I’ve used BSafe for about 5 years. It is a proxy so you basically surf through BSafe’s servers and they do the filtering there. So basically you can’t get around it on your local machine. You can selectively restrict content and access to services like chat, limewire, Kazaa, etc. It can be a bit restrictive at times, but I’ve been very happy with it.
There are two versions, one allows you to enter a password and allow access to the blocked content on a case by case basis. The other just blocks it and you have no ability to override it. That version is for folks who feel they can’t avoid the temptation and would be prone to override the filter.
I’ve heard that AOLs content filters are pretty decent, but I’ve never cared for AOL. I pay enough for broadband without paying them on top of it.
For what it’s worth, I also use a spam blocker called Spamrival (
www.spamrival.com)). It is a challenge-response approach. I know, I know, lot’s of people don’t like CR blockers and I appreciate the objections. But it works for me. I haven’t gotten a spam message in years.
I also run the Microsoft Beta verison of their antispyware product (free at
microsoft.com) as well as another antispyware sniffer called Spybot - Search and Destroy. Also free. And I use a free antivirus program from Grisoft (
www.grisoft.com)).
I know, I’m cheap.

But BSafe and SpamRival cost money (BSafe is about $40 a year, and SR is about $15. Worth it to me to protect my kiddies.