If you don't want children...

[Debora123]

The thing is though she has found that special someone and he doesn;t want kids either. Though to be honest if he did want kids I would be advising her to break it off to save them both future heartache.

Yeah I realized that after I read through the thread.

This is what I think:

I think breaking off the relationship right now would be kind of a drastic and hasty thing. Because the fact is, people DO change. And people especially change when they find out they are parents.

I think the OP and her boyfriend should keep an open mind… instead of having the attitude of “oh I will never ever want children and if I have a child I won’t want it”… they should try to think about it more like this… “We know we want to be together and get married, we are willing to work with God and if he thinks we should have a child, then we will most certainly be open to his will, and we are sure we will love any child we are blessed with.”

Honestly Pumpkin, just keep an open heart. Pregnancy will instinctively change a woman. It’s how nature works and it is how God designed us. I highly doubt you won’t want the life growing inside of you when it is there.