I'm an active homosexual, am I destined to hell?

[Teen4Christ]

I try to live a good christian life for the most part, so am I? I believe i’m not but I would appreciate your take on the matter

 

[He_Man]

I try to live a good christian life for the most part, so am I? I believe i’m not but I would appreciate your take on the matter

The words “good Christian life” and “active homosexual” don’t go together, and contradict each other.

Same with “active heterosexual outside of marriage” and “good Christian life.”

Unless you mean you work out a lot and are a fitness buff…

Having a proclivity for unmarried heterosexual sex or any form of homosexual activity is not part of a good Christian life.

No one is destined to hell by the way; destiny implies fate or guarantee. We all have a chance to turn away. We all also have a chance to send ourselves there. It is our choice.

 

[buffalo]

By continuing this sinful lifestyle is turning your back on God.
This is your choice not God’s. You do the math.

 

[iamrefreshed]

I try to live a good christian life for the most part, so am I? I believe i’m not but I would appreciate your take on the matter

From what I’ve read in your others posts, you are not an active homosexual. Unless you were lying then?

Is school out this week?

 

[He_Man]

From what I’ve read in your others posts, you are not an active homosexual. Unless you were lying then?

Is school out this week?

Yeah, this doesn’t add up to other posts I’ve seen.

 

[whatevergirl]

I have always looked at sin as this…there is a fork in the road, so to speak…go one way and you serve man…go the other way and serve God. There are no three pronged forks, unfortunately, where you can serve both. In thinking that through, you will journey towards God hopefully, and allow Him to change your life. No matter how much good we do…it will never cancel out sin. But are you destined to hell? Not if you repent. Even at the last hour, we all can be saved if we are repentant (look at the thief who hung next to Christ)…but see, we don’t know the ‘hour in which He will return.’ That’s the key.

But, none of us can tell you where you will be going–for eternity. Only God will be the final judge. Thankfully, His mercy is unfathomable.

 

[Mannyfit75]

I try to live a good christian life for the most part, so am I? I believe i’m not but I would appreciate your take on the matter

A good Christian is someone who obey the Ten Commandments out of the love for God.

Of course you know what they are. In your case, I will go straight through the VI. Thou shalt not commit adultery & IX. Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s wife.

Did I have any sex before or outside of marriage? Do I view pornographic material (magazines, videos, internet, hot-lines)? Have I gone to massage parlors or adult book stores? Did I commit the sins of masturbation and/or artificial contraception? Have I not avoided the occasions of sin (persons or places) which would tempt me to be unfaithful to my spouse or to my own chastity? Do I encourage and entertain impure thoughts and desires? Do I tell or listen to dirty jokes? Have I committed fornication or adultery? Have I committed the act of homosexuality?

If you break any of the Ten Commandments. I hardly think anyone is a good Christian, unless he repents and make a firm purpose of amendment to abstain from sin.

 

[Daddums]

I try to live a good christian life for the most part, so am I? I believe i’m not but I would appreciate your take on the matter

On another thread you are a virgin teen who spent a month in the hospital for suicidal thoughts and who blushes at the mention of sex and who is looking forward to someday having a boyfriend. May I suggest using different sceennames for each of your identities.

Daddums

 

[Teen4Christ]

From what I’ve read in your others posts, you are not an active homosexual. Unless you were lying then?

Is school out this week?

Active wasn’t the best word, I’ve had oral but not anal sex.

Yes it is

 

[Teen4Christ]

On another thread you are a virgin teen who spent a month in the hospital for suicidal thoughts and who blushes at the mention of sex and who is looking forward to someday having a boyfriend. May I suggest using different sceennames for each of your identities.

Daddums

It matters what you consider sexual intercourse to be…

Yes I spent a month at a hospital for personal reasons and yes, I’m looking for a BF.

 

[Teen4Christ]

To those of you who posted their opinions, I thank you.

