Being “free” does not mean that we can do anything and everything that we want, our freedom is always limited. (By the way, the expression “free will” is undefined, some people take it as “freedom of action based upon the will”, others consider it pure freedom to “will” something, regardless of the ability to actually act on it. But that is another question.)
That
is another question… but it’s not a difficult one. Anyone who suggests that free will must mean “freedom to
do whatever one wishes” is expressing an illogical tautology. After all, it could be boiled down to saying “if I jump off a cliff, I’m unable to fly, and therefore, I don’t have free will.”
Present all sorts of dilemmas, where both choices are correct, and you have free will, and no wrong choices.
Why does free will
require a lack of ‘wrong choices’? That, too, is a misunderstanding – it conflates
license with
free will.
That is how real love is manifested.
In a human context, sure. But, the stakes are much higher in the present context being discussed. Here, “present human life on earth” is only a small part of the scenario. So, any attempt to equate ‘allowing human death’ with ‘not a loving parent’ is an error of scope. It would be much the same as if I were to claim that a loving parent wouldn’t allow his child to fall when learning to ride a bike. You’d laugh at that suggestion and retort, “but there’s
good in learning to ride! And, the temporary pain of a fall is part of the greater good of the process of becoming a bike-rider!” And you’d be right. Similarly here, equating death with a deficiency on God’s part is short-sighted.
Finally, it would be ridiculous to assume that God acted capriciously or randomly. Therefore the only logical conclusion is that God did foresee the outcome, and wanted it to happen.
Actually, you’re missing one possibility (and perhaps that’s why you’re missing the point): it’s possible that God wants to allow human agency and thereby permit secondary causation.
People’s decisions are at least partially influenced by their environments.
Agreed, but you’re tilting at windmills, I’m afraid. You’re acting as if there’s one absolute standard – an objective test that you must score an ‘A’ on or else you fail. That’s not the case at all. Although there
are differences in
sitz im leben among individuals, God doesn’t sit up there with a giant scorebook, saying “aww… you were born to drug addict mother… so sorry you only scored a 55 on the test – you lose!”