Is Christian faith necessary for Selfless Love?

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Why is Kolbe’s sacrifice more loving than the soldier’s? I see a quantitative difference - slow death vs instant.
Well, for one big reason is that Kolbe exists.

This hypothetical atheist who has jumped on a grenade is thus far just a theory.

Quantitative is pretty significant in this case, don’t you think?

Not to mention there’s the qualitative difference of the motivation of AGAPE.
 
If the atheist military guy knew his buddy whose life he is trying to protect had a wife and family at home, would you consider that an equally profoundly loving act? (No I don’t have any specific names 🙂 )
I don’t know. Let me see the evidence and I’ll discern.
If so, what is the difference, bc the only difference I see is the length of time but maybe I am missing something. I don’t know beyond a dictionary definition what agape is so can you explain why the soldier is not displaying agape love?
Because he’s not motivated by agape. The act itself may be brave indeed. Heroic. Worthy of medals.

But if it’s not motivated by agape, then it’s not a profoundly loving act, naturally.
 
Actually, you would probably be surprised that the Church does allow civil divorce in cases of legal issues (retaining care of children, inheritances, etc), but the divorced couple are still married in the eyes of God so remarriage is still quite impossible.
One should also note that divorce and separation are two totally different ideas. Separation is allowed in the Catholic faith, divorce is not.
With the unspoken expectation that the parties to the divorce must remain devoid of the comfort of a loving partner, on pain of “living in sin”.
I also do not believe you actually read the article you cite here. It states rather clearly in two separate locations:
“…the Catholic Church’s decision to excommunicate the mother and doctors of a nine-year-old rape victim…” (first sentence of the very first paragraph)
“The young girl at the centre of the case escaped excommunication only because she is still a child in the eyes of Church authorities.” (second sentence of the last paragraph)
I do not see how that is at all ambiguous or confusing in the least. The girl who received the abortion was not excommunicated, the girl’s mother and her doctors were. Pretty sure that is in line with the Church’s teaching on procuring abortion (cf CCC 2272).
Oh, well, if it was only the mother and the doctors… Sheesh. What was I thinking? They couldn’t possibly have been acting out of compassionate concern, in the interests of the girl who was nine years old at the time she was made pregnant by an act of rape. And, as you point out, the girl’s youth was the only reason she was not condemned. Meaning that had she been above the age of consent, she would have been excommunicated for not fulfilling the misogynistic expectation that she should carry a rapist’s child. And you seem curiously silent on the lack of sanctions against the rapist…
 
Nope. Haven’t done a search at all either.

But I have posed this question multiple times over the years to atheists of all different flavors. Not a single one has come up with this PAK…so…
🤷 So?

I can personally give you the names of my ancestors who fought and died in World War I and II. It took decades for their contribution and roles to be recognized - they didn’t even have citizenship of their own country at the time. Medals and Honors earned that were never given because hey, they weren’t, you know, proper people, like the Europeans!

But hey, I’m not going to. I don’t need to prove anything, to you, or anyone else.

And I’m most certainly not going to have their names pimped about in a my dad is bigger than yours competition. I have too much respect for them, and owe them too much, as my ancestors, for their sacrifices.
Particluarly when it’s to do nothing else but prove a point to an unknown person on the internet 🤷
Said the girl whose dad smaller. In fact, nonexistent in this context. 🤷
:D:D:D

I don’t know if you meant to prove my point for me, but thanks anyhow 😃

Sarah x 🙂
 
Oh, well, if it was only the mother and the doctors… Sheesh. What was I thinking? They couldn’t possibly have been acting out of compassionate concern, in the interests of the girl who was nine years old at the time she was made pregnant by an act of rape. And, as you point out, the girl’s youth was the only reason she was not condemned. Meaning that had she been above the age of consent, she would have been excommunicated for not fulfilling the misogynistic expectation that she should carry a rapist’s child. And you seem curiously silent on the lack of sanctions against the rapist…
Excuse me, Sair, but your ignorance of Catholicism is again manifesting itself.

