I still think this is WAY off-topic, but I will humor you for a moment, assuming you have some point
from
dictionary.com:
Personal:
6.done, carried out, held, etc., in person: a personal interview.
Relationship:
3. A particular type of connection existing between people related to or having dealings with each other:
has a close relationship with his siblings.
there are other definitions of personal and relationship, but these are the ones referred to. I’m talking about the difference between knowing *about *Jesus and
knowing Him. I can read about George Washington, or Jim Elliot and know tons of info about them. It’s not the same as KNOWING George Washington or Jim Elliot.
Here are Biblical references that show we are supposed to know God, not just know about Him and we are to let Jesus live through us (bold mine):
1 John 4 6We are from God, and
whoever knows God listens to us; but whoever is not from God does not listen to us. This is how we recognize the Spirit of truth and the spirit of falsehood.
John 14 15"If you love me, you will obey what I command. 16And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor to be with you forever— 17the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for
he lives with you and will bec] in you. 18I will not leave you as orphans;
I will come to you. 19Before long, the world will not see me anymore,
but you will see me. Because I live, you also will live.
20On that day you will realize that I am in my Father, and you are in me, and I am in you.
21Whoever has my commands and obeys them, he is the one who loves me. He who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I too will love him and show myself to him." 22Then Judas (not Judas Iscariot) said, “But, Lord, why do you intend to show yourself to us and not to the world?”
23Jesus replied, "If anyone loves me, he will obey my teaching. My Father will love him, and
we will come to him and make our home with him.
1 Cor 6
5Do you not know that your bodies are **members of Christ himself? **
…
19Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit,
who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20you were bought at a price.
So what we are saying is “know Jesus, not just about Him” and" allow the Holy Spirit to live in you and through you". No sane pastor preaches that a BAD relationship with Jesus is acceptable to be saved. They mean a good one. The Scriptures give TONS of info on how to have that relationship… but you asked only what a “personal relationship” is, not how to have a good one, so I’ll stop here.