Is Christian life supposed to be dry, desolate, and empty?

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On the contrary, it is full of joy: “to be at home…embrace…a new and wonderful beauty…love…”
The joy is supposed to happen after this life is done, after the test is complete.

There is no cap and gown until after the tests are complete.
 
Hi,

It seems that you are experiencing what is called “spiritual desolation.” Many, many great saints have experienced the same thing you are going through. This happens sometimes and it is very important that you have a spiritual director, a priest or sister who is charitable, prudent and wise to talk to about this regularly.
OK, so how does one know whether the spiritual desolation is a “Dark Night of the Senses” versus God rejecting people?

The Dark Night, I was told, has a period of time of intense joy where God made his presence known in a pleasant consolation. If that is missing, it is not a Dark Night.
 
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We seem to be largely in agreement, however your opinion is based on your point of view.
If your fast was very extreme you still have the freedom (ability) to end the fast you just have to go about it more carefully. I will concede that consume is more appropriate of a word than eat (for my argument) this was a semantical error on my part, however it depends on what is actually considered the “end” of the fast. The important point is that If you did not have the ability to stop fasting, then there would be no sacrifice involved. There would only be suffering. For example, if someone could not afford food then they are not sacrificing they are suffering (unless of course they deliberately put themselves in that situation).
I’m sorry for the delay in answering this post, personal life interfered to the point that I was too tired to post for a couple of days :confused:

Anyways, yes we are mostly in agreement now. But, let me clarify that the thing about being free, as I had mentioned, is that you have to actually achieve the choice you make. That is why the more difficult a choice the less free you are because there is an increased chance it will not come true.

That is the reason why virtue is highly prized in Christianity. Virtue can be roughly defined as a habitual disposition to do good. Thus, virtue makes doing good easy, and therefore a virtuous man is a free man.

Sacrifice on the other hand (as you noted) is a free choice: to sacrifice is to be willing to suffer, to deprive oneself of a good, so that a greater good can be achieved. And the great thing about Catholicism which is unique to it is that any suffering, even unavoidable suffering, can be made a sacrifice. Anyone can unite his or her suffering with the suffering of Christ, so that one’s suffering can save the world.

That is why I said:
If you are a Christian and you are not joyful, right here and right now, then you are doing something wrong.
This is because a Christian can always freely offer his suffering as a sacrifice for the world alongside Christ’s, and this will always give joy to the proportion he freely offers his suffering.

A Christian’s joy is invincible: he is joyful not only in spite of his sufferings but because of them.
 
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The joy is supposed to happen after this life is done, after the test is complete.

There is no cap and gown until after the tests are complete.
Nope 🙂 You can have joy right here, right now. We will not have the fullness of happiness here on Earth, in that we will not be fully comfortable, secure, nor contemplative on this side of heaven, but joy we can always have here.

Why can I say this with confidence? It is because God cannot command us to do something impossible.

John 16:33 I have said this to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.”

Philippians 4:4 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!

The apostles have shown it.

Colossians 1:24 Now I rejoice in what I am suffering for you, and I fill up in my flesh what is still lacking in regard to Christ’s afflictions, for the sake of his body, which is the church.

Acts 5:41 The apostles left the Sanhedrin, rejoicing because they had been counted worthy of suffering disgrace for the Name.

One of the criteria for canonization in the Catholic Church is evidence of “heroic virtue”, of which one sign is the presence of joy in the prospective saint’s life.

St. Thomas Aquinas said: “Man cannot live without joy. That is why one deprived of spiritual joys goes over to carnal pleasures” (II–II, q. 35, art. 4, ad. 2); since we cannot have carnal pleasures in the afterlife he must be talking about joy in this side of life.

Peter Kreeft wrote this whole essay on joy in this life, which he has experienced personally: peterkreeft.com/topics/joy.htm

There is overwhelming testimony from the Church about the abundance of joy in this side of life.
 
