Is it okay to not say the Rosary daily?

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Whoooooaaaa! My goodness you paint with an extremely prejudicial and broad brush, my man. You, a lay person, would presume to pass judgment on a Carmelite? And tell me I don’t know St. Therese? And twist my words to suggest such nonsense about St. Therese?

You are creating havoc in this thread. :rolleyes:
I am not try to pass judgment on you or anyone else. I am taking exception to the fact that you would present St. Therese of Liseux, who had a deep, deep devotion to our Blessed Mother, as somone who would not place importance on the rosary. That is what you have said to True Light.

You also say that the Rosary is not part of your devotion, or at least that is what I understood you to say. As a Carmelite, who I assume is devoted to our Blessed Mother, I don’t understand that at all.
 
You also say that the Rosary is not part of your devotion.
Are you on something??? Where did you get THAT from this …

Read again, please. The rosary is NOT part of Carmelite Rule. That’s not to say many of the members do not pray it. Please do not twist this.
 
Are you on something??? Where did you get THAT from this …

Read again, please. The rosary is NOT part of Carmelite Rule. That’s not to say many of the members do not pray it. Please do not twist this.
Only from your postings. You said it is not part of the Caremlite devotion I didn’t know that if that included you. If you do have a devotion to the Rosary, why wouldn’t you want to do more to spread it? It would seem to follow that you would understand the importance of the Rosary.

You seem to be getting a little hot under the collar. May be time to take a break.
 
I guess I’ve misunderstood, but I thought that is where our disagreement comes in. You are arguing that we should go directly to Christ, and I am saying that the best, easiest and surest path is through our Blessed Mother. You say you find that insulting. Have I misunderstood?
Yes. You are making the common mistake of taking an “Either/or” approach instead of a both/and approach to Spirituality.

You take the view that if one has a direct relationship with Christ one must be somehow rejecting Mary…Yet how can that be if Mary WANTS us to have a direct relationship with Her son??? After all, isn’t that what Mary Points to?? Isn’t Mary point us toward our Salvation which is in Christ??

The view that has been expressed by you here is that you are too frightened to approach Jesus directly and feel you MUST go through Mary and in a sense you feel that you must hide behind Mary (because you are so sinful) and give everything to Mary to give to Christ. That is fine - I have no problem with that, if that is what helps you the most. That is how the Spirit is leading you.

But my spirituality is different, and my relationship with Mary (and it IS a relationship) and with Christ is also different. I do not stand behind Mary but next to her. Not in Holiness, for I am a terrible sinner, but with her, as my mother in the family of God. Mary does pray for me, and I ask her to pray for me. But whatever I am, whatever I have to offer to Christ and to the Father, I may offer directly. It may be poor, like a small child’s crayon scribbles, but I don’t need for Mary to “clean it up” and make my scribbles a Rembrandt either. God knows my faults and my weaknesses, as does Mary and all of the saints in heaven. What need have I to hide behind Mary from a God who sees all?

I have great confidence in God’s Mercy and His ability to lead me, through Christ my King, into the beatific vision. Mary and the saints add to this by their prayers, and advocacy on our behalf.
In this I have a very simple theology. I have to because I am a simple person and I have been given a simple faith built on the simple Gospel message of Love God and Love neighbor as yourself.

Now I have great respect for you path and understandings. All I ask is the same respect.

Peace
James
 
You may not have read Way of Perfection yet, TL, but she has put vocal prayers (which includes the rosary) as the lowest manner of praying, without demeaning those who have no ability for mental prayer.
The rosary doesn’t stop at recitation of the Paters and Aves. The rosary is both vocal and contemplative. You cannot be said to have prayed the rosary by merely reciting 15 decades of one Pater, ten Ave and one Gloria. You must, to the best of your ability, also combine meditation on the appropriate mysteries to have truly prayed the rosary.

And furthermore this is such a superficial reading of Saint Teresa. Yes merely saying, for example, an Act of Faith is the lowest manner of prayer.

