Is it a sin for women to wear bikinis?

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Yes its very caring to say you are going to dress any way you please and to hell with any man who falls into lust because of that and that you couldn’t care less about the fate of other peoples souls, a very caring Christian attitude indeed, God will be so proud.
Please provide the post numbers where I stated those things. This is way beyond appropriate. I never said “to hell with any many who falls into lust because of that” or that I “couldn’t care less about the fate of other peoples’ souls”!

I do have a Christian attitude. I’m trying my best to please God and I pray He will be proud of me. I think He is proud of me.
 
BobObob;6752401:
I’m not talking about specifically about African cultures. Even though there are many other things that affect people’s moral behavior, there seems to be evidence that what I said above is correct. Here’s some scholarly research from major journals (sorry, you probably won’t be able to access all the full articles):

versita.metapress.com/content/4j44hx8381p50437/fulltext.pdf
accessmylibrary.com/coms2/summary_0286-34711618_ITM
scribd.com/doc/30328401/Sexual-Modesty-Social-Meanings-And-the-Nudist-Camp
sciencedirect.com/science?_ob=ArticleURL&_udi=B6WJN-4G7JXXW-1&_user=10&_coverDate=01/31/2005&_rdoc=1&_fmt=high&_orig=search&_sort=d&_docanchor=&view=c&_acct=C000050221&_version=1&_urlVersion=0&_userid=10&md5=849fb2ddadd1da6768d57881b4ebb395

It’s best to do research rather than just go with one’s gut.

Even when that research is biased and flawed, I think not. It is a mistake to trust secular researchers they have always in my experience hidden agendas and are not to be trusted.
It’s good to counteract possible bias and flaws in studies by looking at the full articles, check the credibility of the sources those articles cite, and look for multiple studies from multiple authors published in multiple journals (that may risk loosing credibility if they publish errant articles).

Can you show me your research?

BTW, just because research is coming from a source that doesn’t have a religious affiliation doesn’t necessarily mean it’s bias. I’ve seen bias from both sources that have a religious affiliation and those that don’t. Possible bias must be taken into consideration in all circumstances.

Here’s more research:

dbem.ws/Exotic%20Becomes%20Erotic.pdf (this is a theory that attempts to explain the phenomenon on sexual attraction and why homosexuality exists, but it fits in well with my hypothesis that less non-erotic exposure to the human body while growing up is likely to cuase more problems with lust and porn)

crisisconnectioninc.org/pdf/Porn.pdf (this shows that the US, one of the most puritanical cultures regarding lack of clothing, is the biggest consumer of porn)

psycnet.apa.org/index.cfm?fa=buy.optionToBuy&id=1933-02865-001&CFID=9249663&CFTOKEN=16651498 (This article in Psychological Review says that eroticism is NOT stimulated by nudism. I don’t advocate nudism, but this does support my hypothesis)

Again, do you have any evidence to the contrary?
 
But nobody in this thread is saying it’s appropriate to run around with a tiny bikini on the beach or anywhere else!
I’ve seen quite a few attempts otherwise.
I described the woman wearing the bikini in Costco and the awful effect her presence had on people there. I don’t think it was appropriate for her to wear that outfit there. But I’m not going to judge her because I don’t know what her situation is. We’re not here to judge people. We aren’t omniscient. Maybe she had nothing else to wear! I don’t know.
Actually, we are to judge actions - it’s souls that we must not judge.

Not that I wholly disagree with you; we must always be level-headed and understand that we don’t know all the circumstances and so forth. But, this thread is mostly a debate on whether it’s moral or not to wear bikinis and show off lots of one’s body, not merely a debate about a hypothetical situation in which a woman had to run to the store in her bikini.
 
Quite awhile ago I posted a question in this thread.

I never received a response. Finally I just said forget it.

Why didn’t any man respond?
Well you are not our confessor for one, many catholic men are rightly ashamed of their sins they don’t want to admit to them its hard to admit a weakness or failure.

However from what you describe your legs are on full display, yes? Women’s legs can make people fall into lust, also if I am getting the right idea what you describe is figure hugging which means while your skin is largely covered your every feminine curve is clearly visible, again yes men can fall into lust when presented with an image of the the female figure whether it is covered or not which is why the catsuit for example is considered “sexy” even though it covers most of the skin.
 
