If you were to re-read my earlier posts, you might see where the misunderstanding occurred. The words you are now using are a conflation of ideas which I never made. Rather than try to untangle them, let me restate what I said earlier:
(1) When millions of Catholics do something as part of their religion, and the Church does not oppose them, then the Church shares the responsibility and an onlooker has a right to call it Catholicism, even if it contradicts the CCC.
(2) Your example regarding artificial birth control is not valid because the offenders are not doing it as part of their religion. In fact, they readily admit that they are disobeying the Church. Priests (presumably) teach their people that it is a sin that requires confession. Therefore, if an anticatholic happened to be opposed to artificial birth control, he would not be justified in criticizing the Church for the large number of members who engage in this practice.
These are the ideas I originally wrote, but I have reworded them here.
So we agree? I argue that using such language when addressing a saint is nonsense if you don’t intend for the saint himself to do the requested thing.One in what way? It begins to sound like saints have acquired divine power and can now do what God can d

bviously I’m alluding to the discussion with katewithak, where some of this came up. I assumed that you had read it.
Here’s why I ask: I can understand petitioning a lower officer if the power to do a thing has been delegated downward to him, but I find preposterous Bellarmine’s struggle to justify petitioning the lower officer when you have no belief that he, himself, can do what you ask.
Certainly the lower officer can carry your request up to the one who has the power. In such a case, you ask him to carry the message, use his influence, sign your petition, put in a good word, or whatever. But if you say “hire me” or “heal me” or “turn my career around,” it can only mean that you think he has the ability to do it (or, at least, to try to do it).
So I’m trying to find out
exactly what you believe about this issue that divides Catholics and Protestants.If that idea isn’t handled correctly, it leads to superstition and idolatry. I want to see if anyone can render a rational, internally consistent explication of the doctrine. Assertions are easy to make; testimonies are freely available everywhere from Arianism to Zoroastrianism; but I’m interested in clear, sustained examination. Only then can I find out whether Catholics even agree on their religion, and whether the ideas hold water.