But, let me clarify that the thing about being free, as I had mentioned, is that you have to actually achieve the choice you make. That is why the more difficult a choice the less free you are because there is an increased chance it will not come
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Your biggest mistake is that you are not providing a credible sourced definition for free or freedom. This means that you are arguing for your own personal interpretation of these concepts.
Webster’s dictionary defines free as “enjoying personal liberty; not enslaved”. You do not actually have to “achieve” the choice you make.
For example, if I choose to climb to the top of a mountain, then I made that choice through freedom. If near the top I encounter a dangerous section then I make another choice by either exercising my freedom and turning around; or by exercising my freedom and continuing forward. The entire time I was “free” to climb to the top of the mountain. The fact that I did not “achieve” the top of the mountain does not mean I was not free to achieve the top of the mountain. (For this example it should be assumed that I was “capable” of reaching the top.)
 
Sacrifice on the other hand (as you noted) is a free choice: to sacrifice is to be willing to suffer, to deprive oneself of a good, so that a greater good can be achieved. And the great thing about Catholicism which is unique to it is that any suffering, even unavoidable suffering, can be made a sacrifice. Anyone can unite his or her suffering with the suffering of Christ, so that one’s suffering can save the world.
Exactly! My point is that sacrifice is a free and conscious choice.
 
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Your biggest mistake is that you are not providing a credible sourced definition for free or freedom. This means that you are arguing for your own personal interpretation of these concepts.
Webster’s dictionary defines free as “enjoying personal liberty; not enslaved”. You do not actually have to “achieve” the choice you make.
For example, if I choose to climb to the top of a mountain, then I made that choice through freedom. If near the top I encounter a dangerous section then I make another choice by either exercising my freedom and turning around; or by exercising my freedom and continuing forward. The entire time I was “free” to climb to the top of the mountain. The fact that I did not “achieve” the top of the mountain does not mean I was not free to achieve the top of the mountain. (For this example it should be assumed that I was “capable” of reaching the top.)
Uhm didn’t I say I used St. Thomas Aquinas’ theology from the very first post? Why are you now showing me Webster’s definition when from the very beginning I said I am using St. Thomas Aquinas’? Read all about St Thomas Aquinas’s definition and discussion of free will through this link.
 
If you are a Christian and you are not joyful, right here and right now, then you are doing something wrong./]

At this time I feel the need to address this statement.

Yes this idea is in accordance with church teachings. However, since this is not quoted or cited I must assume it is your words, not the church’s words.

Webster’s dictionary defines judge as “hold as an opinion”. This means that if you had quoted scripture or the church then that would be the church’s judgement. However, by using your own words, you made it your judgment.

You may not see the problem with this, but you must consider the repercussions of passing a judgment like this on someone who may be emotionally fragile. When someone is suffering from depression or anxiety then they will only understand a concept like this if it is presented with a great amount of love. Bold red letters that say “you are doing something wrong” does not seem loving at all.

Remember that love is always the right answer.

Are you really a nun?
 
+JMJ

Uhm didn’t I say I used St. Thomas Aquinas’ theology from the very first post? Why are you now showing me Webster’s definition when from the very beginning I said I am using St. Thomas Aquinas’? Read all about St Thomas Aquinas’s definition and discussion of free will through this link.
You provided your interpretation of Saint Thomas’ theology. You did not provide Saint Thomas’ definition or idea of freedom. Quotes and citations are still relevant on forums.

For the third time: my point is that sacrifice is a free and conscious choice.
 
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Exactly! My point is that sacrifice is a free and conscious choice.
And yet all I am saying is that it is hard to do, especially the more you have to sacrifice: time, comfort, resources, etc. That’s why it is called a sacrifice. The greater the sacrifice, the less your freedom is because there is a greater chance for you to not be able to do the sacrifice. However if you can do a great sacrifice then your freedom is great.

Yet there is the question why anybody would want to make a sacrifice. As we had agreed on, freedom is all about making free and conscious choices. And yet the free will, even if it is not coerced, has to make the best possible choice. Yet if the will judged a choice to be the best choice but it cannot attain this choice, can you call it free?
 
