Yellow Belle, LOL. You really are Irish, with the temper to go along with it!

My great grandfather was from Ireland (George Thomas Evans). He had bright red hair, as does my grandson.
Anyway, what I posted is a generalization, not an all-inclusive statement. Certainly, there would be exceptions, you being one. However, it is a well-known (?) fact that vocations come from God, and are the fruit of doing His will within the Church of that area. If the faithful are, for the most part, doing God’s will, then vocations will flourish. If they’re not, then there is a vocation shortage. There’s an old Latin phrase that says that we cannot give what we do not have. We cannot pass on the faith to young men who may be called to the priesthood if we’re not living our faith as God intends. There is a worldliness that has crept into the Church in many areas, the result of which, among other things, is a decrease in vocations.
I’m not condemning you or any other individual in particular. I’m just saying that you are experiencing the fruits, or lack thereof, of the Church in your area. It is what it is.
I find it interesting that you would take issue with what I’m saying. If you and I went out to a fancy restaurant to eat a fine meal, and I noticed that you had a booger hanging out of your nose, that you didn’t notice, would it be best that I not say anything so as not to risk embarrassing you? Or would the really charitable thing be to let you know, so that you can deal with it before going in a crowded public place where everyone could see it? The same is true for the spiritual life. Many people, and regions where the Church is, have spiritual boogers hanging from their souls. LOL We can either ignore them, and act like we’re whistling while walking through the graveyard at night, hoping no one notices, or we can deal with it straight up. Which do you think would be more advisable?