Is it objectively meaningful and functionally correct to class Same Sex Attraction as a genuine form of human Sexuality?

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[Addressed to John]:
When should I expect to see another post series from you questioning the obvious abuse of the telelogy of the digestive system that is the consumption of refined sugar? Isn’t that as much of a violation of our “design principles” as homosexuality?.
For another example of abuse of the body:
Young women have been known to apply refined sugar in, shall we say delicately, a particular gynecological way, contraceptively (as opposed to the digestive system), which then causes significant – even raging – urological problems. So yes, nature does not take kindly to the body’s systems and functions being derailed.
 
If you keep on insisting that morality is personal opinion, then you can’t defend the wrongness of child rape. It will just be your opinion.
If it were my opinion and mine alone, it would not be a community value. If it were not a community value, human communities would probably not last, in practical terms.
Values can be anything you like. Companies have a value system. Individuals have a value system. Mine includes strong black coffee with two sugars.
So far, we are on the same page about values - preferences that affect your behaviour.
Once you begin talking about morality, you are actually talking about the formation of commonly shared values. A majority of people share the idea that life is sacred. It is a shared value. However, some character down the road says he doesn’t share that value and he says he will kill anyone who walks on his lawn. So, the majority enact a ‘law’, based on a shared value system. Once that law is enacted, the opinion of the fellow down the road doesn’t count any more. If he shoots anyone he gets shot in return. The enacting of the law has objectified the common assertion that life is sacred.
Then it is the law that is objective, written down where it can be examined independently of anyone’s opinion on the matter. But laws change according to the ebb and flow of community values. You seem to think that morality is something fixed and unchangeable, when it depends entirely on the existence of subjective beings like ourselves.
The rules are based on values which have been objectified. Otherwise, you have no rules but those decided upon by individuals according to their subjective whims and desires.
Commonality does not make values or morals objective, but intersubjective.
According to you, even flowers have no ‘end purpose’. Even the most godless evolutionary geneticist would laugh you down on that one! The fact that certain parts of the human body work in certain ways is proof that they are supposed to work that way. After all, didn’t evolution ‘design’ them that way?
Evolution and natural selection don’t consciously ‘design’ anything. But at least you haven’t suggested that the ultimate purpose of flowers is to be exchanged between humans as a romantic gesture…
Humans, unfortunately, seem to be very inventive at ways of abusing their bodies for wrong ends. In evolutionary terms, adaptation is supposed to increase the viability and survivability of the species.
And as I’ve already explained, the existence of homosexually inclined individuals within a community of humans can increase the survival prospects of the group. Evolution isn’t just an individual exercise, you know.
That “someone” who “intended” could very well be mother nature herself. You know, as in evolution and pure chance, all without God being involved. If what you wrote held true, then you would even have to deny the role of genetic evolution, because genetic evolution has certainly given things an ‘end purpose’ and a proper way to achieve it.
Nature isn’t someone. Nature doesn’t care one way or the other whether I survive to breed or not. If I don’t, others will, and it will be all the same to ‘Mother’ nature. You’re ascribing subjective feelings and opinions and conscious intentions to that which in all likelihood does not have them.
Out of curiosity, why did you choose sugar, instead of, say, heroin?
I suspect there are far more people here who can relate to the former than to the latter, and whilst the former has a seemingly innocent appeal to most people, the latter is almost always harmful.
You might say homosexual behaviour has a place in human sexuality, but that means nothing more than it exists.
Now you begin to understand!
What its final end is, other than an extuingushing of certain genetic traits, or of spreading disease, or the causing of physical harm, no-one can say.
As I’ve said, it doesn’t need a ‘final’ end - you’re still supposing there was intentional design behind it, rather than just fortuitous occurrence. Here’s a possible scenario: let’s say a human pair within a tribe or community have three sons. If all three sons are competing for mates and resources, that will lessen the chances of survival for all their offspring. If one of the sons has homosexual tendencies, then it just may be that more of the offspring of the other two will survive to reproduce. The genes don’t care - they just go with what works in the long run, because that’s all they can do.
That article you linked to is not only poorly written, it is illogical! The basic terms he has used for his little essay are wrong. He defines morality as “…opinions on what is good and bad…” If that is the case, then gravity is just an opinion.
Well, perhaps unsurprisingly, you are confusing facts with opinions. Morality, when it comes down to brass tacks, is people’s opinions on what is right and wrong, what is good and bad - doesn’t matter how many people share the opinion - it’s still an opinion, and will only ever be relevant while there are people to hold opinions. Gravity will exist whether we, as subjective beings, do or not. Morality won’t. If I jump out of a 10th floor window with no safety apparatus, I’ll fall to my death whether I think so or not. You have yet to demonstrate an example of an objective moral fact that exists independently of any subjective beings who have an interest in maintaining or extinguishing certain behaviours.
 
How can attraction to the same sex be objectively meaningful or be classified as a genuine form of sexuality?

As John21652 has indicated, the only thing that can be said is that it exists. No more is it than an exercise of self-indulgence when brought to completion. It passes for sex for its practitioners but it is not true lovemaking nor could it ever be life-giving. In the thousands of years of evolution, the sexual organs even if used exclusively in the manner homosexuals favor, the design has not adapted to the ability of reproduction, as with lower forms of life that reproduce asexually or parthenogenetically. The opposite sex is still required to enable fusion of gametes. The reproductive design of humans has remained. Of course Thomas Beatie ‘succeeded’ somewhat in changing the design, but he resorted to deception and the most radical of manipulations.

Acting on same sex attraction in serving to achieve the non-primary incidence of sensual pleasure is no more purposeful than autoeroticism. Both sterile, undertaken for prurient interests, homosexual acts and masturbation are disordered habits and against natural law.

Hence there is no point in regarding same sex attraction as meaningful and a genuine form of sexuality.
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How can attraction to the same sex be objectively meaningful or be classified as a genuine form of sexuality?

As John21652 has indicated, the only thing that can be said is that it exists. No more is it than an exercise of self-indulgence when brought to completion. It passes for sex for its practitioners but it is not true lovemaking nor could it ever be life-giving. In the thousands of years of evolution, the sexual organs even if used exclusively in the manner homosexuals favor, the design has not adapted to the ability of reproduction, as with lower forms of life that reproduce asexually or parthenogenetically. The opposite sex is still required to enable fusion of gametes. The reproductive design of humans has remained. Of course Thomas Beatie ‘succeeded’ somewhat in changing the design, but he resorted to deception and the most radical of manipulations.

Acting on same sex attraction in serving to achieve the non-primary incidence of sensual pleasure is no more purposeful than autoeroticism. Both sterile, undertaken for prurient interests, homosexual acts and masturbation are disordered habits and against natural law.

Hence there is no point in regarding same sex attraction as meaningful and a genuine form of sexuality.
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As firmly worded an opinion as ever I saw, with plenty of unsupported assumptions woven in for good measure.
 
As firmly worded an opinion as ever I saw, with plenty of unsupported assumptions woven in for good measure.
Touché on me having a firm(ly worded) opinion.

But then the opinions that I read from former Catholics and non-Catholics likewise amaze me in this forum, which is after all a Catholic site.

You say plenty without specifying which are unsupported assumptions. It should not be difficult to identify at least one supposedly unsupported assumption in the five sentences contained in the body of my post.
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Touché on me having a firm(ly worded) opinion.

But then the opinions that I read from former Catholics and non-Catholics likewise amaze me in this forum, which is after all a Catholic site.

You say plenty without specifying which are unsupported assumptions. It should not be difficult to identify at least one supposedly unsupported assumption in the five sentences contained in the body of my post.
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You assume, firstly, that sex is always and only for the primary purpose of reproduction. Considering the average percentage of human copulations that actually result in pregnancy, and the fact that humans, unlike many other animals, do not have a ‘season’ in which they are sexually receptive - but are potentially sexually receptive year-round - it seems strange to suppose that it has no other purpose than baby making.

Secondly, you assume that sharing physical pleasure with someone, without the possibility of pregnancy, is ‘selfish’. Add to this the more basic assumption that pleasure isn’t supposed to be an end in itself, but needs some justification deemed more ‘worthy’. I can assure you that two people of the same sex are perfectly capable of real lovemaking, of sharing themselves with each other and appreciating each other’s pleasure.

Then you assume that purpose has to be future-orientated, not focused on the moment. Do you suppose that sharing pleasure and bonding with a partner is not a ‘purpose’?

And to round off the list, you tacitly assume, like others here, that evolution is intentional and prescriptive - that if homosexuality were ‘legitimate’, evolution would have done something useful with it. Unfortunately for your argument, that’s not the way any evolutionary biologist would claim evolution operates. Sexual reproduction didn’t evolve for the ultimate purpose of making human men and women designed to form little nuclear units in imitation of the Holy Family - it evolved and continued because it worked for certain species, and a large part of the reason it worked is because, unlike asexual reproduction, it readily allows for genetic variation between parents and offspring. Some of that genetic variation, as it happens, comes through as differences in sexual preference.
 
Hi, John21652,

What an amazing statement! :)👍

God bless

What utter piffle…
If you keep on insisting that morality is personal opinion, then you can’t defend the wrongness of child rape. It will just be your opinion.

This is where you make debating with you a head banging exercise. Values can be anything you like. Companies have a value system. Individuals have a value system. Mine includes strong black coffee with two sugars.

Once you begin talking about morality, you are actually talking about the formation of commonly shared values. A majority of people share the idea that life is sacred. It is a shared value. However, some character down the road says he doesn’t share that value and he says he will kill anyone who walks on his lawn. So, the majority enact a ‘law’, based on a shared value system. Once that law is enacted, the opinion of the fellow down the road doesn’t count any more. If he shoots anyone he gets shot in return. The enacting of the law has objectified the common assertion that life is sacred. Comprende? This system constrains the value systems of individuals. That is what morality does. It puts in place a set of rules which guide behaviour. The rules are based on values which have been objectified. Otherwise, you have no rules but those decided upon by individuals according to their subjective whims and desires.
What utter piffle.
According to you, even flowers have no ‘end purpose’. Even the most godless evolutionary geneticist would laugh you down on that one! The fact that certain parts of the human body work in certain ways is proof that they are supposed to work that way. After all, didn’t evolution ‘design’ them that way? If not, your existence is a really big accident!! Humans, unfortunately, seem to be very inventive at ways of abusing their bodies for wrong ends. In evolutionary terms, adaptation is supposed to increase the viability and survivability of the species. Men shoving the ‘for breeding’ bits of their anatomies into orifices that have functions other than ‘for breeding’ would seem to negate the evolutionary concept of survivabilty and fitness. I suppose that’s why homosexuals have rely on modern medicine so much…
That “someone” who “intended” could very well be mother nature herself. You know, as in evolution and pure chance, all without God being involved. If what you wrote held true, then you would even have to deny the role of genetic evolution, because genetic evolution has certainly given things an ‘end purpose’ and a proper way to achieve it. If your proclivities include shagging the neighbour’s cow, go for it. If you catch a good dose of Leptospirosis, of course you will head straight to the nearest doctor for a shot and you will do so because your ‘end purpose’ will have been subverted. Wont you? Well, a few lumps of refined sugar in the digestive system sure never gave anyone HIV. Not sure what would happen if you shoved it up from the other end though…Out of curiosity, why did you choose sugar, instead of, say, heroin?
Survival for some has indeed become more complicated because they have abused their sexuality, subverted the final ends of things and so they need the intervention of modern medicine to have a shot at life. You might say homosexual behaviour has a place in human sexuality, but that means nothing more than it exists. What its final end is, other than an extuingushing of certain genetic traits, or of spreading disease, or the causing of physical harm, no-one can say. That article you linked to is not only poorly written, it is illogical! The basic terms he has used for his little essay are wrong. He defines morality as “…opinions on what is good and bad…” If that is the case, then gravity is just an opinion. If that is the case, then you’d better rip up the U.S. Declaration of Independence, because the self evident ‘truths’ it mentions are just a collection of opinions.
 
Hi, InSerchofGrace,

You are certainly free to take any comment from anyone in an effort to improve on one’s postings - but, after reading your post, I saw no problem with it.

The critique was truly a Tu Quoque form of illogical argument, and candidly of no validity.

Anyone who does not subscribe that 'Morality is what I say it is!" is criticized. A firm (clay, wooden, stone, steel … you name it…) response essentially stands up to the acidic vapors that are the basis for these totally subjective views of reality.

May I suggest that you maintain your position. It is solid for a reason. If you want a model, look to Christ. Notice all the times He stood His ground with the Pharisees and told them of their evil lives. All they could do was plot to kill Him!

Please, continue to march and do not be distracted by those who are not only perishing themselves but are encouraging others to join them in eternal perdition.

God bless
Touché on me having a firm(ly worded) opinion.

But then the opinions that I read from former Catholics and non-Catholics likewise amaze me in this forum, which is after all a Catholic site.

You say plenty without specifying which are unsupported assumptions. It should not be difficult to identify at least one supposedly unsupported assumption in the five sentences contained in the body of my post.
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If it were my opinion and mine alone, it would not be a community value. If it were not a community value, human communities would probably not last, in practical terms.

So far, we are on the same page about values - preferences that affect your behaviour.

Then it is the law that is objective, written down where it can be examined independently of anyone’s opinion on the matter. But laws change according to the ebb and flow of community values. You seem to think that morality is something fixed and unchangeable, when it depends entirely on the existence of subjective beings like ourselves.

Commonality does not make values or morals objective, but intersubjective.

Evolution and natural selection don’t consciously ‘design’ anything. But at least you haven’t suggested that the ultimate purpose of flowers is to be exchanged between humans as a romantic gesture…

And as I’ve already explained, the existence of homosexually inclined individuals within a community of humans can increase the survival prospects of the group. Evolution isn’t just an individual exercise, you know.

Nature isn’t someone. Nature doesn’t care one way or the other whether I survive to breed or not. If I don’t, others will, and it will be all the same to ‘Mother’ nature. You’re ascribing subjective feelings and opinions and conscious intentions to that which in all likelihood does not have them.

I suspect there are far more people here who can relate to the former than to the latter, and whilst the former has a seemingly innocent appeal to most people, the latter is almost always harmful.

Now you begin to understand!

As I’ve said, it doesn’t need a ‘final’ end - you’re still supposing there was intentional design behind it, rather than just fortuitous occurrence. Here’s a possible scenario: let’s say a human pair within a tribe or community have three sons. If all three sons are competing for mates and resources, that will lessen the chances of survival for all their offspring. If one of the sons has homosexual tendencies, then it just may be that more of the offspring of the other two will survive to reproduce. The genes don’t care - they just go with what works in the long run, because that’s all they can do.

Well, perhaps unsurprisingly, you are confusing facts with opinions. Morality, when it comes down to brass tacks, is people’s opinions on what is right and wrong, what is good and bad - doesn’t matter how many people share the opinion - it’s still an opinion, and will only ever be relevant while there are people to hold opinions. Gravity will exist whether we, as subjective beings, do or not. Morality won’t. If I jump out of a 10th floor window with no safety apparatus, I’ll fall to my death whether I think so or not. You have yet to demonstrate an example of an objective moral fact that exists independently of any subjective beings who have an interest in maintaining or extinguishing certain behaviours.
Even Thomas Huxley thought of Christian morality as superior to all others because of the outcomes of behavior that result from it. Certainly some behaviors are better for survivability that others. But you are asserting there is no imperial test for a morality?
 
Even Thomas Huxley thought of Christian morality as superior to all others because of the outcomes of behavior that result from it. Certainly some behaviors are better for survivability that others. But you are asserting there is no imperial test for a morality?
I think you’ve just given the lie to anyone who claims that “only the strong survive.” Some behaviours that are better for individual survivability are such as most people would find morally repugnant - like having your rivals murdered, for example, just so you don’t have to share your resources with them. Similarly, other behaviours that are considered morally upright tend to have detrimental effects upon personal survival, such as a parent sacrificing life or health for the sake of her or his offspring. Yet we see these kinds of behaviours all the time, amongst humans and other animals alike.

Again, evolution doesn’t care about individual survival. Only individual organisms with some level of subjective feeling and emotion have the capacity to care whether they personally survive or not. Nature’s laws are not prescriptive, nor are they based upon any inherent understanding of what is morally best for any being.

I’m sure there are empirical tests you could run on the survival outcomes of particular individuals based upon their behaviour patterns. But at the end of the day, that would not tell you anything at all about what was morally good; and that’s not what nature is all about, anyway. As Bruce Bagemihl writes in Biological Exuberance, it is biological diversity and behavioural plasticity that provide the variety that allows any ecological system to be self-sustaining and adaptable. If all are pursuing precisely the same goals and the same outcomes, resources and opportunities will soon dry up. Or, to put it more mundanely, if we all wanted the same thing, life would get very boring, very quickly!
 
Hi, RobbyS,

I have not thought of Thomas (“Darwin’s Bulldog”) Huxley in years…🙂

Looking at long-term outcomes is a good way to evaluate behaviors. The problem with some approaches (e.g., “The Happy Bunny Approach” that claims, “It’s all about me!”) is that it simply does not last long enough, has one one participant and they are as likely to change paths as they are to stay where they are. In other words, there is no body of knowledge that can be developed from one individual claimint it is ‘right for me’ and ending at that. But, narcissism is not that unique a problem - and, it does not take long to uncover rather poor long-term outcomes.

Every society has different areas of growth, maturity and ultimate decline. Ancient Greece and Rome were around for a long time - but, they did not begin and maintain a decadent life-style for their entire existence. If we are really serious about long-term survival, then I think it would be prudent to see what happened to those who came before us - and have only left records of them having been here.

God bless
Even Thomas Huxley thought of Christian morality as superior to all others because of the outcomes of behavior that result from it. Certainly some behaviors are better for survivability that others. But you are asserting there is no imperial test for a morality?
 
Hi, Elizabeth502

The abuses of the body appear to be limited only by the imagination. Ah, but there are consequences for such foolishness. And, while there may be some real medically helpful approaches medicinenet.com/yeast_vaginitis/article.htm The ounce of prevention is truly worth the pound of cure.

Avoiding ingesting a lot of refined sugar is not a bad idea … putting it other places is simply imprudent.

God bless
[Addressed to John]:

For another example of abuse of the body:
Young women have been known to apply refined sugar in, shall we say delicately, a particular gynecological way, contraceptively (as opposed to the digestive system), which then causes significant – even raging – urological problems. So yes, nature does not take kindly to the body’s systems and functions being derailed.
 
Hi, Elizabeth502

The abuses of the body appear to be limited only by the imagination. Ah, but there are consequences for such foolishness. And, while there may be some real medically helpful approaches medicinenet.com/yeast_vaginitis/article.htm The ounce of prevention is truly worth the pound of cure.

Avoiding ingesting a lot of refined sugar is not a bad idea … putting it other places is simply imprudent.

God bless
Tom, the article referred to something slightly different than my oblique reference, but I prefer not to get graphic, so I’ll discuss it offline with you. I was referring to the abuse of one body system affecting a different body system, which was the parallel being raised earlier.
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To reply to the original question, it is not objectively meaningful to speak of same sex relationships. Love is an act of the will, not an emotion. We choose to love God, we choose to love a person and we choose to commit ourselves to a person as our spouse. When we do enter into a spousal relationship, we make a gift of our total self, each to the other. The gifts are complimentary, each to the other, so that together the married couple becomes a new spiritual being with a new spiritual identity. As Jesus told us in the gospel in His discourse with the leaders on marriage, our task is to return as closely as we can to the state in which we were “in the beginning”, to what John Paul II referred to as original innocence. Love is always creative, and marital love is uniquely creative in that the love given to each other is participative in the love God shares with them when He indwells in them and participates in their creative love, which in the natural course of events is manifested as a child. This can only be if the giving is complimentary. They each bring something different, and complimentary, to the union so that together they are a new being, each fulfilling what is lacking in the other. This cannot happen in a same-sex relationship. Each brings the same thing, there is no complimentarity, and whatever they think they have together cannot ever be a creative result of true love. True love is sacrificial. You sacrifice yourself for the other. You give up self-seeking in favor of the happiness of the other, and you accept the responsibility to do all you can to help you spouse reach heaven. This cannot be a true objective of a same-sex union when the very nature of the union is contrary to what God has consistently declared throughout scripture. One cannot be both seeking God and rejecting God simultaneously. In a same-sex realtionship there are far too many self-seeking aspects and too few ties that require commitment and self-sacrifice. Walking away is so easy because there is no complimentary union that must be torn asunder.
Hi, Elizabeth502

