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Well, I did come up hearing sermons about “sabre tooth faggots” and the like.Hey man. I don’t really know what to say to comfort you because our beliefs differ.![]()
Thanks. I need a lot of prayer.I can feel your pain though and I will pray for you.![]()
Well, it’s sometimes “do you have kids?” and other questions like that. Considering how loathsome I see myself, the fact that someone would ask ME if I had offspring is rather inconceivable. I don’t see anyone wanting to combine their genes with mine…God only knows what would come out from that.I’m sorry that people ask you “why aren’t you married?” It’s none of their business.![]()
Among most people, I could care less who knows. My family knows, my co-workers know. It’s people in the Church I have to take care with.I’m also sorry that you feel like you need to stay in the closet. I can’t sit here and tell you in good faith to come out. That is a personal choice that someone needs to make all on their own. I do want to say though that many people are very accepting of homosexuals. Including Catholics.
Most people my age are married with families, so I’m always the odd man out. When people talk about their lives since I have no family, I just have to sit there and smile and feel like a complete outsider.You CAN have a normal social life though. Why don’t you think you can??
Co-workers talk about their kids or their wives or husbands and I just sit there and smile. I don’t like going to Church because I feel like a freak who people will find out and shun me from any apostolate in the Church, so I stay away.
St. Paul kinda indicates that homosexuality is a curse in Romans 1:26-27, “For this reason, God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful.”I’m very sorry that you feel your homosexuality is a curse. All I can say though is that God made you this way and He must have had a good and righteous reason to and that God does not “curse” people.
Now I don’t know in what way I offended God in order to deserve this curse, but apparently, He’s angry with me for something or He wouldn’t have dumped this curse on me.
What I said is that since homosexual people aren’t welcomed into the priesthood or religious life and they can’t get married, that leaves one relegated to the non-consecrated perpetual single state, or unholy (non-consecrated) loneliness (single state) forever (perpetual).I can’t really help you with the last part of your post because like I said our views differ. But I don’t think the Church says that gay people are “unholy”. That would be like saying a gay person can never go to Heaven because they are not holy. The Church does not teach that. The Church teaches that everyone is a child of God and all have the opportunity to go to Heaven.![]()