But here is what Saint Teresa has to say in her work the Way of Perfection.
What I wish that we shall do, daughters, is that we shall not content ourselves with this alone; because when I say the Creed, it seems to me right that I should understand and know what I believe; and when I say the Our Father, love requires that I realise Who is our Father, and Who is the Master, Who taught us this prayer.
You are right in saying that the method I have spoken of is mental prayer, but I assure you that I do not know how to separate it from vocal prayer when the latter is recited well, and we understand with Whom we are speaking
And furthermore… the rosary and the scapular are inseparable. The habit of the glorious Order of Carmel, the Order that walks in the footsteps of the Prophets and Patriarchs and more important in the footsteps of Our Lady herself cannot be separated from her Psalter.
 
Kind of sidestepping the fray here, just wanted to share my own experiences and comments about saying the Rosary daily.

I used to find it hard to say a full five decades every day, myself…sometimes I still start in with a begrudging attitude; but the graces that I’ve received from sticking with it even when it seemed dull, or a bother, or sometimes even futile (m’sure the Enemy was in there at that point, trying to muck around with me a bit), have been profound. I have found that, after a while, it’s been easier to avoid the sins which I’ve been prone too in the past, as well as a sense of deeper devotion and guidance from our Mother.

As many others have said, mediation on the mysteries with the help of Rosary booklets and the like really help bring to mind what you’re meditating on as you pray. And, I might add, these graces have come from Rosaries said almost exclusively for the souls in Purgatory, rather than anything I’ve asked for myself.

Do I think everyone NEEDS to pray the Rosary to attain Heaven? Nope. I do think that the devotion, practiced faithfully by an exercise of the will rather than of feeling, will make the road easier. I can testify that the feelings come if you just stick with doing it first. It takes time, just like almost any worthwhile endeavor. For me, it took about a year, even through deep depression and times of near-suicidal thought. There were many, many times that I definitely didn’t feel a sense of reverence or joy when I prayed it (and there are times when I still don’t), but the graces came nonetheless.

More specifically to the OP or anyone else having trouble with their Rosaries (and would like to keep them up), I would humbly recommend saying them for the souls in Purgatory, if you just can’t seem to get them off the ground any other way. For me, it gave the completion of the Rosary an importance outside of my own daily needs…others began to rely on me for it, and it also let me start saying them with less of a grudging attitude, knowing the help I was giving to the poor Souls (who I ask to pray for me as well).
 
Yes. You are making the common mistake of taking an “Either/or” approach instead of a both/and approach to Spirituality.

You take the view that if one has a direct relationship with Christ one must be somehow rejecting Mary…Yet how can that be if Mary WANTS us to have a direct relationship with Her son??? After all, isn’t that what Mary Points to?? Isn’t Mary point us toward our Salvation which is in Christ??

The view that has been expressed by you here is that you are too frightened to approach Jesus directly and feel you MUST go through Mary and in a sense you feel that you must hide behind Mary (because you are so sinful) and give everything to Mary to give to Christ. That is fine - I have no problem with that, if that is what helps you the most. That is how the Spirit is leading you.

But my spirituality is different, and my relationship with Mary (and it IS a relationship) and with Christ is also different. I do not stand behind Mary but next to her. Not in Holiness, for I am a terrible sinner, but with her, as my mother in the family of God. Mary does pray for me, and I ask her to pray for me. But whatever I am, whatever I have to offer to Christ and to the Father, I may offer directly. It may be poor, like a small child’s crayon scribbles, but I don’t need for Mary to “clean it up” and make my scribbles a Rembrandt either. God knows my faults and my weaknesses, as does Mary and all of the saints in heaven. What need have I to hide behind Mary from a God who sees all?

I have great confidence in God’s Mercy and His ability to lead me, through Christ my King, into the beatific vision. Mary and the saints add to this by their prayers, and advocacy on our behalf.
In this I have a very simple theology. I have to because I am a simple person and I have been given a simple faith built on the simple Gospel message of Love God and Love neighbor as yourself.

