Is it time we welcome the gay community to ours?

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NO never homosexuality is a mortalsin those people are destroying the human race if eveyone was gay there wouldent be more kids
 
I’m a definite believer yes they should. Lets be honest the popularity of the church is declining at an alarming rate. And we need to get people excited about coming again and not chastise any walk of life we deem unfit.

Ps. I’m straight and catholic

So what is your view?
There are lots of ways to be popular. There are lots of ways to fill the Church. If truth doesn’t matter the list is endless.

However, if we realize what the Church is, and her mission, there is one sure way. Let the Holy Spirit fill the Church.

Somebody needs to preach the gospel of repentance and forgiveness. Part of that is preaching what sin is, and the consequences, the way that Jesus himself did. Hopefully it will be the bishops, priests, and deacons who will do it. If they don’t, someone else will.

We need to pray for the conversion of hearts of Catholics, including the clergy, especially the clergy. We need to pray without ceasing for the salvation of souls, including our own.

The Holy Spirit will then fill the Church.
 
You are probably familiar with the woman caught in adultery in John 8 right? I assume you are because this is a favorite of the “don’t Judge” crowd. .
I apologize if plucking out that one quote seems harsh. I am not sure how to state this, but I have always thought that being non-judgemental was a virtue. Mathew-7.
 
I apologize if plucking out that one quote seems harsh. I am not sure how to state this, but I have always thought that being non-judgemental was a virtue. Mathew-7.
Of course we are to judge! How else could be discern the Truth? What is it that we should not judge? Sin, evil? Even other people we judge all the time. I judged my wife worthy to marry.

We should not judge a measure we do not wish to be judged ourselves. I am quite sure we are to judge. Please tell me how a Christian could live a life without judgement?

Did you read what you cited?
“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.
6 “Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.
Do you interpret this to mean that we should never help our bother with his eye?
No, what it means is I should not condemn when I might be a hypocrite. So to the topic of gays, It would be wrong of me to tell a known practicing homosexual they should not receive the Eucharist if I was visiting prostitutes. If I take care of my own eye then I can help.

But you were right to cite Mt 7 just read a little further to Vs 6.
Which probably more applies to the discussion than the tired old “don’t judge” mantra. But it goes against what you are trying to say.

Do you have a theological response?
 
Of course we are to judge! How else could be discern the Truth?
Which probably more applies to the discussion than the tired old “don’t judge” mantra. But it goes against what you are trying to say.

Do you have a theological response?
Let me state for the record that I am not about changing church views on anything, especially anything involving mortal sin. But really, “the tired old ‘don’t judge’ mantra?”
That sounds a wee bit bitter. The Pope has said this, “Who am I to judge?”

You are absolutely correct when you suggest we have to be careful with whom we have relationships, hire, or become friends with. Perhaps our disagreement is over syntax. Too often we claim to know what people are or what people think on very scant evidence. Innocent people have been executed on hearsay.

My point all along is that we should treat all who come into the church with kindness and respect, unless their actions while at Church are disruptive. There is no such thing as the Eucharist police, [well, except for the Clergy and then for good reason] I may be wrong, but I don’t think Jesus would be quite as uptight as we are about who can come to his table.

Are my views really that far off and liberal? I don’t pick and choose sins, or rate their severity. We minister to all in the hope they find their way to God, and to follow the example of Christ. The Pope wants us to focus less on the rules and more on the message. Peace H Daddy!
 
Let me state for the record that I am not about changing church views on anything, especially anything involving mortal sin. But really, “the tired old ‘don’t judge’ mantra?”
That sounds a wee bit bitter. The Pope has said this, “Who am I to judge?”

You are absolutely correct when you suggest we have to be careful with whom we have relationships, hire, or become friends with. Perhaps our disagreement is over syntax. Too often we claim to know what people are or what people think on very scant evidence. Innocent people have been executed on hearsay.