It’s good to counteract possible bias and flaws in studies by looking at the full articles, check the credibility of the sources those articles cite, and look for multiple studies from multiple authors published in multiple journals (that may risk loosing credibility if they publish errant articles).

Can you show me your research?

BTW, just because research is coming from a source that doesn’t have a religious affiliation doesn’t necessarily mean it’s bias. I’ve seen bias from both sources that have a religious affiliation and those that don’t. Possible bias must be taken into consideration in all circumstances.

Here’s more research:

dbem.ws/Exotic%20Becomes%20Erotic.pdf (this is a theory that attempts to explain the phenomenon on sexual attraction and why homosexuality exists, but it fits in well with my hypothesis that less non-erotic exposure to the human body while growing up is likely to cuase more problems with lust and porn)

crisisconnectioninc.org/pdf/Porn.pdf (this shows that the US, one of the most puritanical cultures regarding lack of clothing, is the biggest consumer of porn)

psycnet.apa.org/index.cfm?fa=buy.optionToBuy&id=1933-02865-001&CFID=9249663&CFTOKEN=16651498 (This article in Psychological Review says that eroticism is NOT stimulated by nudism. I don’t advocate nudism, but this does support my hypothesis)

Again, do you have any evidence to the contrary?
Bob I think you have me mistaken for someone who respects the intelligentsia that have brought our culture and our Church to the brink of ruin.
 
I would like to just deposit my two rusty pennies here.

I can only speak for sure from experience, but I know that I am not an isolated case. We men are visual creatures. Are we weak? YES. Can we be quick and bold with our fantasies? YES. Are we ‘pigs’? SURE. But I’m not going to apologize for it, because that is the way we are ‘rigged’. Blame it on the Fall, blame it on hormones, whatever. But that is the way things are.

Now, do bikinis pander to this tendency? YES. I am not going to talk about the intention behind it; for all I know it’s Mother Theresa in that two-piece. It is also true that a man could lust after a woman bundled up in a parka. But the bikini facilitates lust greatly.

Are men utterly helpless with their urges? NO. That is what should be apologized for, the refusal to struggle. But there are some of us out there who struggle and grapple as best we can, and every inch of covered skin helps. It’s not easy when we are basically encouraged to lust by the media and even the women themselves in how they dress.

God Bless
 
I’ve seen quite a few attempts otherwise.

Actually, we are to judge actions - it’s souls that we must not judge.

Not that I wholly disagree with you; we must always be level-headed and understand that we don’t know all the circumstances and so forth. But, this thread is mostly a debate on whether it’s moral or not to wear bikinis and show off lots of one’s body, not merely a debate about a hypothetical situation in which a woman had to run to the store in her bikini.
I would like to point out that there is more than one type of bikini. I would also like to point out that I responded to a poster’s question about what type of clothing would be immodest and in my answer I listed thongs and string bikinis.

I know this thread is not merely a debate about a hypothetical situation in which a woman had to run off to the store, although I find it hard to believe anyone in Eugene OR would feel the need to go to COSTCO, the giant store where people stock up for months, in a bikini.
People run off to 7-11 or Safeway or Fred Meyer, not Costco, to grab a bottle of milk.

I have also stated that I do not wear a bikini.

I know we are not to judge souls; for Pete’s sake I’ve been saying that all along!

But I will not change my views on the appropriateness of people who believe their opinions rule the roost and anyone who disagrees is immodest. Nobody has posted binding Church teaching.
 
If you care about them you will not allow yourself to become a source of temptation to them by dressing immodestly just to please yourself.

If you cause another to sin you will share in their punishment yes.

I do not know you, I am not judging you, I am judging the way you have presented yourself in this thread based on the part of your post which I previously quoted, that attitude you displayed with those words is beneath you, leave it behind and you will be happier and better Christian.

I tell you all this exactly because of your precious soul which is much loved by God, but also for all the other precious souls which God loves just as much who are effected by how you choose to act, including how you choose to dress.
Originally Posted by Advocatus Fidei:
Yes its very caring to say you are going to dress any way you please and to hell with any man who falls into lust because of that and that you couldn’t care less about the fate of other peoples souls, a very caring Christian attitude indeed, God will be so proud.
Oh yeah, you’re not only judging me, now you’re lying about me. :rolleyes:
 
Quite awhile ago I posted a question in this thread.

