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NEITHER are “liturgical abuses.”Addressing another issue in the OP’s post - your friend, if he/she witnessed the Presbyterian sacriledge, should immediately write to or speak with the bishop about this. This is a VERY SERIOUS sacriledge. It is beyond a simple liturgical abuse such as holding hands during the Our Father or not kneeling during the consecration. It renders the Mass invalid, and is a gross injustice for the laity of that parish.
Also, you mentioned that your priest said you should basically go to any Mass while you were on vacation, including an Orthodox one if no Catholic service was available. I think this is incorrect. You aren’t ever required to attend a Orthodox Divine Liturgy to fulfill your Sunday obligation. While you can receive sacraments in the Orthodox Church validly, this would only be done in extreme circumstances, such as being in danger of death. So, for example, if you were traveling in Greece and couldn’t find a single Catholic parish to attend Mass at, you would be dispensed from your Sunday obligation by virtue of that (provided you diligently looked for a Catholic Mass and found none).