 

[AgnosTheist]

I try to live a good christian life for the most part, so am I? I believe i’m not but I would appreciate your take on the matter

Hi! Can you share with us how you became a homosexual? Is it something that you have learned like what almost every devout Catholics say?

 

[Mannyfit75]

Active wasn’t the best word, I’ve had oral but not anal sex.

Yes it is

and its still a sin to have oral sex. What you get out of it is pleasure.

 

[AgnosTheist]

I try to live a good christian life for the most part, so am I? I believe i’m not but I would appreciate your take on the matter

Hi! Can you share with us how you became a homosexual? Is it something that you have learned like what almost every devout Catholics say?

 

[Neil_Anthony]

Does anyone else find this forum to be a little obscene sometimes? Some days I wonder if it’s safe to read this from work… it’s certainly the most risquee website I visit

 

[Mannyfit75]

Does anyone else find this forum to be a little obscene sometimes? Some days I wonder if it’s safe to read this from work… it’s certainly the most risquee website I visit

It is.

 

[KarenNC]

Active wasn’t the best word, I’ve had oral but not anal sex.

It counts. Having oral sex makes one just as sexually active as any other form of sex, despite the current trend among teens to try to pretend it isn’t. It is also as likely to spread many different diseases, particularly if your partner is having or has had sex with others.

As I have said before, sex of any kind is never without consequences—emotional, physical, etc. and is not something to be done lightly, casually, to hang onto a relationship that is ending, begin a relationship, “if you loved me, you would” (the appropriate response to that is “if you loved me, you wouldn’t pressure me”), etc. Sex is a wonderful, intimate part of a committed relationship, but it is only a part and not even the primary one. If you don’t have that solid committed relationship without the sex, then you don’t have a relationship of any worth at all. Build the relationship first.

Have enough respect for yourself to reserve sex for a committed monogamous adult relationship, one that you intend to be lifelong. You are worth it.

(Mom rant ending now )

 

[Texas_Roofer]

I notice this is not your first post on the subject of homosexuality. I have not read your past posts however as new to the thread the posts often seem uncharitable to me. Let’s look at a couple of important things

__1)_No Catholic can tell you your fate. We can tell you guidelines from God however your fate is between you and God, with no other Catholics involved.

__2)_You can be a good or better Catholic than anyone else

__3)-The Church does not treat homosexuality special. Many people make a big deal about homosexuality however the Church does not. The rules for homosexuals are the same rules for everybody. Sex outside marriage is forbidden from God not man. Sins require confession regardless of source.

__4)_The church does recognize marriage as a condition of Natural [Moral] Law in which the opposite sexes pair for life for the procreation of man. That is why homosexual requests to marry are not approved by the Church administration.

Hope that helps

 

[StevenFrancis]

I try to live a good christian life for the most part, so am I? I believe i’m not but I would appreciate your take on the matter

What you are dealing with here is very difficult. The best single piece of advice I have for you, aside from prayer, is to go to this website and check it out with an open mind, and prayerful heart. (couragerc.net/)). It is intending to do sin, and not to turn away from it that can land you in the realms of existence farthest from the heart of Jesus. There is no reason to hurt yourself. Ever. Take it easy on yourself inside. If you’ve asked for forgiveness, trust that your father, who loves you, has forgiven you. But if you don’t at least acknowledge the sin, and put some effort into turning away from it, you could be setting yourself up for a life, and an eternity without looking upon His glory, and feeling the warmth of his love. All of us have crosses to bear, (difficulties and challenges), each day of our lives. Some are harder than others, and this one seems to be particularly insidious and hard to handle for folks, but never the less, it must be borne in dignity, repentance, and positive effort.

I will pray for you, and your cross,

Please pray for me, and mine, as well.

Peace be with you,

Steven

 

[Daddums]

Have enough respect for yourself to reserve sex for a committed monogamous adult relationship, one that you intend to be lifelong.

Why should we have to limit ourselves to a monogamous relationship? What’s wrong with polygamous relationships as long as everyone is an adult and intends for it to be lifelong? Who makes these rules anyway?

Daddums