She may need to return to Trinidad. That sounds harsh but at 63 she will most likely not be able to find work here (if she wants to work), especially considering the economy right now. If she can collect Social Security or some other assistance, she should, if not, going back home to family may be the best option. I live in NYC. It is a tough place and not the right place if you don’t have resources to pull you out of a bad situation and it doesn’t even sound like she cares to try. I’ve recovered from many setbacks here due to seeking education and working hard. If she is not willing or able to do that, this may not be the place for her.