In latest interview, Pope Francis reveals top 10 secrets to happiness

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Holiday means “Holy Day” (it’s our modern world that has corrupted the meaning).

And, yes, we should be with our families, if possible, on holy days. And “Where 2 or 3 are gathered in my name, there I am in their midst.” What greater happiness (bliss actually) could there be than that?
Pope Francis said:
  1. Sundays should be holidays. Workers should have Sundays off because “Sunday is for family,” he said.
The common definition of holiday, as Pope Francis indicates, is a day without work.
From the Oxford dictionary: oxforddictionaries.com/us/definition/american_english/holiday
1A day of festivity or recreation when no work is done:
December 25 is an official public holiday
MORE EXAMPLE SENTENCES
SYNONYMS
1.1 [AS MODIFIER] Characteristic of a holiday; festive:
a holiday atmosphere
MORE EXAMPLE SENTENCES
1.2chiefly British (often holidays) A vacation:
I spent my summer holidays on a farm
Fred was on holiday in Spain
Please don’t change the definitions of words in order to prove a point.

The Third Commandment says:
Remember thou keep holy the Lord’s day.
It makes no reference to family. As Catholics we keep the day holy by Mass attendance, prayer, penance, and other things.

From your quote, Christ wants us to gather in His name. Our Holy Father made no reference to His name. Merely gathering as family has nothing to do with the scripture you quoted.
 
Pope Francis said:

The common definition of holiday, as Pope Francis indicates, is a day without work.
From the Oxford dictionary: oxforddictionaries.com/us/definition/american_english/holiday

Please don’t change the definitions of words in order to prove a point.

The Third Commandment says:

It makes no reference to family. As Catholics we keep the day holy by Mass attendance, prayer, penance, and other things.

From your quote, Christ wants us to gather in His name. Our Holy Father made no reference to His name. Merely gathering as family has nothing to do with the scripture you quoted.
Sorry, but I have a different take, despite what you or even Pope Francis may mean by it.

Holiday to me means Holy Day. My husband is a Catholic from India and we have done a lot of research there over the 45 years of our marriage. I can say the people there (if not in America) recognize that “days off from work” are almost always Holy Days – since they give such days off for Hindu, Muslim, and Christian Holy Days. What those days entail is being with family, going to church/temple/mosque, making sweets and sharing them with the neighbors, including those who are not of one’s faith, eating good and special food, and praying together. It is a still highly religious country, tho it is slowly slipping into Western secularism. It’s also interesting that many in India do not get Saturdays off since there are so many Holy Days for all those religions, including Good Friday (which is not even a “holiday” in the US), or they only get half days off on Saturdays (that’s how their school system works). That leaves only Sunday off unless there is one of the many Holy Days that week, which really focuses one’s attention on the religious aspect of Sunday. Even India’s Independence Day falls on August 15th and has always been considered by my husband’s people both a national holiday AND a Holy Day.

Of course in the US and probably much of the West, the idea of holiday has become in recent centuries secular, except for Christmas and Thanksgiving (and even those have become secularized), with all other “holidays” marking some secular national event – 4th of July, Labor Day, Memorial Day. And Memorial Day could be sort of be considered somewhat religious in that it has to do with remembering the dead (but that’s really stretching it, I guess). No, you are right, in the West holiday has become secular, even Christmas and Thanksgiving.

It can also be pointed out that “holiday” is not the same thing as vacation – which is a time of recreation. But even recreation is religious in the sense of being “re-creation.”

It just depends on whether a person lives in a religious or secularized world or state of mind. I’ve luckily been living in a more religious than secular world, esp with my marriage to an Indian Catholic. Every day is God’s day, every minute God’s, every breath comes from God. Holy Days simply help to draw attention more strongly to that fact. And “church” at the basic level involves “family.” So Holy Days should be shared with one’s family and involve good and special food, as well.