I never received a response. Finally I just said forget it.

Why didn’t any man respond?
Little Soldier,
You’re fighting a battle that cannot be won. If these nuts had the power, this country would be a theocracy and they would be patrolling the streets with paddles to properly chastise you for wearing a skirt that revealed your ankle. They would lovingly beat the hell out of you in Jesus name.

These people scare me as much as the Taliban do.

Paul
 
Well you are not our confessor for one, many catholic men are rightly ashamed of their sins they don’t want to admit to them its hard to admit a weakness or failure.

However from what you describe your legs are on full display, yes? Women’s legs can make people fall into lust, also if I am getting the right idea what you describe is figure hugging which means while your skin is largely covered your every feminine curve is clearly visible, again yes men can fall into lust when presented with an image of the the female figure whether it is covered or not which is why the catsuit for example is considered “sexy” even though it covers most of the skin.
I hope I’m not your confessor. I’m a woman and I wanted to know if there was a problem with those kinds of thoughts being brought on by a woman in a bikini.

So I asked. How else am I supposed to know? I’m not psychic. I can’t crawl into men’s brains and see their thoughts.

No, my legs are not on full display. For the last time,*** I DON’T WEAR A BIKINI!!!*** I have a condition known as keratosis pilaris. It means that little red spots are visible on my arms and legs.

My curves? During my last back surgery my guts got pushed to own side and my abdominal muscles were cut. My curves consist of sticking out farther on one side and having very little muscular abdominal control.

Does this cause any sort of thoughts?

I bet they have nothing to do with sex. My body is disgusting. I’m also missing half a finger, a tooth, and walk crooked because of nerve damage. Oh, and I have a scar on my face from jaw surgery. I’m also in severe chronic pain most of the time from my back injury.

And I have PTSD and major depression.

Yeah, I’m really sexy. Really.
 
Little Soldier,
You’re fighting a battle that cannot be won. If these nuts had the power, this country would be a theocracy and they would be patrolling the streets with paddles to properly chastise you for wearing a skirt that revealed your ankle. They would lovingly beat the hell out of you in Jesus name.

These people scare me as much as the Taliban do.

Paul
If I believed that was appropriate Paul I would be doing it already I would not wait for a government endorsement if I thought it was the right thing to do.

However I do not, I simply have the same opinion of dress that Americans had maybe 100 years ago when America was still a Christian country.
 
Little Soldier,
You’re fighting a battle that cannot be won. If these nuts had the power, this country would be a theocracy and they would be patrolling the streets with paddles to properly chastise you for wearing a skirt that revealed your ankle. They would lovingly beat the hell out of you in Jesus name.

These people scare me as much as the Taliban do.

Paul
Wow, thank you Paul! Your words mean so much to me right now! I do believe they would beat the hell out of me in Jesus’ name.

Or perhaps cast stones at me.
 
If I believed that was appropriate Paul I would be doing it already I would not wait for a government endorsement if I thought it was the right thing to do.

However I do not, I simply have the same opinion of dress that Americans had maybe 100 years ago when America was still a Christian country.
Are you serious? You would be walking the streets with a paddle to chastise me?
 
You have a short memory it seems let me remind you of the following:
Originally Posted by Advocatus Fidei:
Yes its very caring to say you are going to dress any way you please and to hell with any man who falls into lust because of that and that you couldn’t care less about the fate of other peoples souls, a very caring Christian attitude indeed, God will be so proud.
I’m waiting for the post numbers that reference where I said those things.
 
