I would agree that most people would characterize their lack of faith as not being convinced.
I’m not sure what limits I should apply to the word “faith” in this context. I want to make sure that one perception of it isn’t being used here. Atheism doesn’t always imply the absence of faith (and I am talking about faith in the immaterial, not faith in the broad sense which is similar to confidence). I’ve got three friends that have no beliefs in any deities but they also have faith in an immaterial existence. There are also forms of Buddhism that are considered atheistic since they acknowledge no belief in deities (Buddhism doesn’t restrict one from believing so there are forms that have been assimilated into other religious groups).
I should have also paralleled my disposition to some of the non-Christians religions since both some of the Christians and non-Christians may be able to relate to this. Among other books I’ve got a Koran, a Bible, a Bhagavad-Gita, and a book of Norse, Greek, Egyption, and other deities(
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A staunch atheist that is also a staunch evolutionist might claim someone who denies evolution is refusing to accept facts.
It sounds like a quick summary description that will carry with it associations of disharmonious interactions. But since we are talking about belief we need to consider the cognitive processes behind the interactions.
We can imagine situations where we are told a person we think we know well did something that is out of character. In that case many will refuse to believe the accusations.
No need to imagine. I can recall similar and relevant situations. The motivations behind the apparent
refusals varies:
**(1)**I’ve got a friend that studied law. She changed her mind about getting into criminal law because she had moral problems with the possibility of defending a person she thought was guilty. She talked about having to maintain behaving as though some one was not guilty and make the opposing witnesses seem questionable even if she believed their statements to be accurate. From the outside looking in such behaviour would appear to be a refusal to believe the opposing side.
**(2)**In another case I think a person thought the bad news being delivered was plausible and wanted to preempt being exposed to further information. There was a legal liability issue in this situation and consequences could arise if the person could be shown to have knowledge of a certain situation. Though I also think the person thought the direction in which the information was pointing was plausable and didn’t want to be exposed to enough information to move them from their current position. The situation I have in mind may come close to matching your example.
**(3)**In a third situation after some one died I had to call his family in German and the USA to let him know. His daughter and his aunt by their own words could not believe the news when I first broke it to them. I had to restate the events that lead up to his death several times before it
sank in. Even after seeing his decomposed body and and after the funeral his daughter would occasional slip from the mental state of thinking he was dead to thinking he was alive and do things such as try to call him to share an interesting story until the disconnected message reminded her that he was no longer among the living. She seems to have settled on believing that his spirit is still on earth and interacts with her both emotionally and physically. Last week she told me how he prevented her from being injured badly during a fall.
In all three of these situations one could describe them as refusing to believe. Though if one examines the behaviours and motivations further the apparent refusals to believe expand to something that isn’t implied from the word “refusal” alone. In the lawyer’s scenario there’s no actual refusal to believe, but external behaviour being motivated by the goal to project a certain perception (acting). The second situation may involve some acting, or avoiding liability, or even trying self deception. The friend with the deceased rather appears to genuinely have a difficult time integrating the termination of her father’s life into her model of reality.
Why we believe what we do is very fascinating to me and I dont claim to fully understand it myself. But I do believe that stubborn refusal to accept truth is something that humans are pretty good at.
I’m trying to improve my understanding myself. I’ve been reading the book “Neuroconstructivism: How the Brain Constructs Cognition” (Volume 1, 2009 edition) and “Brain, memory, and belief” by Schacter and Scarry. I think these books have some relevant insight. “Brain, Memory and Belief” presents information on both sub-conscience and conscious processes that impact what one believes and doesn’t believe. It also shows how processes in a healthy brain can lead to distorted beliefs (one of the authors of this book also write a book on on how these processes can cause memory errors in “The Seven Sins of Memory”). “Neuroconstructivism” had a section on what happens when some one encounters information that doesn’t fit previous expectations that may have some relevance to belief, but the book gives more attention to child cognitive development so right now I see it as
possibly applicable to adults.