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Nate13
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In its simplest explanation contracepting is a sin because its a contradiction of the act that is being committed. Within marriage during a sexual act that is supposed to be a complete gift of both persons to each other as they are at that time, contracepting would be a contradiction of a sexual act within marriage. During any act of sex outside of marriage the act is already by default a contradiction whether those involved use a contraceptive or not. Thus using a contraceptive would not actually contradict a sexual act outside of marriage. In other words the act was never meant to be a complete gift of self between the two person, and taking steps to reject the sperm of the other person is just the same as rejecting the advance of the other person before the rape even began.Looks to me like we ourselves a moral question that is worthy of being formally resolved by the Church, in addition to the definition of “sex” and “contraception”, which apparently are up for debate.
I disagree with those commenters who have said something to the effect of “rape is not sex, it is an act of violence” on that basis that it is a false dichotomy (if by violence, they meant physical violence).
There is no purpose to the term “consensual sex” if there doesn’t exist its opposite: non-consensual sex.
Also, an act of rape is not necessarily violent. It can take the form of a man who drugs a woman and “enters her” while she is not conscious and without using physical force or aggressively handling her body.
That aside, the most intriguing argument that I saw, in favor of the use of the morning after pill by a rape victim, is the one put forward by the commenter who made mention of that fact that a third party (person) who intervenes in the rape act, in defense of the victim, is morally justified in his intervention, but we would not call him an agent of contraception on that basis. Similarly, we probably all agree that if the victim fought off her rapist while he was inside her such that ejaculation did not occur, she is morally justified, and is not guilty of the sin of onanism. If this can be granted, then, I fully admit, it is difficult to see how the use of the morning after pill post- rape, pre-conception, is objectionable. For the time being though, I will remain agnostic as to this issue.
One other question though (for those proposing that contraception pertains only to marriage, thus it is impossible to commit the sin of contraception outside of marriage):
WHAT ABOUT MARITAL RAPE? Should be an interesting addition to the discussion.
The morning after pill could never be used if there is a possibility it will cause harm to a newly conceived child. There is no doubt about the answer to that question. I agree with the logic you put forward which I myself laid out about 10 pages ago, that if its considered the sin of contraception to prevent conception from occurring after the sperm are already in a woman, it would also have to be considered the sin of contraception if the woman getting raped attempted to get away while being raped, because that could be considered pulling out.