Whether you intend it or not, you come across as extremely condescending. The ‘wow’ was because I was very surprised at the rude tone of your post in response to the kind post of apology. I shouldn’t need to spell that out, but there you go. Allow me to make my point clear: you were rude to the person who apologized. I personally think that person showed class and character in his apology. I have a feeling that the point is lost…
Ben, you’re a classy guy. We disagree theologically, but you have my respect.
Life,
It appears that what you are asking for is clarity. For that I am at fault, forgive me. Allow me to take you back to what I wrote and what I meant. Meaning as you will agree is all important.
I have sinned. I was uncharitable. I asked forgiveness and my sin was forgiven. Apologies are for rookies. If you are trying to be funny, let us know in advance. I do not read minds.
The word “I” is used 3 times. This is me. When you step on someones toes in a theatre you say, excuse me. When you apologize you say I apologize and that implies nothing in the context of a Christian life. Does Jesus teach us to apologize or ask forgiveness?
So let us get back to what I wrote.
I have a private message that I see at the bottom of my profile that says
Uncharitable Post & Insulted Other Member
This happened in November 2011. I wrtoe something like…you lied, or some other dumb thing…I sinned. I was notified of this infraction and immediately realized that I needed to ask for forgivenes. I followed that notice with an immediate recognition of my error and I asked for forgiveness.
I sinned. I was uncharitable. I asked for forgiveness. My sin was forgiven and the infraction on this thread carried points with it and it was reversed. I should have said, while an apology was issued I am more inclined to accept a request for forgivenes.
In consideration of the notion of humor I do not read minds.
So I suggest you rethink this and understand that the person that sinned, the person that was uncharitable and the person that asked for forgiveness and was granted forgiveness was me. I sinned. I was uncharitable and I asked for forgiveness and it was granted.
I suggest that we dismiss the notion of apology and do as we were taught. When we are offensive, let us just recognize it and ask for forgivenes. Apologies are not in keeping with Christian thought.
I trust that this clarifies your perception and thank you for asking for clarification.