Invitation by Homosexual daughter

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Raxus I am explaining to you the basics of how to influence people and regain some form or credidibility re your views that may assist not just on CAF but in life in general.

You presumably post here to influence other persons who are just as sincere and open to correction as yourself. And presumably you consider true Church teaching a useful way to do that. To do that credibly you need to demonstrate that your interpretation of life, or Church views, actually is what you opine it is.

Simply saying “I know” doesnt cut it. You arent a priest with years of theological training, pastoral experience and a network of priests and bishops that link him to the understanding of Rome.

You are a nobody…like most of us on CAF.
You therefore must appeal to authority other than your own to influence people. Simply shouting, making sarcastic comments etc etc that you might use with your face to face encounters isnt going to work. Brute verbal force is not an authority that works online with anyone other than young impressionable teenagers.

The usual authority that people make use of to influence others here is quoting respected sources (especially the Magisterium itself), Scripture (which usually doesnt work well as it requires interpretation most of the time), or make a reasoned logical argument.

You use none of these methods when challenged. When a young contributor does not use any of these methods they will influence nobody but just make themselves look as if they are just emotionally venting. Thats a fairly solipsistic sort of self indulgent habit to demonstrate in public.
Most readers simply get bored and start ignoring that sort of poster.

So I hope this politely explains why I (and likely other mature readers) are going to do likewise from this point forward. Unless of course you come to your senses in this regard.
God bless.
 
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Raxus I am explaining to you the basics of how to influence people and regain some form or credidibility re your views that may assist not just on CAF but in life in general.
I did not ask for these, so thank you, but you may stop.
You presumably post here to influence other persons who are just as sincere and open to correction as yourself. And presumably you consider true Church teaching a useful way to do that. To do that credibly you need to demonstrate TO ME ALONE that your interpretation of life, or Church views, actually is what you opine it is.
Fixed what you actually meant in this paragraph.
Simply saying “I know” doesnt cut it. You arent a priest with years of theological training, pastoral experience and a network of priests and bishops that link him to the understanding of Rome.
Never claimed to be. But I don’t need to be a priest to know bullcrap when I see it.
You are a nobody…like most of us on CAF.

You therefore must appeal to authority other than your own to influence people.
The truth doesn’t need defending. You put it out there, and people believe it or they don’t. It will continue to be true either way.
Simply shouting, making sarcastic comments etc etc that you might use with your face to face encounters isnt going to work.
A lot of assumptions you have going here. You don’t know me.
Brute verbal force is not an authority that works online with anyone other than young impressionable teenagers.
Then I suggest you stop using it.
The usual authority that people make use of to influence others here is quoting respected sources (especially the Magisterium itself), Scripture (which usually doesnt work well as it requires interpretation most of the time), or make a reasoned logical argument THAT I AND I ALONE AGREE WITH.
Fixed this paragraph too.
You use none of these methods when challenged. When a young contributor does not use any of these methods they will influence nobody but just make themselves look as if they are just emotionally venting. Thats a fairly solipsistic sort of self indulgent habit to demonstrate in public.

Most readers simply get bored and start ignoring that sort of poster.
Then by all means, ignore me. I won’t cry, I promise you. 😉
So I hope this politely explains why I (and likely other mature readers) are going to do likewise from this point forward. Unless of course you come to your senses in this regard.

God bless.
Peace out, cub scout.
 
Great Christian advice…such staunchness will surely win the sort of converts from sincere seculars that we need.
 
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Great Christian advice…such staunchness will surely win the sort of converts from sincere seculars that we need.
Yes, how DARE they actually live their faith and demonstrate that some things are more important than simply feeling good.
 
Yes, how DARE they actually live their faith and demonstrate that some things are more important than simply feeling good.
When one is not yet capable of robust reasoning or matters are complex and confused then, as Aquinas notes somewhere, following one’s instinct’s is more likely to be good than doing the puritan opposite.

Nature teaches the same. That’s what “good feelings” are for - survival.

We learn from our mistakes. It is easier to correct mistakes from doing what feels right than mistakes from being taught bad.
 
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When one is not yet capable of robust reasoning or matters are complex and confused then, as Aquinas notes somewhere, following one’s instinct’s is more likely to be good than doing the puritan opposite.
“Puritan” now describes the societal norm of bowing to the idea of a homosexual union. My instincts tell me that this is a bad idea for all involved. Glad to see Aquinas has got my back.
Nature teaches the same. That’s what “good feelings” are for - survival.
Not in the sense that you’re trying to wedge them into.
We learn from our mistakes.
Hopefully.
It is easier to correct mistakes from doing what feels right than mistakes from being taught bad.
What do you mean by this? Can you give an example, please?
 
What do you mean by this? Can you give an example, please?
You and some comments on this thread that attendance is the same as actually committing homosexual acts is a perfect example. I get it you disagree.
 
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You and some comments on this thread that attendance is the same as actually committing homosexual acts is a perfect example.
That is not what I said, you are mistaken. Attendance would be tacitly approving those acts.
 
Raxus its fairly clear you argue for the sake of arguing, even unto triviality and the “last word”.
Be my guest…
 
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@Raxus @BlackFriar Now you two play nice, or we might have to put you in separate threads until you can get along. No, I don’t want to hear who started it! Behave.
 
Raxus its fairly clear you argue for the sake of arguing, even unto triviality and the “last word”.

Be my guest…
No, I don’t. And thank you, I accept. 😉
@Raxus @BlackFriar Now you two play nice, or we might have to put you in separate threads until you can get along. No, I don’t want to hear who started it! Behave.
@BlackFriar won’t quit looking at me!!! 🤣
 
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