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manualman
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I have a confession. I may be a ‘culturist.’ I know I’m not a racist. I have far too many friends and aquiantences of too many colors to be.
But I find I’m inherently suspicious and a bit hostile to much of the cultural expressions of the African American community. For example: Imagine its a dark night, I’m on the street outside a restaurant and need to know how much time I left left before my parking meter runs out. If a black man in a business suit walks by, I have NO problem asking if he has the time. Put the same black man in an NBA jersey, a bunch of gold chain, a swaggering walk and perhaps a bandana and there’s no way I’m going to approach him with conversation.
I don’t think that’s racist. I’m not worried about his skin color. I’m worried about what his clothes, his walk and his body language are saying about him.
And it isn’t just fear of violence. It’s a suspicion that there is a massive ‘bad is good’ culture that I can’t relate to or understand.
Is this just a subtler racism on my part that I need to work on, or is there something less cut and dried going on in America’s race relations? America has shown a big step forward in electing a black man president (regardless how we catholics feel about his moral stances), but would Obama have had a chance at all if ALL his ideas, messages and positions were the same, but he spoke more like Eddie Murphy? I think not. Is that a bad thing or is it good for us to accept people regardless of their color, but be critical and discerning regarding their culture (rejecting what is bad and accepting what is good)?
Discussions?
I have a confession. I may be a ‘culturist.’ I know I’m not a racist. I have far too many friends and aquiantences of too many colors to be.
But I find I’m inherently suspicious and a bit hostile to much of the cultural expressions of the African American community. For example: Imagine its a dark night, I’m on the street outside a restaurant and need to know how much time I left left before my parking meter runs out. If a black man in a business suit walks by, I have NO problem asking if he has the time. Put the same black man in an NBA jersey, a bunch of gold chain, a swaggering walk and perhaps a bandana and there’s no way I’m going to approach him with conversation.
I don’t think that’s racist. I’m not worried about his skin color. I’m worried about what his clothes, his walk and his body language are saying about him.
And it isn’t just fear of violence. It’s a suspicion that there is a massive ‘bad is good’ culture that I can’t relate to or understand.
Is this just a subtler racism on my part that I need to work on, or is there something less cut and dried going on in America’s race relations? America has shown a big step forward in electing a black man president (regardless how we catholics feel about his moral stances), but would Obama have had a chance at all if ALL his ideas, messages and positions were the same, but he spoke more like Eddie Murphy? I think not. Is that a bad thing or is it good for us to accept people regardless of their color, but be critical and discerning regarding their culture (rejecting what is bad and accepting what is good)?
Discussions?