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PrayforMallory
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As someone who advocates the Mass of All Time, I have to say “Thank You.” I hope more people will expose themselves to more of the Church’s treasures.Recently I attended an EF mass. I thought I would really like it because of growing up in the '50’s and learning to sing Gregorian chant at parish school. What disappointed me was that the music was like a performance. Only the choir sang (and I think chant is pretty easy to sing) and the song would go on and on while the priest continued on to another part of the mass. I felt like we weren’t praying with the priest like we do in the OF at my parish or like I remember doing. Is this common or was it more a matter of inexperience on the part of the choir? Does the Tridentine mass require that the congregation not sing? Also, in the 50’s we sang some hymns in English, don’t they do that anymore?
This parish has the EF at least once a month so I thought they would be used to it. The experience was disconcerting with the priest doing one thing, the choir another, and me trying to attend to the mass and being distracted by the music. Also, I liked being able to kneel when receiving communion (which I can’t do unless I have the altar rail for balance) but I missed the priest holding up the host and saying “body of Christ” and being able to respond “amen!”
It was the same way for me, at first. Of course, the Novus Ordo was hard for me to learn when I converted.
It’s pretty much like riding a bike, learning a computer program, learning to drive, etc. It seems so strange at first, but after a few times it becomes natural and internalized, and the benefits become more apparent.
My advice (for what it’s worth) would be to keep going until it becomes more comfortable (which it eventually does). The first Mass is like any other first. It’s awkward, weird, and uncomfortable. But we all learned to read, to write, to check our email accounts, to balance a checkbook, to discipline our kids, etc. It becomes more awesome over time. Even if you end up not preferring it, it will change how you view the Novus Ordo, the Church, the Mass in general. It’s such a different experience.
Whatever happens, don’t put too much stock in these forums. Forums are filled with ill will. Frankly, if every Catholic went to 20 TLMs and 20 Novus Ordos, well, we might not be having these discussions.