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Yes, obligation is not at odds with the fullness of love, especially in the context of the link. However, “obligation” when equated with the “stick” referred to by fhansen (his usage below) does create the anxiety I described, especially in reference to a God who loves and forgives upon condition. The link you provided does not tie “obligation” to a means by which we earn God’s love and forgiveness, it is referring to the necessity of relationship in order to live a life of faith (paraphrasing).I don’t think you understand the way in which the word “obligation” is understood here. Obligation is an integral part of “the deeper way”. Obligation is not at odds with the fullness of love.
newadvent.org/cathen/11189a.htm
You have to admit that there is a small contradiction in that paragraph, friend. If there is a stick, then there is some forcing involved. No need to dwell on that, though, because in the gist of what you are saying I find merit. To use a stick in order to steer us to a good thing is good. Because of the stick, though, there is a trade-off, the threat(s) make sense in terms of our human nature, but they can compromise somewhat the image of our Father’s infinite and unconditional love. In order to love completely one is obliged (in goout’s use) to love every single person, and forgive those for who we find such love hampered by resentment.IMO there must be both a carrot and a stick in God’s toolkit. And this is so because 1) we’re morally accountable beings with free will and, 2) He wants us to freely choose the right thing, without forcing it. To be obligated to do the “right thing” is not bad; it’s good, in fact. which is why God could rightfully command it in Genesis. But knowing that man may need to *learn *to do it is why God didn’t abandon man but instead patiently leads him through history on to a place where he’s more capable of receiving the light -and responding to it.
And then, once we do so, we can experience the holiness, what it means to love without any inhibition whatsoever. We can know that God’s love and forgiveness has no hesitation.
Yes, we are *obliged * (goout) to be in relationship in order to experience this love. But the stick, when presenting the image of a God who forgives conditionally, takes us from the starting point of an anthropomorphic image. Through relationship and grace, through living the Gospel, we can come to see that the stick I described is an illusion, a purposeful illusion, but an illusion.
Part of the lesson along the way is that even if man knows what righteousness consists of (because it’s been revealed via the law/ten commandments for example), he won’t be automatically capable of obedience, unless and until he comes to love. And love, by its nature cannot be forced. But what the obligation or command succeeds in doing is informing us-hopefully *convicting *us-that something is still missing, that there’s a way to go before we arrive at our goal, that there is a higher and better goal to begin with. At any point we generally tend to prefer thinking that we’ve already arrived but until that’s actually a reality we won’t experience the peace and satisfaction and happiness that we all desire anyway-and which is only available through communion with God even if not fully attained until the next life.
We do desperately need to know the depth of God’s love-to the extent that we can-and that is perhaps the central message of the New Testament, of the Incarnation. To the extent that we really know that, we’re changed already. But even then we’ll struggle against our own inclinations to be distracted from Him. There’s a reason why the first commandment is what it is-and why we need to hear it until it becomes our nature to observe it-until we come to understand why it’s so critical, and why it’s observation leads to life, as we simultaneously begin to practice it spontaneously as we cooperate with grace.
Yes, I agree, but once a person can love with no limit, any stick that indicates a conditionally loving/forgiving God is difficult to regard as part of a deeper truth.A carrot and a stick; God’s wise and patient with both.
In other words, if it makes sense to a person that God would not forgive a disobedient person, for example, God invites us to forgive disobedient people in a deeply understanding way. Once we do this, we can see that God forgives a disobedient person. In the mean time, until one forgives disobedient people, the image of a God not forgiving disobedient people motivates obedience. Are you following me?