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While very safe, I would find that overly constraining.Rule of thumb. Don’t do anything you would not do in front of your parents.
While very safe, I would find that overly constraining.Rule of thumb. Don’t do anything you would not do in front of your parents.
Or perhaps he was more honest about human nature than most of us would dare.It seems that St Alphonsus is conflating any and all romantic attraction with sexual pleasure
A modernistic notion that truth changes with culture and time.(different culture and time)
So you’re saying that all romantic attraction is the same as sexual pleasure?Or perhaps he was more honest about human nature than most of us would dare
Perhaps, and I don’t think we should dismiss his insight out of hand. But this seems dangerously close to making saints and their opinions equal to infalliable church doctrine. Not only that, but overly strict opinions, especially when not church teaching, can lead to either scrupulousity or despair, a danger which should not be taken lightly.I’m saying that I’m content to defer to a Saint’s wisdom on the matter being discussed. He may not have had access to a smartphone, but I’m sure he knew what time is w
CAF consensus hardly constitutes Church doctrine. And I know that you aren’t trying to suggest that this Saint is undermining actual Church doctrine.But this seems dangerously close to making saints and their opinions equal to infalliable church doctrine.
Not exactly. But if a saint says that holding hands is a mortal sin, and the church does not, then they can’t both be right. Either the church is mistaken or St Alphonsus is.CAF consensus hardly constitutes Church doctrine. And I know that you aren’t trying to suggest that this Saint is undermining actual Church doctrine.
That’s not the implication.A modernistic notion that truth changes with culture and time.
Idk, when in doubt there is generally more risk with “looser.”And no, we don’t assume “looser is better”, but we also don’t automatically assume “harsher is better.”
There’s danger to both. “Stricter” can lead to scrupulosity and despair.Idk, when in doubt there is generally more risk with “looser.”
That’s actually pretty interesting, and makes a lot more sense.We’re not talking about handholding here. Noooo, we’re talking about your period hand fondling, in such a way that the hand is treated like…um… other body parts… would be treated today.
I mean, there’s a reason why politely kissing the hand actually often meant making a kissy movement above the hand, or why intimacy was in some times signaled by whether you let the guy shake one or two fingers, or your whole hand, or both hands. Because sometimes, under cover of big froofy cuffs or cloaks, there was some serious handling going on.
By this logic, we should all just embrace scrupulosity as the ultimate form of “playing it safe.”Again, the greater danger is with the former rather than the latter, IMHO.