I think the important thing to remember is that Catholicism, especially to those who have never heard it before or are living contrary to its teachings, is rather offensive. It’s a bottle that comes with a lot of hard pills to swallow. But this doesn’t mean we should be off-putting, and it surely doesn’t mean we should take the amount of hate we get as positive encouragement.
If “amount of hate” was directly correlated to the amount of Truth in a religion, then Westboro would be the place to be. (They are a great example of reveling in the “The world hates us so we must be doing something right” philosophy.)
And yes, Pope Francis may be the “Darling” of the world, but that’s because of Articles such as Rolling Stone’s and other twisted sources from “Catholics” and “Reliable News”. If people are paying attention, they will realize that Pope Francis is very much in line with his predecessors and all of Church teaching. My complaint is when other “Secular Friendly” quotes from him come up (like this very “Buzzfeed” style approach of a list of 10 things), they don’t seem to hit the deeper chord that will incite any change or challenge non-Catholics. And as stated, this may be a cultural difference, but the problem I’m seeing is not only that people are not feeling any call to conversion, but rather an affirmation of not converting.