Hi, Limerick,
From the sounds of things, you are still trapped in that 15-year old’s rather bitter and stilted world view. Truly it is time to move on. Maybe, being a Cradle Catholic myself, I can help. Let’s see now…
“Placed in jeopardy…”, eh? Well, another way to view this is no matter what else has happened, your parents probably did the best they were capable of. Does this mean that they did the best thing every time and under every circumstance? No. Just the best that they were capable of at that time. Now, chances are… if you were to do some research, you may find that being a Child of God through Baptism makes us heirs to the unimaginable Love of God - which is a pretty good deal in itself. Considering the alternative, it is truly great! Ah, but the plot thickens…
How does a drunk do the best he is capable of? How does a woman who lives in fear of the drunk do the best she is capable of? Yes, I was baptized and if that makes me an heir to the “unimaginable Love of God”, well, how long does one wait to experience this? Do we wait and wait and wait until life runs out and we haven’t time or strength left to wait?
It seems like the only thing that, “…goes on and on…” is your adolescent rant. Surely you are chronologically older then 15 now … the challenge before you is show some psychological and emotional maturity. Honestly, if this is an area you consider, “…abuse of the most innocent…” you have not been too attentive to what has been going on in the world. So, you are complaining about not being properly taught? And, just how long are you going to whine about poor teachers - and get off of your soap box and do some studying on your own. You can view this as an opportunity to show those “…do gooders…” that you are capable of reading, researching, and formulating conclusions from evidence you have obtained from objective sources.
**Yes, I am capable of reading, researching, studying. I have plenty of Catholic Approved Books in my home, including the Catechism and the Bible. The challenge before me is not to “show some psychological and emotional maturity”. It is, instead, to develop some kind of relationship with God that is not based on what tqualey so haughtily tosses down from the Pinnacle of Knowledge. And if by “objective sources” you mean right-leaning, conservative, Vatican-approved references, then you are the one not being objective.
I will continue to whine about poor catechesis as long as anyone will listen. In addition to that, I will not pursue any further independent study of Catholicism because in my heart of hearts I distrust the Church. You all say it hasn’t changed in 2,000 years. Bull. Doctrine has changed and lots of folks are still up in arms about Vatican II. Because I “rant” and you disagree with what I write, is this the sole criterion for your finding my writings psychologically and emotionally immature? From whom to you derive such authority?**
Your complaint about Gregory the Great (540 - 604) is truly intriguing … I really haven’t heard many folks complain about him since the last discussion on the calendar! But, it is Purgatory that has you …enflamed…?

Well, it could be that getting some solid information on what the CC teaches about Purgatory would be helpful… and here are two excellent links on that very topic:
newadvent.org/cathen/12575a.htm (Please note that Purgatory became of Doctrine of Faith under Pope Martin V at the Council of Florence in 1431 … or, about 827 years after Gregory the Great died!

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catholic.com/thisrock/2005/0511sbs.asp
**I have read what the Church currently teaches about Purgatory. Tell me where the word “Purgatory” is found in the Bible. **
Seriously, if you spend some time studying the material presented on these two sites, you will have a better understanding of exactly what the CC is teaching. This does not mean you will agree with it - only, since I do not know exactly what it is you are objecting to speciic to Purgatory - this is probably the best way to proceed. We move from fact onward to the formulation of personal behavior.
“Plays fair…”? As a currently livid and still trapped (former?)15-year old are you into ‘games’ (playing?)
"If anything, your remarks inspire me to step up my game." Is this what you’re referring to? Without reference it’s hard to go back, but please remember that this is just a colloquialism. I don’t play games per se.
If you were not aware of this - let me be the first to tell you: you are perfectly free to spread your wings and soar to whatever academic height you choose.
This, unfortunately, is not true for me. I do the best I can with what I have.
Thoroughly and diligently research every topic the you think has not been well (or fairly) presented. Looking at every side, every concept, and every opinion - develop your own to your own satisfaction. There now: you’re free! Serioulsy, you have had this ability all along - no reason for continuing in your bitterness. At some point, you will have to take responsibility for how you are responding to your childhood.
**Aside from 45 years of psychotherapy, confession, prayer, discussions with one parent while she was still alive, comparative talks with my siblings . . . what would you suggest? **
What are you going to do about it?
Nothing more. I have my answer and it is not your answer.
Well… if you continue to be livid… you will continue to be a slave to your emotion of hatred.
Great. Good armor to see me through to the tragic end.
(INTERMISSION)