We have to be very careful. Many who do not wear habits are also very faithful men and women religious. I know the Missionary Brothers of Charity, founded by Mother Teresa. You would never know one if you passed him on the street. When you see them at work, prayer and in community life, there is no doubt that they are truly brothers to each other and to the poor. They don’t wear a habit. Mother Teresa prohibited it, because the habit is not an Indian custom. Her order had to dress as Indians dress. Indian men don’t wear robes, crucifixes or a particular religious garb as did European religious men.
The Brothers of Mary are unrecognizable, However, this is what makes them very faithful. The founder prohibited a habit or any distinctive sign. He wanted his brothers to be blend in with secular educators. Therefore, they never wear a habit or a collar. They never had one.
The Sisters of Charity of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton have an interesting story regarding the habit. St. Elizabeth never created a habit for them. The early sisters loved her so dearly that they adopted the widow’s garb that she wore until her death. It was not a habit. Elizabeth dressed in her morning clothes, because she mourned her husband until her own death. In the 1980s, Pope John Paul would tell them to put aside the widow’s garb, because Elizabeth did not wear it because she was a sister, but because she was a widow. There is a letter that was found among the belongings of Bishop John Carroll, who co-founded the Sisters of Charity with Mother Seton. In this letter, Mother brought several things to the attention of the bishop as conditions for accepting the position as superior of the Sisters of Charity.
She would not be bound to wear a religious habit, because it would create a barrier between her and her children. She would not live in a cloister. She would never make perpetual vows, but renew them annually, leaving her free to leave religious life if her children needed her. She would bring her children into the community house, which would never be called a convent, because she did not want her children growing up in a convent. She wanted them to grow up in a home.
These women who follow her lead today are being very faithful religious. We would not want the Sisters of Charity to be anything different from what St. Elizabeth Ann had in mind.
Whenever you think about religious and faithfulness, try to think of the founder. If possible, try to find out something about the founder’s wishes for his or her community. That’s how you can judge faithfulness.
There are many religious who deviated from the vision of the founder and they paid a dear price. There are also many who are very faithful to their founders and are being unjustly accused of being less than faithful, because they are different from what we imagine a religious should be.
I’ll offer one more example, the Poor Clares. Many people do not know that in the rule for the Poor Clares, St. Francis and St. Clare said some rather radical things about the nuns’ habits. They were to be practical. They were to accommodate to the local culture. They were to accommodate the personality and tastes of the sisters. They were to be modest and simple. There is nothing in the Poor Clares’ rule that describes the habit. Therefore, you have 20,000 Poor Clares around the world in more than 500 different forms of dress, from suits to very complicated Benedictine habits. All of these women are being faithful to St. Francis and St. Clare, even the ones in simple suits. Actually, they’re more like Catholic school uniforms.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF