I consider everyone who thinks gays are perverted as dumb and have no respect for them. I have many good friends who are gay and they are better people than many gay haters will ever be. I know people who hate gays but I don’t associate with homophobics, racists or other people who discriminate others.
(I live in Germany where gay people aren’t discriminated against. The German foreign Minister is gay.)
I don’t think Gays are perverted, if by that you mean they are necessarily hedonistic, ill mannered sexual predators, who enjoy using people for sex. Its evident that some gay people love each-other. I think most gay people truly believe that their sexual actions are moral, and i understand entirely why they embrace the gay identity, since they think they are merely embracing who they are. I also believe that people should have the legal right to be gay. I also, like you, dislike those who bully, abuse, and discriminate against those who embrace that identity. I have no problem with the idea of their being ministers or circular leaders who happen to have same sex attraction.
However, that does not mean that homosexuality is a sexual identity that everybody should or ought to embrace as a moral lifestyle. I think people should have the legal choice to be gay, but legal does not necessarily mean that such actions are moral in a true objective sense. Gay people believe that sexual identity begins with attraction. Catholic doctrine, on the other-hand, believes that the fundamental meaning of human sexuality begins with your “
gender”, and not who you’re attracted to. What you believe about human sexuality is necessarily going to be colored by your philosophical view of human reality as a whole. The fact that it has been become popular to believe that the homosexual lifestyle is just as normal and morally healthy as a heterosexual one, does not truly identify the moral facts, but rather it identifies the fact that society is willing to embrace a sexual ideology which does not conform to traditional beliefs about sexuality.
It is now popular to view any questioning of homosexuality as discrimination akin to racism. However, it is evident to me that black people, of which i am a proud member, are evidently human and are of the same objective value as everybody else, which is the same for every race; and thus any view that suggested that being black was some how a disorder or subhuman was unjustified and prejudice. However the same cannot be said for the moral defense of same sex relationships; since it has not been rationally demonstrated that same sex attraction is not the disorder it appears to be. That you have friends that are gay and that they are nice people, does not prove that homosexuality is normal in the moral sense of the word. The Progress of gay rights is more political than moral. Some of it is good in terms of protecting the gay community from unjust mistreatment from other members of society; on the other-hand, i feel that some its ideology should have no political right such as teaching kids that same sex relationships are “morally” normal. They should make a distinction between legal rights and objective moral rights. Gay rights is mostly pragmatic in nature.
Simply having a different belief about the purpose and meaning of sexuality is not necessarily an expression of discrimination or prejudice and it is not evident to me that gay people have the moral high ground. Neither is it evident to me that same sex attraction is not a disorder of somebodies gender identity; and however unpopular this view may be it appears to me that it is disorder. In fact i feel it would be more honest of the gay community to ask people to be tolerant of their lifestyle choice rather than assert that people are discriminating for disagreeing with the homosexual identity.
You speak of it as being dumb to unjustly discriminate and express irrational hatred, and i agree. However It is equally dumb to except something as moral on the basis that it is popular.
The moral legitimacy of homosexuality is a “belief”;
not a fact.