So, again, I don’t believe in SSA theory because it implies we are all susceptible to it. Nope. I know there is nothing in the world that could change my straightness and I knew this at a young age. So, I imagine for the LGBTQ community it is the same.
Again, I don’t mean to upset people by not agreeing with this whole discussion. I’m just answering OP. I’m sure there are a lot of prayerful Catholics in real life and online who know it’s a given the LGBTQ are born that way. They may not participate in a discussion like this for fear of chastisement by people who have to toe the line to fit in, but again I God asks us to speak up for the marginalized and sympathize with their plight. And again, I’m from California, lived in Manhattan and London been to Europe. So, I’ve seen Catholicism in different places and a lot of this Gay by Choice talk is really a regional, local perception not necessarily one shared by most people in other regions.
Finally, this whole Gay by Choice things may exist but only for a small portion of people and those people would be bisexuals. But the problem with bisexuality among men is that it is so hidden and comes with such shame, a bisexual person might not know that there are actually fully straight people out there. They may not know it is not heterosexual to feel attraction for the same gender. I remember in the nineties there were stupid arguments that sexuality was fluid, anyone is slightly bisexual. Nope, again. There are Straights, there are Gays, and there are Bisexuals. More than likely the people spouting this stuff, who were secular, were bisexual and thought everyone was like that. So, again, if SSA theory has any merit it is only for bisexuals and I don’t know how large that number is. I still think Straights are the majority.