I’m think we need to bring back the Holy in holiday in the West. Good idea. People then will truly be more happy, bec they won’t be focused on “what’s in it for me” for Xmas, etc, and getting disappointed bec material things are never enough to satisfy or bring happiness.
 
It makes no reference to family. As Catholics we keep the day holy by Mass attendance, prayer, penance, and other things.
What about keeping the day Holy by staying with Him within our domestic church as well ?
 
What about keeping the day Holy by staying with Him within our domestic church as well ?
I would think the Pope would assume Catholic families would be going to Church together on Sunday. Did he really need to put out a list of what families would or should be doing together?
 
What about keeping the day Holy by staying with Him within our domestic church as well ?
I am not sure what you are asking. My point was that Christ’s message is that when we gather in His name, He is among us. He is encouraging us to pray together. He not encouraging us to merely gather. IN HIS NAME is important.
 
It just depends on whether a person lives in a religious or secularized world or state of mind. I’ve luckily been living in a more religious than secular world, esp with my marriage to an Indian Catholic. Every day is God’s day, every minute God’s, every breath comes from God. Holy Days simply help to draw attention more strongly to that fact. And “church” at the basic level involves “family.” So Holy Days should be shared with one’s family and involve good and special food, as well.
Lynn made a very sincere and meaningful post full of truth, especially the part I quoted. It made me happy to read it. Happiness is founded in TRUTH. It may be expressed through emotion, but is really dependent on truth.

Pope Francis’ top ten list was not like your post.
 
Upon rereading some of the posts in this thread, I began thinking that some of the sticking points of this interview (and there have been several others that have been extremely controversial) may have something to do with language, or maybe just the manner in which the Holy Father expresses himself. His ‘style’ so to speak. I have thought myself in some things I’ve read that I would have liked for him to elaborate a little more, as to be a little clearer. But I have just come to the conclusion that it’s something we are going to have to get used to. However, it is important in this day and age to know one’s faith through more self study. If Catholics don’t already teach themselves and study the Catechism of the Catholic Church along with Scripture, THEY NEED TO. This should be emphasized by every Bishop in the Country. I know I am dating myself here, but it used to be that Catholics could listen to their Parish Priests and Pastors who would teach the faith from the pulpit. If ‘Fr. said so, it was law’. Those days are very long gone…VERY long gone. We now have various Priests and Bishops who are a little off base when presenting the truth of the Church. (some are even VERY off base) Therefore, WE must know it ourselves. There are of course those who are very faithful to the Church of Christ, but discernment is now an important aspect of being a Lay Catholic. We didn’t seem to have to do that when I was growing up. We were what I consider now to be ‘lazy Catholics’. I think the rule must be to respect all Bishops and Priests with love and prayerful support, but if they are presenting error and we know this, we are NOT to obey. Believe it or not, this also goes for the Pope…ANY Pope. This said, I have not heard anything yet from Pope Francis that would be a new ‘Dogma’ or ‘Doctrine’ that we would have to deny. I have heard interviews and off the cuff remarks that I don’t understand, and don’t care for the sounds of, but that is no reason whatsoever to do what they call ‘confront’ him on an issue. If he or any other Pontiff would institute new conflicting Doctrine to be followed that would be in error we would be OBLIGED NOT to follow it. At this point I don’t foresee that happening, but Catholics now must be on their toes, know their faith, and be watchful not only of the Holy Father, but with our Bishops and Parish Priests as well. We are also obligated to approach (with all Charity) any Prelate that is professing or promoting false teaching…key word here…OBLIGATED. Jesus was certainly no wimp. But, we are to do this with the utmost respect and charity. Pope Francis, I must admit, at least so far is not my ‘favorite’ Pontiff, but I will pray for him and follow his directive unless he is teaching error. Also, I think we might be wise to give him a chance. He is still only a year and a half into his Papacy, and has a HUGE responsibility, and is from a culture we are not very familiar with. (at least I am not) He certainly has a different way of not only expressing himself, but also in the informal interviews he gives, that I am not used to, and I’m not sure any of us are. Sure he may say things that are hard to understand, and maybe sometimes questionable, but until he (or any Pope) directs the Bishops to start condoning (say for instance) abortion, and/or directs the Bishops to bless gay unions, only then do I believe we have a real problem. (I’m exaggerating here, but y’all get my drift) In the mean time…‘Watch and Pray’ …Pray for him and the entire Church,This is at least my personal motto.
 