I would like to point out that there is more than one type of bikini. I would also like to point out that I responded to a poster’s question about what type of clothing would be immodest and in my answer I listed thongs and string bikinis.
That’s fine.
I know this thread is not merely a debate about a hypothetical situation in which a woman had to run off to the store, although I find it hard to believe anyone in Eugene OR would feel the need to go to COSTCO, the giant store where people stock up for months, in a bikini.
People run off to 7-11 or Safeway or Fred Meyer, not Costco, to grab a bottle of milk.
Yes, but Costco was used as the example.
I have also stated that I do not wear a bikini.
That’s fine, but since I’m not assuming that you do, don’t feel you need to mention it to me.
I know we are not to judge souls; for Pete’s sake I’ve been saying that all along!
Problem is, those of us who are saying that bikinis can be sinful and/or occasions of sin are assumed to be judging souls, when we’re merely judging actions.
But I will not change my views on the appropriateness of people who believe their opinions rule the roost and anyone who disagrees is immodest. Nobody has posted binding Church teaching.
There hasn’t been a specific Church teaching on the wearing of bikinis per se, but the Church does have binding teaching on the subject of modesty, as well as a certified, error-free pronouncement on decency in dress lengths and cuts (mentioned on this thread) which, even though dated in the 1950s, is still officially without error. Taken together, these (should) carry the weight that a direct ex cathedra papal pronouncement would (meaning that it ought to be taken seriously nonetheless).
 
You have a short memory it seems let me remind you of the following:
Here is the entire post:
Originally Posted by Portrait
Dear Advocatus Fidei,
Your quote from Pope Benedict XV is a reminder of more sober times when infractions against Christian modesty were taken a great deal more seriously than they are nowadays, when all manner of sophistry is employed to justify the wearing of indecorous apparel.
Our Church has spoken quite unequivocally on this matter:
“Modesty is decency. It inspires one’s choice of clothing” (CCC, para. 2523).
“Modesty inspires a way of life which makes it possible to resist the allurements of fashion and the pressures of prevailing idealogies” (CCC, para. 2523).
“Women should adorn themselves modestly and sensibly in seemly apparel” (St. Paul, I Tim. 2: 9).
(all emphases mine).
Surely these above citations are quite plain and unambiguous enough; how can mini-skirts, low cut garments revealing cleavage and bikini’s possibly fall under the heading of “seemly apparel” and modest attire, irrespective of any cultural considerations?
I beg to differ. Not one of the statements you posted actually states what types of clothing are worn by men and women in an immodest way. They are general statements and can be interpreted in many different ways.
Incidently, the word modesty in the St. Paul quote above denotes a sense of shame and a recoiling from trespassing the boundaries of propriety. Thus it is manifestly obvious that a women’s clothing must be expressive of an interior modesty and of a sober and sane outlook upon life, in other words an outlook that is consonant with good taste and decency.
That quote denotes no such thing! It doesn’t use or even imply “shame” or “recoiling from trespassing the boundaries of propriety.” All it states is that “women should adorn themselves modestly and sensibly in seemly apparel.” That’s it. How did you ever get from that simple little statement to “shame” and "recoiling from trespassing the boundaries of propriety? I think you’re reading a whole lot more into those quotes than what is actually there.
By wearing mini-skirts, bikini’s and other unseemly apparel a woman is, even if not intentionaly, dressing in a seductive manner and causing men to focus their attention upon her body rather than her persona. Moreover, she is most probably inflaming impure thoughts and being the occasion of sin in members of the opposite sex. (cf. St. Matt. 5: 28). We have to reckon with fallen human nature and the consequent propensity to sin that is in all of us, so let us, men and women, not unecessarily excite sinful desires in one another. Whilst it is true that each of us are responsible for ourselves as regards the resisting of temptation, let us, dearly beloved, not make it any more difficult than it already is by dressing seductively; let us protect “the intimate centre of the person” (by)" refusing to unveil that which should remain hidden" (CCC, para. 2521).
Mini skirts and bikinis are not unseemly apparel. You have your opinion and I have mine. I’m not going to worry about inciting “sinful desires” in men and I’m not going to change my opinion.

What I wrote in that post is relevant to that post. It should be taken in context. You pulled it out of context and presented it as if it were the only thing I have said in this entire thread.
 
I just said no didn’t I? This thread has gone ridiculous.
This is what you said:
If I believed that was appropriate Paul I would be doing it already I would not wait for a government endorsement if I thought it was the right thing to do.
However I do not, I simply have the same opinion of dress that Americans had maybe 100 years ago when America was still a Christian country.
I misread your post. I read “I do not” as referring to waiting for a government endorsement. I apologize. It would help if you used punctuation a bit more. Sorry.
 
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