Wow, problem with it or not, I have never heard such a thing… Where did this priest get his ideas?
That our sins should bring forth occasion to reflect upon the state of our relationship with God, and the obstacles that they present in entering into union with Him in His holy Eucharist? I don’t know…maybe it’s just something I dreamed up in my crazy Oriental mind.

I would think that this would be an uncontroversial point, however (hence my having no problem with it when I was told that if you miss confession and have something to confess, you do not approach for communion).
I was actually under the impression that we were, for once, simply engaged in a rather pleasant cordial exchange
Oh good, me too!
I know what it is, but in this instance (communion in mortal sin without prior confession) this economia is not practiced except in very serious circumstances that genuinely deprive one of the options normally available to Catholics (to go to confession)
All economia is practiced in serious circumstances (keeping in mind that we don’t have a separation of sins into different categories), because if you have a rule that someone cannot follow, it is a serious problem for their spiritual development. That is why it is modified in the first place, because we work to do what we can do, not to burn ourselves out trying to do what we can’t.
It’s just Latins adhering to their practice as always, why do we have to give it a label?
To illustrate how its character is its own? I don’t know. I guess we don’t, if you don’t have to, but I have to keep calling it
something, to the extent that it differs.
This makes no sense. Do you see non-orthodox individuals who may want to receive in your church as persons or just as a category?

The only non-Orthodox people who attend our liturgies know not to receive, so I am not sure how to answer this one. Every person is a person, and their being able/eligible to receive communion in the COC has to do with their baptism first and foremost (since you’ve brought up non-Orthodox, this
is the distinction we would make), and not really to do with their “state”, since of course we have no stated opinion on the sacraments of those outside of our communion.
This just seems to say that if a rule is strict, then the people are not seen as persons but as fitting into categories.
No, I mean to say that the category of properly disposed vs. not properly disposed (which I would think is a pretty good category, as categories go

) is determined with reference to mortal sin (which is not even a concept we have), so if you do X, you can’t receive communion, but if you do Y, you can. So it
is fitting people into a conceptual category, rather than, as Constantine has put it, looking at their whole lives and seeing where they are, which is how we do it, too.
I’m sure our absolute prohibition against homosexual affairs does not mean that we do not see the individuals who deal with this as merely fitting categories instead of as persons.

I’m not seeing the connection. Are we talking past each other by this point?
Again, it makes no sense to me.And in ten years of Catholicism I have never once heard a Roman Catholic priest ask people if they are in a state of grace!
Ah, indeed! Neither did I…
but…is this the operative principle by which a person is told he may either receive communion or abstain coming up to receive? I think it is. It’s not even bad as an operative principle, either, it’s all in how it is approached. If it is approached categorically, then I think it is wrong, but if it is approached holistically (hat tip to Issanjose; great way to put it!), then it is right.
In fact no Catholic priest presumes to deny persons who present themselves for communion, they’re all presumed to be there because they are well prepared. This teaching is for everyone’s personal consideration before approaching the alter, not for priests to start inquiring of people
Oh, I know. I always marveled during my days as a Latin Catholic at how people could show up for Easter or Christmas but not during the rest of the year, and still take communion. May the Lord have mercy upon those who receive in error or confusion. In some ways I guess you could say that the Latin approach is
more difficult as it is mostly self-directed, whereas in the East it is in consultation with your spiritual father who will deny you if there is reason to. If you will be given at all times, as in the Latin Church, who will measure your progress? I wouldn’t want to measure my own, that’s for sure.
I have been going to confession regularly for six years now. I don’t get what fixed penances you’re referring to
Forgive me for not being clear, I was referring here to the mortal v. venial sin distinction again. You did this X number of times, so do X number of (hail Marys, glory be’s, whatever). If my father in the COC said that to me, I think I’d fall of out of my chair. But I remember those types of penances being assigned in the RCC, along with other types (e.g., practice a certain virtue).
I’m beginning to think you just never had a good or authentic Latin experience, five years or not. Not like mine anyway.
Well if yours is the only authentic way, then maybe not, but I think my priests in the RCC did a good job, usually. I would hate to chalk up my own apostasy to some supposed incompetence on their part, when that is not even something I entertained when I first began to sense that I could not honestly remain a Catholic.