The abuses of the body appear to be limited only by the imagination. Ah, but there are consequences for such foolishness. And, while there may be some real medically helpful approaches medicinenet.com/yeast_vaginitis/article.htm The ounce of prevention is truly worth the pound of cure.

Avoiding ingesting a lot of refined sugar is not a bad idea … putting it other places is simply imprudent.

God bless
 
You assume, firstly, that sex is always and only for the primary purpose of reproduction. Considering the average percentage of human copulations that actually result in pregnancy, and the fact that humans, unlike many other animals, do not have a ‘season’ in which they are sexually receptive - but are potentially sexually receptive year-round - it seems strange to suppose that it has no other purpose than baby making.
Indeed, sex is primarily for reproduction, notwithstanding your note on the incidence of pregnancy in the total number of human copulations. Incidentally, if there were not many couples contracepting and bisexuals were to choose to have intercourse with members of the opposite sex instead of the same sex (people of such orientation can’t say they don’t have a choice to which sex they get attracted!), the incidence of pregnancy would certainly be higher, no?

At any rate, our different views on the purpose of sex probably stem from dissimilar cultures, operative personal beliefs and circle of friends and family. In the three living generations with mine, the pattern mostly is that when one finds his/her mate, one looks forward to beget and raise children (in the plural), though not as many as my parents’ generation.

The procreative end of sex has social value as it builds families, the basic unit of society, on which the future is hinged. It is said and there is truth in that children are our future.

Sure, there are married or cohabiting couples who engage in regular sex in this age without the thought of children ever getting in the picture or their plans, those without sterility issues so to speak. They contracept thereby making the choice of denying the life giving aspect of lovemaking, the unitive part of sex which still traditionally is deemed to be possible only between a man and a woman.

It is evident we operate from different definitions and have different sets of boundaries. In your worldview, the primary reason that couples have sex is NOT reproduction but for social bonding and pleasure.

Deriving sensual pleasure and sharing close intimacy with one’s partner in the expression of love is not being denied in this debate on same sex attraction as a meaningful and classifiable as a genuine human sexuality. It is an important aspect but is still secondary to the procreative purpose of sex. That is what I’m saying and so have others in their posts to you upthread such as:
Benadam, Post 198,
MindoverMatter2, post 351,
tqualey, Post 397.

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Secondly, you assume that sharing physical pleasure with someone, without the possibility of pregnancy, is ‘selfish’. Add to this the more basic assumption that pleasure isn’t supposed to be an end in itself, but needs some justification deemed more ‘worthy’. I can assure you that two people of the same sex are perfectly capable of real lovemaking, of sharing themselves with each other and appreciating each other’s pleasure. …
If you follow the thought of my post above, you would understand the conclusion reached that people as described are selfish.

You are one of those that perpetuate the false notion that two people of the same sex can ‘make love’ or can engage in real lovemaking. What same sex mates do is approximate the coitus of heterosexuals. When same sex couples seek to ‘marry’ they would also be wanting to have what they cannot truly have, as only unions between a men and a women can be real marriages. If you have been a Catholic before, you would at least have an appreciation that said positions are based on long held and unchanged Church teaching which formed moral values placed on marriage, sex and family. Not subjective, nor blind acceptance of moral teachings by Holy Mother Church.

Engaging in same sex is misuse of body parts and dishonoring the body, a temple of the Holy Spirit, no matter how much intensity of sensation is felt, or emotion is associated with such kind of intimacy or bonding, and feelings of love the partners may profess to each other.