Now I have great respect for you path and understandings. All I ask is the same respect.

Peace
James
Just a quick response. You have mischaracterized what I have written. I am not saying Mary is the only path to Christ. I am saying that she is the quickest, easiest and surest way to Christ. Mary was created and remained in sinless perfection. She was and remains completely at one with the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Her will and God’s Will are one and the same. I think it is safe to say that there aren’t very many here on earth who can say that, and I know that I certainly can’t.

As I have posted, Christ, in one of his last acts while dying on the Cross, gave his greatest, most perfect creation - His Holy Mother - to us as our Mother. You say you have a relationship with her, but you say that you don’t need her to go to Christ, that you can do it on your own. I say, why not accept this most beautiful, most perfect Creation that our Lord himself has given to us? One of Mary’s very greatest virtues is humility. When we accept her as our Mother and Advocate to Jesus Christ, when we say that we are too sinful to approach Christ without the Queen of Heaven and Earth, we too are showing our humility. I, for one, would never put myself on the same level as Mary. She was created sinless and remained that way her entire life. I sure can’t say that. I can’t remain sinless from one confession to the next. You are absolutely right - I would definitely stand behind her when approaching my Saviour. And I am most grateful that she is there to clean up and make presentable the tainted offerings that I present to Christ. That is one reason why Christ gave her to us, and I intend to make full use of that.

Plus, what do I, a sinful human being, know about going to the Creator of the Universe? If I was approaching a king in this world, I would want all the help I can get. I would want someone who would show me just what it is I need to do. That is all the more true with our Heavenly King. I need someone to show me the way, and no one could be better at that than His Blessed Mother.

I am sorry if I offended you. But I will never apologize for trying to lead people to Our Blessed Mother, for she truly is, maybe not the only road, but the surest road to her Son.

Merry Christmas
 
Absolutely! If you read “Story of a Soul,” St. Therese had a very difficult time with the rosary, often falling asleep due to the inability to stay focused. Yet St. Therese LOVED Mary, and had a vision from her when she was healed of her near-death illness.

You may not have read Way of Perfection yet, TL, but she has put vocal prayers (which includes the rosary) as the lowest manner of praying, without demeaning those who have no ability for mental prayer. But yes, mental prayer is the door to contemplation, wherefrom God’s most efficacious help comes in advancing toward Union with God.

These are very young members who have little understanding of spirituality that are railing and causing such dissension here. True love for Mary and Christ would cease from placing such heavy burdens on others’ consciences.

I am a Carmelite - belonging to the very order of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel. One who is called to this vocation already has a deep love for Mary, which is a necessary sign for admittance. However, in our communities, the focus is NOT on the Rosary or St. Louis’s teachings, but on Teresa’s profound, sublime exposition of mental prayer and contemplation. Our Rule of Life does not include a daily rosary. The essentials to which we profess are daily mass, daily Liturgy of the Hours, and a half-hour of MENTAL prayer.

St. Teresa was not made a Doctor of the Church with regard to PRAYER, without good reason. 😉
Sirach,

Thanks for this post.

My question was addressed to ACatholic and Laudate.

I have read the Way of Perfection and Carmelite spirituality really is awesome.

My point was that for some people, praying may involve saying all 15 decades in one day. This is the way they feel close to God or Mary.

Some are contemplatives.

Both Saint Dominic (which it is said received the Rosary Devotion from our Lady), Saint Francis and Saint Teresa of Avila were also great contemplatives. I’m certain they said the Rosary, but their writings are not focused on the Rosary as far as I know.

I just find it amazing how people judge your whole spiritual life without knowing you based on if you say the Rosary daily or not.
 
God grant me patience…:mad:

How many times have I said on THIS thread that I Love my Mother…Yet you declare that I don’t accept her…It’ no wonder that we cannot communicate…

:mad:…1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10… :rolleyes:

Peace
James
James, the reason Acatholic and I butt heads is because he or she is very stubborn and does not concede even the tiniest point and he is also very quick to assess you and make a judgment about your Catholicity.
 