Excommunication is not the same as condemning.
 
🤷 So?

I can personally give you the names of my ancestors who fought and died in World War I and II. It took decades for their contribution and roles to be recognized - they didn’t even have citizenship of their own country at the time. Medals and Honors earned that were never given because hey, they’re weren’t, you know, proper people, like the Europeans!

But hey, I’m not going to. I don’t need to prove anything, to you, or anyone else.

And I’m most certainly not going to have their names pimped about in a my dad is bigger than yours competition. I have too much respect for them, and owe them too much, as my ancestors, for their sacrifices.
Particluarly when it’s to do nothing else but prove a point to an unknown person on the internet 🤷
Well, then, I’d like to see the eyewitness accounts of these ancestral heroes, and their professed atheism.

Nothing more than what is demanded of Believers in their apologia for Christianity. 🤷
 
He received his lethal injection in 1941, when it must have seemed the Nazis were at the height of their power and were set to rule the world. Most, if not all, of his family were already dead. He would have already been starving, and thirsty, day in day out, and it must have looked like there was no end to the hellish conditions they were in.

I have to wonder, since people don’t tend to be all good, or all bad, all the time, if a small part of his undoubtly supremely brave and honorable sacrifice could have been to end his own personal suffering and despair, but in a manner in which he saw some good coming as a result 🤷 Strictly speaking, I don’t think that would count as suicide, but the end result is the same, to end ones own personal suffering. I don’t know that’s what was going on, as I don’t know the state of his mind at the time he made the decision. Seems to me though, no one else does either.
The Church, as part of the canonization process, did investigate the circumstances of Kolbe’s death. Based on the evidence available (e.g., eyewitness testimony), it was determined that Kolbe’s act was truly altruistic. I think it’s telling that no one else volunteered. And there were “easier” exits if one wanted to end it all (e.g., like suddenly running towards the barb wire).

Believe it or not, Kolbe’s canonization process was pretty rigorous. Not only Kolbe’s sacrificial act but his entire life was subjected to great scrutiny.

Apparently, he was a tough nut to crack. He survived an amazingly long time in the underground bunker (and was singing joyfully through much of the ordeal). And he did not ask for an injection.

Of course, Kolbe would probably have said, if asked, that all of this was not his doing but was totally attributable to God’s grace.
 
I What possible difference does that make to me, other than to know, when it counts, there are some incredibly good and brave people in the world that you would wish to have your back 🤷
Oh, to be sure, Sarah, there is many an atheist that I would rather have at my back than some Christians.

That’s not my point.

My point is: where are the atheists who have given their lives, ala Maximilian Kolbe, out of agape?

And the fact that there are some atheists here who are providing apologia for this nonexistent PAK is curious indeed, given their very demanding criteria for evidence in all other areas.

It would appear that there are some atheists who have great faith in this nonexistent entity.

That’s fine. I don’t begrudge them that faith.

I just want them to keep this thread in the back of their mind whenever they’re arguing against a Believer using faith.

Just sayin’… 🤷
 
Joe Bloggs might get a wiki entry, he’ll get some local write ups as the guy who swopped places with the pregnant woman but there isn’t an organization for atheists to belong to, equivolent to the Catholic Church, that would publicize their good deeds on a world wide scale 🤷
Is there some first-hand accounts of his mutilation? Perhaps it’s a myth that was spread by some wide-eyed fanatics who didn’t know any better?

Also, is there some place that I can see his writings that declare he was an atheist?
 
He received his lethal injection in 1941, when it must have seemed the Nazis were at the height of their power and were set to rule the world. Most, if not all, of his family were already dead. He would have already been starving, and thirsty, day in day out, and it must have looked like there was no end to the hellish conditions they were in.
Don’t forget that he died with a smile on his face, singing the psalms. :gopray2:
 
Well, then, I’d like to see the eyewitness accounts of these ancestral heroes, and their professed atheism.