I’m amazed that any Catholic would presume to question the infallibilty of the Pope!
He is the spokesman for Christ on Earth.
If he spoke sternly about rules, sins and sexual matters, some people on this thread would be applauding.
Please at least read those 10 secrets to happiness again.
God bless you.
 
I am not sure what you are asking. My point was that Christ’s message is that when we gather in His name, He is among us. He is encouraging us to pray together. He not encouraging us to merely gather. IN HIS NAME is important.
This made me just realize that being with family, esp with one’s spouse, IS being gathered in His name, if the couple made a vow of Holy Matrimony, if the children were baptized in His name and the parents have committed to raise the children Catholic. Then whenver they are together, they are together “in His name.” Even when they are fighting 🙂

It’s like this, one does not always have to be on their knees praying throughout the whole day to sanctify the day and offer it to God.

I learned this simple prayer I say in the morning, and even though in the hurry-burry rush of the day I’m not focused a whole lot on God, and often fall into various sins and imperfections, the prayer has already offered it all to God:

“My God I offer You this day all I think & do & say
to united it with what on earth was done by Jesus Christ thy son.”
 
I am not sure what you are asking. My point was that Christ’s message is that when we gather in His name, He is among us. He is encouraging us to pray together. Hie not encouraging us to merely gather. IN HIS NAME is important.
Sorry. Then I.misunderstood you.
The interview to Pope Francis lasted 77 minutes. The magazine is called Viva which comes out on Sundays together with probably the newspaper that sells the most in his homeland…I have.just listened to a brief part of it. He is having a.conversation , as I said it lasted 77 minutes. It was held in a very warm and friendly atmosphere .so itbwas meant.for a.huge and varied audience who knows him well. That was all . It was.very accesible and easy to understand . I loved it.
 
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y sun;12237046]I would think the Pope would assume Catholic families would be going to Church together on Sunday. Did he really need to put out a list of what families would or should be doing together?
We just listen to him… We understand what he means , he does not need to mention God , we know he is the Pope so what he is saying is for our good and is good. No further need to question when he is having a friendly conversation we appreciate as if he were sitting at our table at home speaking to us. That is all.
 
He said that because he’s not only talking to Catholic/Christians. The article doesn’t even mention God. He was just saying how everyone can live happier lives.
This is the biggest problem I have with this list. One cannot live a truly happy life without God, and the fact that he didn’t mention God once raises a red flag, no matter who his intended audience is. This “Top 10” could have been found in any number of books from the self-help section of a Barnes and Noble. I pray that somehow this is a mistranslation or once again the media taking his words out of context.
 
I’m amazed that any Catholic would presume to question the infallibilty of the Pope!
He is the spokesman for Christ on Earth.
If he spoke sternly about rules, sins and sexual matters, some people on this thread would be applauding.
Please at least read those 10 secrets to happiness again.
God bless you.
Infallibility is widely misunderstood. I must admit, it can be confusing, but the Pope is only infallible ‘ex cathedra’ which means ‘from the chair’. In his directives to the Church on Catholic Doctrine or to declare a new Dogma. I don’t think off the cuff interviews or remarks qualify him to be infallible. Only if he were to pronounce something new or clarify a Doctrine. Oh, and BTW, to contradict an existing Doctrine is also not infallible. Infallibility does tend to trip a lot of people up.
 