And furthermore this is such a superficial reading of Saint Teresa. Yes merely saying, for example, an Act of Faith is the lowest manner of prayer.
Did you read the part where she said she was a secular Carmelite? It takes 5-6 years of formation to become a secular Carmelite.
 
James, the reason Acatholic and I butt heads is because he or she is very stubborn and does not relent not even in the tiniest point and he is also very quick to assess you and make a judgment about your Catholicity.
That is a very cruel and jugmental thing to write. I have not judged anyone here. I am reporting your post.
 
Just a quick response. You have mischaracterized what I have written.
That may well be. The conversation got a bit confused, especially since my initial “rant” was over something posted by Laudate Dominum and not by you,
I am not saying Mary is the only path to Christ. I am saying that she is the quickest, easiest and surest way to Christ. Mary was created and remained in sinless perfection. She was and remains completely at one with the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Her will and God’s Will are one and the same. I think it is safe to say that there aren’t very many here on earth who can say that, and I know that I certainly can’t.
Yes I understand this imagery of Mary being a good path to Christ, but I have a problem with in in this sense. In the Gospels Jesus speaks of two roads. The Road to Salvation, the Beatific vision, and the road to perdition. But here you say that Mary is not the "only path to Christ (salvation??). So I ask, which is it, one road or multiple roads…🤷

Don’t get me wrong, I do understand what you say here, the benefits available, the protection and so forth, and I do not deny it. But I use a different imagery. We are all on the one road to Christ. To our benefit we have those who have walked the road before us - first among them is Our Blessed Mother. She, along with the other Saints in heaven can and do act as guides. The do this by the example that they set in their earthly lives. Again, Mary is first among these and one would be wise to seek her council. Likewise one can and should feel Bold to seek the council of Christ and to pray directly to the heavenly father.
So - here we have two different views, different imagery different “spiritualities”, if you will, for the same thing. Yours expressed by “more than one path” and mine expressed by a single path but with multiple potential guides and helpers.

As I have posted, Christ, in one of his last acts while dying on the Cross, gave his greatest, most perfect creation - His Holy Mother - to us as our Mother. You say you have a relationship with her, but you say that you don’t need her to go to Christ, that you can do it on your own.
Indeed. in the Gospel, Mary’s last recorded words are at Cana. “Do whatever He tells you.” Later, when the disciples ask Him to teach them to pray He says, “Pray like this. Our Father, who art in heaven…”
Should I not do as Christ commands and make bold to go directly to the Father? Why should I feel constrained, especially when Jesus tells us that we should ask with confidence because the Father already knows what we need before we ask for it?
I say, why not accept this most beautiful, most perfect Creation that our Lord himself has given to us?
No reason in the world that I can think of.
One of Mary’s very greatest virtues is humility. When we accept her as our Mother and Advocate to Jesus Christ, when we say that we are too sinful to approach Christ without the Queen of Heaven and Earth, we too are showing our humility.
This perhaps surely true for some. But just as most children have differing relationships with their parents on earth, there may be differing relationships between Our heavenly parents and us. Some, like yourself, feel more comfortable going to mom instead of dad. I feel more comfortable going to dad and to big brother. Since, as you say earlier, All of their wills are one, in perfect union, this works fine because none of them will be hurt or offended by this.
I, for one, would never put myself on the same level as Mary.
Me neither.
She was created sinless and remained that way her entire life. I sure can’t say that. I can’t remain sinless from one confession to the next. You are absolutely right - I would definitely stand behind her when approaching my Saviour. And I am most grateful that she is there to clean up and make presentable the tainted offerings that I present to Christ. That is one reason why Christ gave her to us, and I intend to make full use of that.
Yes I can see how this imagery works for you and Appreciate too that this is a popular way of looking at Marion devotion and intercession. But as I said before, God already knows how imperfect I am. He is working on me daily, though I remain a poor and inconstant servant. The Father will not turn away anyone any more than Mary would - their wills being one, as you have already stated. He looks at my sad and pitiful offerings, pats me on the head and then turns those offerings into something beautiful and also educational for my spiritual growth.