Nothing more than what is demanded of Believers in their apologia for Christianity. 🤷
Oh, they’re all there in the citations. I won’t be passing on any personal information to you though, or using their names and citations, or pimping their memories and sacrifices, just to prove a point to someone on the internet.

Sarah x 🙂
 
Of course, Kolbe would probably have said, if asked, that all of this was not his doing but was totally attributable to God’s grace.
I don’t doubt any of that, or the rigor of the Church investigation. And I most certainly do not in any way take anything from the courage and bravery of the man, regardless of his motivations. My point was it’s not possible to know his actual state of mind at the time, despite his outward actions and behaviors. I know of people who killed themselves, but that morning, kissed their wife and kids as normal, went to work as normal, did everything they did as normal, including getting the groceries on the way home, then pulled off the road, and killed themselves. Letters later found showed this was always their intention, and explaining why.
I’m not suggesting any such thoughts were going through this brave mans head, just it’s not possible to know the state of someones mind.

Sarah x 🙂
 
Oh, they’re all there in the citations. I won’t be passing on any personal information to you though, or using their names and citations, or pimping their memories and sacrifices, just to prove a point to someone on the internet.

Sarah x 🙂
And who could argue with that bit o’ evidence? :rolleyes:
 
But if it’s not motivated by agape, then it’s not a profoundly loving act, naturally.
This Agape word has been hijacked by Christianity.

In the original Greek, it meant nothing more than the love of one’s spouse and family, or of an activity.

Thomas Jay Oord has defined agape as "an intentional response to promote well-being when responding to that which has generated ill-being."

Given it’s original meaning and what Oord says above, the unfamiliar nurse and doctor in the ER positively radiate agape.

Sarah x 🙂
 
And who could argue with that bit o’ evidence? :rolleyes:
Save the :rolleyes: please.

You will not be getting any personal information from me, to prove anything to you. Simples really.

It is of no consequence to me, at all, and never will be, if you believe me or not, about anything. Ever.

But it matters greatly to me not to disrespect and pimp my ancestors sacrifices and memories and information, just to prove a point.

Sarah x 🙂
 
I don’t doubt any of that, or the rigor of the Church investigation. And I most certainly do not in any way take anything from the courage and bravery of the man, regardless of his motivations. My point was it’s not possible to know his actual state of mind at the time, despite his outward actions and behaviors. I know of people who killed themselves, but that morning, kissed their wife and kids as normal, went to work as normal, did everything they did as normal, including getting the groceries on the way home, then pulled off the road, and killed themselves. Letters later found showed this was always their intention, and explaining why.
I’m not suggesting any such thoughts were going through this brave mans head, just it’s not possible to know the state of someones mind.

Sarah x 🙂
Well, part of the canonization process is actually devoted to the person’s state of mind around the time of death.

And, if I’m not mistaken, Kolbe’s theology revolved around the role of redemptive suffering in the salvation of souls. So I doubt whether ending his own personal suffering ever entered his mind.

But I understand your point.

And I want to add that I know non-believers who are morally better than I am. And I don’t think that Christian faith is necessary for selfless love.
 
Perhaps it’s a myth that was spread by some wide-eyed fanatics who didn’t know any better?
LIke what the Church now refers to as ‘‘ahistorical’’ Saints you mean?

Declared Saints there’s not a single shred of actual evidence they ever existed.