This is the biggest problem I have with this list. One cannot live a truly happy life without God, and the fact that he didn’t mention God once raises a red flag, no matter who his intended audience is. This “Top 10” could have been found in any number of books from the self-help section of a Barnes and Noble. I pray that somehow this is a mistranslation or once again the media taking his words out of context.
Larsont7, I may have missed it. Has anybody here posted the full interview somewhere?
Thanks
 
I’m amazed that any Catholic would presume to question the infallibilty of the Pope!
He is the spokesman for Christ on Earth.
If he spoke sternly about rules, sins and sexual matters, some people on this thread would be applauding.
Please at least read those 10 secrets to happiness again.
God bless you.
I agree. Folks want a Pope who says what they think he should say.

We, as Catholics, are to love and respect- and learn from this Pope- and ANY Pope- be they a pontificating stern type, or a looser gentle type.

We can’t and shouldn’t make the Pope in our image of what a good Pope would look like or act like. He, ANY POPE, is acting- even when not making formal proclamations- under the influence of the Holy Spirit.

And I have a feeling that God would look askance to those who would disparage the Roman Pontiff.
 
Jesus spoke in parables so his disciples could understand. It does take time for me to understand what Jesus means but I am happy his disciples did and carried the message. I am happy THEY understood.

Pope Francis is speaking to an audience that understands what he is saying or that is accessible to the varied audience he is addressing . Moreover,just by looking at him,I am reminded that there is much room for improvement in my life and he makes me willing to try.

Why can t we be happy that the message is getting through somewhere?

Why can’ t we be at least generous if we can’t be obedient?

Why do we have to put every word he says under a microscope to make sure he is Roman Catholic?

This is what " live and let live" means to me. Move foward and let others move foward.
God bless you
 
This made me just realize that being with family, esp with one’s spouse, IS being gathered in His name, if the couple made a vow of Holy Matrimony, if the children were baptized in His name and the parents have committed to raise the children Catholic. Then whenver they are together, they are together “in His name.” Even when they are fighting 🙂

It’s like this, one does not always have to be on their knees praying throughout the whole day to sanctify the day and offer it to God.

I learned this simple prayer I say in the morning, and even though in the hurry-burry rush of the day I’m not focused a whole lot on God, and often fall into various sins and imperfections, the prayer has already offered it all to God:

“My God I offer You this day all I think & do & say
to united it with what on earth was done by Jesus Christ thy son.”
Of course we don’t have to be on our knees in order to make a day holy.

I don’t know how my post made you realize that being with family is gathering in His name. It surely is not what I intended.

Gathering in God’s name is not a passive thing. Having the benefits of sacraments such as Marriage and Baptism do not mean that every time we are together that we are gathered in God’s name. A Baptized Christian can forget about God and leave Him out of his life. The same is true for married couples.

Let’s praise God, worship Him, and go about doing His work together. We have the benefit of Jesus among us.
 
Of course we don’t have to be on our knees in order to make a day holy.

I don’t know how my post made you realize that being with family is gathering in His name. It surely is not what I intended.

Gathering in God’s name is not a passive thing. Having the benefits of sacraments such as Marriage and Baptism do not mean that every time we are together that we are gathered in God’s name. A Baptized Christian can forget about God and leave Him out of his life. The same is true for married couples.

Let’s praise God, worship Him, and go about doing His work together. We have the benefit of Jesus among us.
Maybe I was stretching it way too much. It was just an interesting idea that popped into my head. However, it could also be said that God is everywhere at all times, and would be “more present” in sacramental situations, such as Holy Matrimony and Baptism, and these don’t end when the ceremony is over.

I also thought of the scene from Fiddler on the Roof where the parents are planning weddings for their children, and the old woman says to the old man something like “Do you love me? You never tell me you love me?”

The old man answers, “I told you that 30 years ago.”

Here’s my secret to happiness: Don’t expect anything from anyone.
But maybe that’s more of a secret to get out of frustration and sadness.
 
I don’t trust this news source one little bit, and the fact that this article has such a secular slant to it, devoid of spiritual content (I guess we’re supposed to read between the lines) just confirms my dislike.
 
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