A faithful blogger in these parts is known to say that a bishop cannot compel a priest in many ways, but a bishop can make a priest’s life very very miserable if the priest does not comply out of obedience.
I would say the same of the relationship between a pastor and his faithful. There are pastors who have imposed things on me, contra legem, and I did not enjoy such things, but life is much easier when we approach authority in a spirit of submission and obedience.
Catholics today, especially Traditionalist Catholics, have a baked-in sense of distrust for authority. This is incubated in the political forum, as anti-government sentiment and Boogaloo Boys run rampant on the right, and #BLM and Antifa on the left. This profound distrust and disrespect for authority, this feeling of ownership because in a democratic republic, we elect our leaders, leaks through the “Wall of Separation” between Church and State, and bleeds into our relationships with our pastors and the Supreme Pontiff.
Rome is not going to come to your rescue on this COTT issue. Mark my words. If you don’t want to receive the Eucharist, as my father says at supper-time, “Fine, more for the rest of us!!!”