My point all along is that we should treat all who come into the church with kindness and respect, unless their actions while at Church are disruptive. There is no such thing as the Eucharist police, [well, except for the Clergy and then for good reason] I may be wrong, but I don’t think Jesus would be quite as uptight as we are about who can come to his table.

Are my views really that far off and liberal? I don’t pick and choose sins, or rate their severity. We minister to all in the hope they find their way to God, and to follow the example of Christ. The Pope wants us to focus less on the rules and more on the message. Peace H Daddy!
My problem with what I think you are saying is context. You originally questioned if we should :sin no more" I biblically and logically backed it up. You then went into “judgemental” accusations and threw a Bible verse out then quoted the Pope. My problem with all of this is that every single time when you are shown that your point is in context you move on to something else. I have no idea if your views are liberal but I would hardly describe them as conservative. As a Catholic you would have every right to have the views you have. But you have not backed them up. A Catholic can be a creationist too but they can’t back it up.

My advice to you. (and believe me it isn’t really important that you listen to my advice;))
is this.

Read deeper into the theological and spiritual message. When you cite biblical references, actually cite them. Then read into the verses preceding and following them. The same with the Pope. Listen to what he says IN context. Apply the 2000 years of knowledge of the human condition that the Church has. And apply it fairly and uniformly.

Mostly you and I are in agreement on some things but it is dangerous ground when we start with the “judge not” rhetoric. It is probably why we are losing the cultural battles in the world. We have become to scared to say sodomy is wrong.
My point all along is that we should treat all who come into the church with kindness and respect, unless their actions while at Church are disruptive
I have two problems with this.
  1. Please point out where people are not treating people in the Church with kindness and respect. You are insinuating that somewhere gays are being treated horribly within the Church. I have never seen nor heard of this.
  2. As a Catholic my faith does not stop at the Church doors. People’s actions if disruptive OUTSIDE of Church are just as correctable.
Lord have mercy on us!
 
I apologize if plucking out that one quote seems harsh. I am not sure how to state this, but I have always thought that being non-judgemental was a virtue. Mathew-7.
The actual virtue is Prudence. It’s one of the four Cardinal Virtues. The corresponding Gift of the Holy Spirit is Right Judgement. It is the gift to recognize and discern good and evil.

There is no virtue in Catholic teaching call “being non-judgmental”.
 
My problem with what I think you are saying is context. You originally questioned if we should :sin no more" I biblically and logically backed it up. You then went into “judgemental” accusations and threw a Bible verse out then quoted the Pope. My problem with all of this is that every single time when you are shown that your point is in context you move on to something else.

**I think I can safely plead “mostly guilty” on that charge. My “sin no more” question is simply one of practicality. For example, if young person who experiences the mortal sin of “self gratification” and slips once or twice a year, and truly repents, is he doomed to fire? Hormones are a tough thing to handle, I know, I have a classroom full of them! [That is why I carry a bottle of Holy water around.] **

Mostly you and I are in agreement on some things but it is dangerous ground when we start with the “judge not” rhetoric. It is probably why we are losing the cultural battles in the world. We have become to scared to say sodomy is wrong.

** Sodomy is truly outside God’s plan. I believe they are born with it. Who would choose such a thing willingly. That is my conundrum if you will. I tread with caution mainly for that reason.
I deeply appreciate the time and thoughtful effort you have put into this conversation. Remaining teachable **has long been an important credo of mine . That is why I am here. I am a former Episcopalian, who left because while the EC is a cousin of the CC, it lacks sorely in many areas compared to the CC. That is why I converted, and may I say that I have never regretted it. I bring this up only because I am still trying to get my arms around Catholic doctrine…not only the “whats” but they “whys” behind them.

