Invalid Marriage & the Eucharist

[jesshhh26]

Hello,

I was raised Catholic and left the church for 15 years, during which time I entered into a civil marriage with a non-Catholic. We were divorced, and then I remarried another person in another civil marriage. Fast forward to a few months ago; I came back to the church and brought my civil spouse with me—he was also raised Catholic but left the church.

We visited our priest, and he told me that my first marriage was invalid. I am waiting on paperwork for an annulment. We are both going to confession weekly and mass multiple times during the week. We have been remaining abstinent during this time until our marriage can be validated, as both of us have felt called to do so.

My priest never said we could not take communion. He did mention regularly attending confession during this time. I am wondering if it was to be understood that we should not participate in the Eucharist, or if him not saying anything about it just means I/we still can. Do I need to wait until my annulment is official per the diocese and my current marriage is validated in the church, or does my priest stating my first marriage was invalid and remaining abstinent in the interim allow it now?

Thanks!

 

[HomeschoolDad]

Hello,

I was raised Catholic and left the church for 15 years, during which time I entered into a civil marriage with a non-Catholic. We were divorced, and then I remarried another person in another civil marriage. Fast forward to a few months ago; I came back to the church and brought my civil spouse with me—he was also raised Catholic but left the church.

We visited our priest, and he told me that my first marriage was invalid. I am waiting on paperwork for an annulment. We are both going to confession weekly and mass multiple times during the week. We have been remaining abstinent during this time until our marriage can be validated, as both of us have felt called to do so.

My priest never said we could not take communion. He did mention regularly attending confession during this time. I am wondering if it was to be understood that we should not participate in the Eucharist, or if him not saying anything about it just means I/we still can. Do I need to wait until my annulment is official per the diocese and my current marriage is validated in the church, or does my priest stating my first marriage was invalid and remaining abstinent in the interim allow it now?

Thanks!

If you are living in an abstinent "Josephite" marriage, provided no scandal is given, there is no reason you cannot receive communion, though I would recommend verifying this with the priest just to make sure.

If both you and your spouse were baptized Catholic, your marriage would be invalid due to having married in a civil ceremony (as would have been the first putative marriage), but just from the facts you present, it doesn't sound like an annulment would be hard to get. Indeed, when it is a case of a Catholic marrying outside of the Church, it is ipso facto invalid, and only requires documentation that you never had a valid marriage to begin with. When lack of canonical form (viz. marrying in a civil ceremony) is the only invalidating factor, it is ordinarily not difficult, indeed, it can't even strictly be called an "annulment", but standard procedure still needs to be followed.

I noted the possibility of scandal. Are your fellow parishioners aware that you married outside the Church? If not, I see no problem. But do discuss this with your priest and make sure it is okay for you to receive communion.