall see our foulness; by meditating upon his humility, we shall see how far we are from being humble. (St. Teresa of Avila, Interior Castle)“Self knowledge is so important that, even if you were raised right up to the heavens, I should like you never to relax your cultivation of it; so long as we are on this earth, nothing matters more to us than humility.”
(St. Teresa of Avila, Interior Castle)
Self knowledge is an important factor when it comes to understanding our weaknesses and our frequent failings.
Now we come to the main point of discussion: the identification of your root sin.
Taken from Fr. John Bartunek on Spiritual Direction, there are three categories of root sins.
COMMON MANIFESTATIONS OF PRIDE
- too high an opinion of myself
- annoyance with those who contradict me, brooking no contradictions
- anger if I don’t get my way or am not taken into account
- easily judgmental, putting others down, gossiping about them
- slow to recognize my own mistakes, or to see when I hurt others, and inability to seek and give forgiveness
- rage when others don’t thank me for favors
- unwillingness to serve, rebellion against what I don’t like
- impatience, distance, brusqueness in my daily contact with others
- thinking I am the only one who knows how to do things right, unwillingness to let others help
- inflated idea of my own intelligence and understanding, dismissing what I do not understand or what others see differently
- not feeling a need for God, even though I do say prayers
- nursing grudges, even in small matters
- never taking orders
- inflexible in preferences
- always putting myself and my things first, indifference towards others and their needs, never putting myself out for them
- centering everything (conversation, choices…) on myself and my likes
- calculating in my relations with God and with others
- always seeking admiration and praise, worrying about not getting it
- excessive concern about physical appearance
- being guided by the opinions of others rather than principle (this is sometimes called “human respect”)
- some types of shyness
- sacrificing principles in order to fit in
- placing too much a premium on popularity and acceptance
- easily discouraged at my failures
- taking pleasure in listening to gossip and hearing about others’ failures
- always wanting to be the center of attention, at times stretching the truth, or lying outright, or being uncharitable in my words in order to achieve this
- laziness
- always the most comfortable, what requires least effort
- not going the extra mile for others
- procrastination, last-minute in everything