My position is not just based on a religion you do not or no longer follow. Two brothers of mine who are both physicians confirmed that active homosexuals have chronic complaints of pain and tears in that part of their anatomy requiring repair in many cases, or worse, eventually leading to more serious conditions, e.g., colorectal infections or cancers. Not pretty. Not healthy. The data is available on the Internet if you check.

It is argued that the type of favored sex practice by homosexuals (anal) is also done by heterosexual couples. Anal sex is associated with risks whether homosexuals or heterosexuals are involved. I doubt it is a prevalent practice with the latter group although it is reported to be on the rise among the young (experimenting?). The bottom is not the cleanest part of the body, making anal sex a dangerous unhealthy sexual practice. If you bring up use of condom and other aids to manage risks we are discussing here, I’m the wrong person to expect to go along with the concept that sex need only to be safe and satisfying. About the safe sex part, though, it is worth noting that even the CDC reported that condoms are more likely to break during anal sex than during vaginal sex. See here under the listed question, Can I Get HIV from Anal Sex.
Then you assume that purpose has to be future-orientated, not focused on the moment. Do you suppose that sharing pleasure and bonding with a partner is not a ‘purpose’?
More of the same argument you made, already addressed above.
And to round off the list, you tacitly assume, like others here, that evolution is intentional and prescriptive - that if homosexuality were ‘legitimate’, evolution would have done something useful with it. Unfortunately for your argument, that’s not the way any evolutionary biologist would claim evolution operates. Sexual reproduction didn’t evolve for the ultimate purpose of making human men and women designed to form little nuclear units in imitation of the Holy Family - it evolved and continued because it worked for certain species, and a large part of the reason it worked is because, unlike asexual reproduction, it readily allows for genetic variation between parents and offspring. Some of that genetic variation, as it happens, comes through as differences in sexual preference.
“Sexual reproduction didn’t evolve for the ultimate purpose of making human men and women (of course they are human!) designed to form little nuclear units in imitation of the Holy Family …Some of that genetic variation comes through as differences in sexual preference.” ???

Do tell us about the variation that changed in how humans reproduce using evolution theories of natural selection and mutation. I submit that the human reproductive system has remained static, unchanged, through the thousands of years of biological adaptation of humans.

You brought up certain genetic variation coming through as differences in sexual preference, perhaps to mean that homosexuality is but a variation with a genetic explanation. DNA has been mapped and sequenced from a functional and physical standpoint of human genes, but no gay gene has been found. If discovery of a gay gene ever happens, that would be headline grabbing news, kept on the front page and every place on the Internet as it would finally put to rest the etiology of homosexuality. The best that the pro-gay crowd can look to at present are certain studies suggesting a concordance of genetic markers in siblings. But results were not consistent and no gene or gene product from the Xq28 region has been identified as affecting sexual orientation.

Finally, no formal investigation or deep research is necessary to see evidence from a gross examination and functionality check of the body’s sex organ. Message that needs repeating: the manifest use of male genitals is not for entry in a sexual partner’s behind. It’s against natural law and poses health problems for the involved partners. Numerous posts have been submitted in this forum by CAF members, not out of a lack of charity or mean-spiritedness towards homosexuals and heterosexuals indulging in said sexual practice. The truth needs to be told and retold in the middle of the noisy unrelenting demand for gay rights.
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Hi, Jdobbins,

Thank you for your excellent post - it was a pleasure to read. 👍

I think your following comment correctly captures the essence of the disagreement.

You give up self-seeking in favor of the happiness of the other, and you accept the responsibility to do all you can to help you spouse reach heaven. This cannot be a true objective of a same-sex union when the very nature of the union is contrary to what God has consistently declared throughout scripture. One cannot be both seeking God and rejecting God simultaneously.

