I mean no disrespect

, and the person you speak of is in my prayers and i pray that her suffering is not in vein.
As far as I can tell comparatively speaking she’s fine, minor ailments aside. She hasn’t needed a cancer treatment in years.
But i must ask you why would you want her to continue suffering? What is the point?
I didn’t have any desire for her to suffer. My desire for her was to have an enjoyable life. But the only known pathway between her previous unhealthy state and the more enjoyable life was a path that was covered with initial suffering. Think of it in terms of goal seeking behaviour. A rat doesn’t go though a maze because it wants to be in a maze. It goes through it because it believes there is a prize at the end. A person doesn’t run into a burning building because s/he wants to be surrounded by fire, s/he does it to save something in the building. I didn’t ask the friend to endure suffering because I wanted her to suffer. I did it because I want her to live and enjoy life.
What rational reason do you have for prolonging the inevitable. What rational reason is there for prolonging the pain of a potentially terminally ill patient?
The question as asked is inapplicable. As I mentioned in post
40 and post
13 I don’t think that rational thought can be completely divorced from irrational motivations. Not that I expect it to have been considered in this thread, but I’ve gone into bits of detail on this position in a few other post in other threads (like
this one). From what I’ve seen here in the Catholic Answers Forums there seems to be negative associations with the word “irrational” and “rational” seems to be associated with some level of superiority or seen as unconditionally more positive. Given what I’ve said about my views of rational and irrational then one might also take note that I won’t label something as positive or negative simply for being seen as rational or irrational. You may have identified this is a person for which I care. So this is also a matter of affection (irrational). I cannot provide a sensible answer about my actions and motivations that excludes any consideration for affect.
The best applicable question I can identify is “what motivation is there for encouraging her to endure the pain.” The answer to that question was given above.
The prolongation of suffering makes sense under theism because if life is intrinsically valuable it would contradict that value to commit suicide under any circumstance. But it doesn’t make sense to prolong suffering if metaphysical naturalism is true.
I’m not sure I completely understand what you mean when you say "is “makes sense under theism” when I consider the many forms of theism (mono-, poly, pan-, panen-, and others).
Since we are talking about behaviour lets introduce a behavioural concepts. What you are describing sounds like it ventures into the realm of the “Acceptance theory” of behaviour. In short when a situation is unchangeable or only changeable through actions that would involve high risk or high consequences than acceptance of the situation is encouraged. It’s not a religious concept, but encouraged in both religious and secular entities (you can even find some applicability of this theory to the scenarios I described with the two ladies).
This is another problem i have about suicide under the context of metaphysical naturalism. What -]rational/-]] right do people have to make people feel guilty about ending their own emotional suffering? That does not make sense to me, and in fact seems rather disturbing and obsessive.
I struck out the word rational myself for reasons mentioned in one of the earlier paragraphs. Getting into a discussion of rights and entitlements is going to be difficult unless we both agree on one or more systems of rights. I personally find the
Declaration of Human Rights to be agreeable. At the same time I don’t think the declaration alone is helpful to those that live a life in which these rights are denied.
I discourage suicide. The third situation that i did not detail involved some one that seemed to be considering taking her own life. And for that person I had to enlist the assistance of a psychologist. However, I am not unconditionally opposed to suicide. In horrible situations for which there is no apparent escape it may be the “best” available course of actions.
There were people that jumped from the World Trade Center towers after the planes flew into them. They might have lived a few more minutes if they had stayed in the building, but then they would have also suffered being burned. I believe that the impact from falling to the street ended their lives quickly and itself did not contribute to their suffering, while remaining on the floor would have only contributed to it.