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Plus, what do I, a sinful human being, know about going to the Creator of the Universe? If I was approaching a king in this world, I would want all the help I can get. I would want someone who would show me just what it is I need to do. That is all the more true with our Heavenly King. I need someone to show me the way, and no one could be better at that than His Blessed Mother.
Jesus and the Apostles have already told us how to approach Him and how to talk to Him. We come as we are. We repent our sins. We are baptized into the family. We pray as our Eldest Brother and King taught us. Then - having done this things we LOVE. We Love our Triune God, We Love our Holy Mother, WE Love our neighbor as our selves.
I am sorry if I offended you. But I will never apologize for trying to lead people to Our Blessed Mother, for she truly is, maybe not the only road, but the surest road to her Son.
I apologize too for becoming testy in these matters. That I do so stems more from the troubles I have witnessed among our protestant brothers in trying to understand proper Marion devotion.
The bottom line in all of this - our very faith itself - is Love. I kind of lost sight of that this morning and posted some pretty snarky things. Please forgive me.
Also please do continue to promote and defend out lady. But if I might ask, try to meet people where they are. A convert or catechumen might need to get comfortable with the concept of Mario devotion in small bites.
Merry Christmas
Merry Christmas to you also.

Peace
James
 
That is a very cruel and jugmental thing to write. I have not judged anyone here. I am reporting your post.
You have been judging in the whole thread, so please report the whole thread in which you were intimating that those who don’t pray the Rosary daily, do not have a devotion to our lady.

In fact, look at your own posts here:
Thank you for your beautiful post,. Laudate Dominum. It does blow my mind a little that we are having an argument about devotion to our Blessed Lady on a Catholic forum. As you say, this is not about private revelation but about Catholic church teaching on devotion to Mary and why it is so important.** It is somewhat disconcerting that there are Catholics who find fault with this. Devotion to Mary is Catholic dogma. The Church has assigned many different days to her, and even whole months - May and October. We might as well be questioning communion of the saints and the seven sacraments.** No saint or pope has ever questioned devotion to Mary but to the contrary, has wholeheartedly supported and promoted it.
Sadly, I know there are Catholics who, to their own detriment, will fight this beautiful writing of St. Louis. Although our Lord himself chose Mary as the way to come to this world, too many will reject her, his Beloved Mother, who is competely at one with His Will and to whom he would deny nothing, as the way to Him.
But you don’t accept her as our advocate to Jesus Christ. That is a big gulf. I’m sorry it makes you angry.
 
You have been judging in the whole thread, so please report the whole thread in which you were intimating that those who don’t pray the Rosary daily, do not have a devotion to our lady.

In fact, look at your own posts here:
True Light, I think you should quit while you’re ahead. You’re getting into dangerous ground. I feel like you are trying to pick a fight. We’ll see what the moderator has to say.
 
I didnt use to like praying it tbh. But since it helped me overcome my sin (that one which am ashamed of mentioning), I LOVE praying it.
 
Please everyone ------

PEACE
LOL James you just summed up my feeling after reading the 8 Pages…WOW

I will say it takes Good Catholics to even have Discussions about Devotion and Prayer in general. I being so green in my Catholic walk I just truly hope to one day have the knowledge and confidence in my own prayer life to express any of these sentiments. I am in the Baby Steps mode for prayer myself. Say the Rosary and started working on the Chaplet of Divine Mercy. Getting used to the whole Reading of prayers since I dont have them remembered yet which is a struggle as of now for me. I do love the using DivineOffice.org and doing the Liturgy of the Hours…Since its so loaded with Scripture…

Everyone take a Chill pill… Love one another…😃
 
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