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I am talking about freedom. You are talking about difficulty. Apparently we are talking about different things.
Of course I have to talk about difficulty. If you have read from the link I have given, St Thomas Aquinas said this about free will: it is written (Sirach 15:14): ‘“God made man from the beginning, and left him in the hand of his own counsel”; and the gloss adds: “That is of his free-will.”’ Free will is based on man’s own counsel, on what he judges is the best choice to pick. “[O]therwise counsels, exhortations, commands, prohibitions, rewards, and punishments would be in vain.”

Since counsel is part and parcel of free will and thus freedom, if one judges a choice as the best one to choose but it is too difficult to attain, then that person is not free.
 
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At this time I feel the need to address this statement.

Yes this idea is in accordance with church teachings. However, since this is not quoted or cited I must assume it is your words, not the church’s words.
Why do you think I posted the following?
+JMJ+

Nope 🙂 You can have joy right here, right now. We will not have the fullness of happiness here on Earth, in that we will not be fully comfortable, secure, nor contemplative on this side of heaven, but joy we can always have here.

Why can I say this with confidence? It is because God cannot command us to do something impossible.

John 16:33 I have said this to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.”

Philippians 4:4 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!

The apostles have shown it.

Colossians 1:24 Now I rejoice in what I am suffering for you, and I fill up in my flesh what is still lacking in regard to Christ’s afflictions, for the sake of his body, which is the church.

Acts 5:41 The apostles left the Sanhedrin, rejoicing because they had been counted worthy of suffering disgrace for the Name.

One of the criteria for canonization in the Catholic Church is evidence of “heroic virtue”, of which one sign is the presence of joy in the prospective saint’s life.

St. Thomas Aquinas said: “Man cannot live without joy. That is why one deprived of spiritual joys goes over to carnal pleasures” (II–II, q. 35, art. 4, ad. 2); since we cannot have carnal pleasures in the afterlife he must be talking about joy in this side of life.

Peter Kreeft wrote this whole essay on joy in this life, which he has experienced personally: peterkreeft.com/topics/joy.htm

There is overwhelming testimony from the Church about the abundance of joy in this side of life.
Are you really a nun?
No. Never did say I am one.
 
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You posted that in response to Bob Catholic. It was not necessarily a clarification for realtiger.
This is realtiger’s thread. Everything in this thread is for his benefit. Of course it is ultimately a clarification for him even though I addressed to BobCatholic. This whole thread is the OP’s.
 
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This is realtiger’s thread. Everything in this thread is for his benefit. Of course it is ultimately a clarification for him even though I addressed to BobCatholic. This whole thread is the OP’s.
Sorry for the confusion. The point is not how you clarified your statements. The point is that Catholics are supposed to lead by showing not by telling and also that Catholics are supposed to live through love. I will admit that showing rather than telling is a very difficult prospect on internet forums.

It is my opinion that red bold letters that say “you are doing something wrong” is not love filled. It is however up for debate as to whether it is showing or telling (however I will not debate this at this time).
 
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Sorry for the confusion. The point is not how you clarified your statements. The point is that Catholics are supposed to lead by showing not by telling and also that Catholics are supposed to live through love. I will admit that showing rather than telling is a very difficult prospect on internet forums.

It is my opinion that red bold letters that say “you are doing something wrong” is not love filled. It is however up for debate as to whether it is showing or telling (however I will not debate this at this time).
Alright then, if the red highlighted statements are less then charitable then I apologize to you and everyone here. I will inform the moderators about it and I will let them decide on the matter.
 
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Alright then, if the red highlighted statements are less then charitable then I apologize to you and everyone here. I will inform the moderators about it and I will let them decide on the matter.
Lol, I was only showing you my opinion. There is no reason to become offended or call upon the authorities.
 
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Lol, I was only showing you my opinion. There is no reason to become offended or call upon the authorities.
Too late, already sent the request to the mods.

EDIT: To make things clear I am not offended, but I want to clear the possibility that I made uncharitable statements that might harm other people, which is why I informed the mods.
 
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