Sarah x 🙂
 
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Of course, that misses the entire point of the Good News, which is, naturally, not about what Jesus taught (for every morally sane person–Jew *or *pagan–already knew that it was better to give than to receive, to turn the other cheek, to give your cloak to the one who has none, etc etc etc
Which is why, of course, the moral arguments for - or indeed against - the existence of gods tend not to work out so well. Something can be true and horrifying at one and the same time [edited] and whilst we may respect beliefs that result in good actions, that does not give those beliefs the stamp of truth. I did, in fact, come across an essay about Max Kolbe, which gave a very moving account of his actions whilst confined in Auschwitz; but then the essayist proceeded to blot his (or her) copybook by assuming that unbelievers take moral dictation from the facts of evolution and natural selection, and for that reason could never behave in a truly altruistic manner.
Oh, to be sure Catholics take the entire message of the Gospel–OT AND NT–and understand them in light of the source of Truth: Jesus Christ.
Which doesn’t ameliorate the appalling nature of many of the various “messages” conveyed by the scriptures. If anything, it allows the more horrific parts to be glossed over and ignored, and treats the idea of vicarious atonement as if it were not utterly reprehensible.
Actually, I was thinking bigger than that and talking about the existence of God. We believe in God not because it makes us act in a saintly way, but because it’s true. God exists. Therefore reasonable people believe in him.
Upon what basis do you claim it is true, though? There are no reasons, other than being told and taking it on faith. It is not reasonable, not in the same way that it is reasonable to accept propositions on the basis of evidence. As I believe I’ve already discussed, it is one thing to propose a theory that ‘explains’ everything, or a theory that can be made to fit with any possible fact one could hope to uncover - but such a theory is useless to the extent that there is actually no way to demonstrate that it is the correct explanation over and above some other explanation. You don’t - I might go so far as to say “can’t” - believe in your god on the basis of reason, because, as I said, there aren’t any reasons that couldn’t just as easily be reasons to believe in something else. You believe in your god because you have been taught and enculturated to accept his existence, on faith.
Huh? You can tell me that something is immoral?
If you can, it is only because you have conformed yourself to the divine law, which is written into your heart. Not to mention the fact that the indelible seal of baptism is on your immortal soul so if you do declare something to be true, in accord with God’s law, it is because you are cooperating with the grace that was given to you at your baptism. 🙂
Now you’re sounding like a presuppositionalist, coming through with yet another undemonstrable, unfalsifiable claim, and assuming that morality is or even could be something other than a naturally evolved human social feature. What I would say is that it seems rather absurd to suggest that I am only able to act morally because of my Catholic baptism when so many of my moral judgements run counter to those offered by Catholic doctrine.
That’s begging the question again, Sair. You need to prove, first, that God is imaginary.
Until his existence is proven by those who claim he exists, he is provisionally considered imaginary. I repudiate your attempt to shift the burden of proof.
I will wait for the evidence for that, as well as the evidence for the PAK… :coffeeread:
As far as this is concerned, we are both in the position of being unable to prove a negative. What I would say is that if your god is really so undetectable that he is in the same category of “things that might exist because we can’t know every corner of the universe”, then even if he exists - which I cannot disprove, at least as far as a deistic conception of god is concerned - then we might as well just try to shift for ourselves, as many of us do already. I will also reiterate the fact that the existence or otherwise of the Phantom Atheist Kolbe is not, for me, an article of faith, much less the centre of my worldview. It is, at this juncture, proving merely to be an interesting talking point.

I might also echo the thoughts expressed by a few other posters now, who have queried the basis upon which you hold that Kolbe’s action was, indeed, motivated by a kind of love that goes beyond all others; whilst an action such as a soldier jumping on a grenade to save his comrades, or a health worker treating AIDS patients in Africa, say, and thus running a risk of infection themselves (and, were this to have been 20 years ago, facing a long-drawn-out and painful crawl towards death) are not motivated by this same kind of compassionate fellow-feeling. Do you know for a fact that Kolbe’s actions were motivated by the Christian ideal of agape? Or is it just possible that he simply felt ready to die after enduring a horrible experience in what might have been the worst place in the world?
and consider the evidence on its own merits (using, of course, the same criteria atheists demand as I limned earlier).
I do consider evidence on its own merits - and part of that is questioning it from all possible angles. You make blanket claims about the existence of your god and the motivation for Kolbe’s sacrifice which, although you are fully entitled to believe them, cannot, as it happens, be demonstrated as factual.
 
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