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Liberian
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the Hatter said:*“Can someone help me with this? I don’t understand devotion to Mary very well at all. I do believe in her intercession, but the above confuses me. Why do we cry out to Mary? Why do we need confidence in her (like, for what really?), How is Mary the fountain of life? Why are we under her shadow and protection? Crossing of arms?”
*That’s almost precisely what I was going to ask. I do most definitely believe in praying to Mary for her intercession, and in honoring her, and that she was the mother of Jesus and never sinned—but this seems excessive. We Catholics keep on saying that we do not worship Mary–we venerate her–but I am seeing more and more stuff that is seeming like worship, and it kinda scares me. I’m not trying to start a flame fest here, I’d just like some answers.
I don’t pretend to have all the answers, but let me try offering a couple. One answer, which is really a question first, is what constitutes an act of worship. In my far Protestant (Baptist) days I noticed that our church services consisted largely of hymns, prayers, and a sermon; thus I tend to associate these actions with worship. In the Catholic Church, we worship God by offering the sacrifice of the Mass. In the Old Testament as well, worshipping was usually done by sacrifice. We do not offer sacrifices to Mary or any of the other saints. The question at hand, then, is whether hymns and prayers constitute worship.
A second difference between actions towards God and towards the saints (including Mary) deals with the nature of our prayers. Petitions to Mary are always “please intercede with God on our behalf.” In the litanies, the response addressed to Mary and the other saints is always “pray for us;” the response addressed to God is “have mercy on us.” We never ask Mary to have mercy on us and we never ask God to pray for us.
Why would we want to be under Mary’s protection and care? If the alternative is not to be under her protection and care, all other things being equal, the answer is obvious. If the alternative is to be under Jesus’ protection and care directly, the answer is not so obvious. I would note that in most families the mother is the nurturer and the father is the enforcer of the rules, so it would stand to reason that many people are more comfortable with a mother figure than a father figure. But I am getting in way over my head here.
- Liberian