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This is a common mistake among uneducated ignorant people. They seem to think that same sex attraction is a “behavior”. It is true that if you have same sex attractions that it is possible that you will relate to the females on tv and try to emulate them as your idols. But there are also straight people who behave like silly girls. There is a difference between “camp” and “SSA”. Some men just enjoy behaving or acting like the silly teenage girls they see on popular TV. I personally find camp behavior annoying and silly. Its got very little to do with having same sex attraction.Nor, according to the study’s principal author, Dean Hamer, were they all identifiably effeminate or, for that matter, all macho.
It is true that there is a genetic component to SSA. However we must be careful to realize that it doesn’t cause SSA, but rather it makes a person more likely to develop attraction to the same sex. It doesn’t determine by itself what a person will be a attracted to. There are social and experiential factors involved. There is also a topology, in the sense that a person who appears a certain way will likely be treated a certain way by the community he or she belongs to. If you appear flimsy or feminine in anyway, this might give rise to ridicule or some form of social or sexual criticism , exclusion, or lack of respect for you as a female or male person. This can feed the possibility that such a person will developed same sex attraction. Some people are just assumed to be gay before they ever develop attractions, and are treated as gay, and therefore it is not surprising that such a person is likely to develop the type of sexual insecurities that feed the development of SSA.They were diverse except for sexual orientation. Says Hamer: “**This is by far the strongest evidence to date that there is a genetic component to sexual orientation. **We’ve identified a portion of the genome associated with it.”
time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,978923,00.html#ixzz1Zen61Erl
There are many reasons or combination of reasons why somebody might develop SSA. One theory i find convincing is that sometimes a boy or a girl may desire something in their same sex peer that they feel is missing in them, and that such a desire can turn into a sexual attraction as they grow up.