God bless
To reply to the original question, it is not objectively meaningful to speak of same sex relationships. Love is an act of the will, not an emotion. We choose to love God, we choose to love a person and we choose to commit ourselves to a person as our spouse. When we do enter into a spousal relationship, we make a gift of our total self, each to the other. The gifts are complimentary, each to the other, so that together the married couple becomes a new spiritual being with a new spiritual identity. As Jesus told us in the gospel in His discourse with the leaders on marriage, our task is to return as closely as we can to the state in which we were “in the beginning”, to what John Paul II referred to as original innocence. Love is always creative, and marital love is uniquely creative in that the love given to each other is participative in the love God shares with them when He indwells in them and participates in their creative love, which in the natural course of events is manifested as a child. This can only be if the giving is complimentary. They each bring something different, and complimentary, to the union so that together they are a new being, each fulfilling what is lacking in the other. This cannot happen in a same-sex relationship. Each brings the same thing, there is no complimentarity, and whatever they think they have together cannot ever be a creative result of true love. True love is sacrificial. You sacrifice yourself for the other. You give up self-seeking in favor of the happiness of the other, and you accept the responsibility to do all you can to help you spouse reach heaven. This cannot be a true objective of a same-sex union when the very nature of the union is contrary to what God has consistently declared throughout scripture. One cannot be both seeking God and rejecting God simultaneously. In a same-sex realtionship there are far too many self-seeking aspects and too few ties that require commitment and self-sacrifice. Walking away is so easy because there is no complimentary union that must be torn asunder.
 
Hi, InSearchofGrace,

Your comment about the family (husband, wife & chidren) being the basis for society needs to be reinforced because it is so much under attack from those who would debase every effort to honor God.

God bless
Indeed, sex is primarily for reproduction, notwithstanding your note on the incidence of pregnancy in the total number of human copulations. Incidentally, if there were not many couples contracepting and bisexuals were to choose to have intercourse with members of the opposite sex instead of the same sex (people of such orientation can’t say they don’t have a choice to which sex they get attracted!), the incidence of pregnancy would certainly be higher, no?

At any rate, our different views on the purpose of sex probably stem from dissimilar cultures, operative personal beliefs and circle of friends and family. In the three living generations with mine, the pattern mostly is that when one finds his/her mate, one looks forward to beget and raise children (in the plural), though not as many as my parents’ generation.

The procreative end of sex has social value as it builds families, the basic unit of society, on which the future is hinged. It is said and there is truth in that children are our future.

Sure, there are married or cohabiting couples who engage in regular sex in this age without the thought of children ever getting in the picture or their plans, those without sterility issues so to speak. They contracept thereby making the choice of denying the life giving aspect of lovemaking, the unitive part of sex which still traditionally is deemed to be possible only between a man and a woman.

It is evident we operate from different definitions and have different sets of boundaries. In your worldview, the primary reason that couples have sex is NOT reproduction but for social bonding and pleasure.

Deriving sensual pleasure and sharing close intimacy with one’s partner in the expression of love is not being denied in this debate on same sex attraction as a meaningful and classifiable as a genuine human sexuality. It is an important aspect but is still secondary to the procreative purpose of sex. That is what I’m saying and so have others in their posts to you upthread such as:
Benadam, Post 198,
MindoverMatter2, post 351,
tqualey, Post 397.

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Hi, Jdobbins,

Thank you for your excellent post - it was a pleasure to read. 👍

I think your following comment correctly captures the essence of the disagreement.

You give up self-seeking in favor of the happiness of the other, and you accept the responsibility to do all you can to help you spouse reach heaven. This cannot be a true objective of a same-sex union when the very nature of the union is contrary to what God has consistently declared throughout scripture. One cannot be both seeking God and rejecting God simultaneously.

God bless
Indubitably a union of the flesh between two people of the same sex in impossible and the attempt is an abomination, but wherefore is chaste love ruled out?
 
Hi, Dakota,

I do not think anyone at anytime and under any post I am aware of has disparaged or ‘ruled out’ chaste love. In reality - all of our love, in whatever state we are (priest, consecrated religious, married, widowed, single, separated, divorced … did I miss any?) is to be chaste love. ‘Love’ that is un-chaste is just lust with a spelling problem! 😉

Maybe if you gave a real life example, this would be helpful towards understanding your concern.

God bless
Indubitably a union of the flesh between two people of the same sex in impossible and the attempt is an abomination, but wherefore is chaste love ruled out?
 
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