I sympathise with gay people mainly because I have one in the family. If I gave you the impression that I have witnessed any kind of overt hostility by the church to gays, I apologize, I have not. However I have seen some of this in the forums. I also tend to gravitate towards the more positive and uplifting facets of Christ and the Catholic Church because that is who I am. I teach autistic kids, and you have alot of love to pull that off, let me tell you! * *

I know that I have work to do spiritually. I am exploring the catechism.
I do know that I cannot simply “gloss over” the teachings and expectations on morality. I know first hand what it feels like to be neck deep in sin, as well as the miraculous feeling of purity that can only be experienced rather than explained. I have always tried to fight the good fight for the downtrodden and the underdogs. What I have to accept is the fact that some of the downtrodden underdogs put themselves there. I have to strike a happy median between mercy, compassion, and letting others, including those we have talked about here, find their own way.

  1. As a Catholic my faith does not stop at the Church doors. People’s actions if disruptive OUTSIDE of Church are just as correctable.
**Correctable, yes. One must understand and accept before he or she can correct these actions. The relative I spoke of has been chaste for some time. Some yearn to escape from the pain and suffering of sin, yet do not know how. That is where you…I… and the Church come in. Do you agree?

Thank you again for your time. I came here to learn and to understand**.:knight1:

Lord have mercy on us!
 
My view is no we shouldn’t, one thing I love about being Catholic is we never back down on our views. The church teaching your talking about is dogma, it’s something they can’t ever change. These are really bad times we’re living in, and now especially is not the time to make changes.
no, wait a minute. the Church does back down when cornered. for example, money lending. rubber stamp annulments (compared to earlier times). burning of heretics. putting jews into ghettos and requiring them to be identified if allowed to leave the ghetto. a pope who liked to shop the slave markets in Rome, and who owned a slave.

times change. values change. the church changes. accept that, or live in a state of self deception.

JPII and Benedict XVI struggled a bit with this, but previous popes have not. Francis is leading the way (perhaps) to a new realization of this apparent historic truth. Rejoice in that. It may be the Holy Spirit coming to rescue the previously moribund Catholic Church. Listen to your Pope on this topic.
 
no, wait a minute. the Church does back down when cornered. for example, money lending. rubber stamp annulments (compared to earlier times). burning of heretics. putting jews into ghettos and requiring them to be identified if allowed to leave the ghetto. a pope who liked to shop the slave markets in Rome, and who owned a slave.

times change. values change. the church changes. accept that, or live in a state of self deception.

JPII and Benedict XVI struggled a bit with this, but previous popes have not. Francis is leading the way (perhaps) to a new realization of this apparent historic truth. Rejoice in that. It may be the Holy Spirit coming to rescue the previously moribund Catholic Church. Listen to your Pope on this topic.
Well, I certainly plan to listen to the Pope on any topic. But the Church won’t change teaching on matters of Faith or morality. If one expects the current pope to change Church teaching on matters of sexual morality, there will be disappointment.
 
The Catholic Church doesn’t exclude anybody. Before joining every Catholic-candidate must take RCIA or CCD classes, & be obedient to Church teachings. If obedience can’t be maintained, then the Catholic Church isn’t the One for them. THE question here is probably mostly geared to marriage & sexuality. Same-sex marriage: NO. No marriage: no sex.
 
I’m a definite believer yes they should. Lets be honest the popularity of the church is declining at an alarming rate. And we need to get people excited about coming again and not chastise any walk of life we deem unfit.

Ps. I’m straight and catholic

So what is your view?
Romans 1 18 to 32.
 
I don’t know about “Romans 1 18 to 32”.
What I do know is that the Catholic Church hasn’t ever been concerned about winning popularity contests, Hallelujah. The Catholic Church is not now, nor ever has been a democracy. God runs His Kingdom as a loving Autocrat; Praise be to His Holy Name.
These abnormal behaviors are always called, by God, as abominations. That’s pretty straight-forward.
Celibacy is not impossible, as St. Paul puts it; only for those who cannot maintain self-control, it is better for them to marry. Marriage defined: one woman to one man.
Not difficult to understand.
 
they are always welcomed, but they gotta remember that having a religion is not like having a hobby, the Church has her rules, and they got to avide to them if they want to be part of her. but they are welcomed.
 
I’m a definite believer yes they should. Lets be honest the popularity of the church is declining at an alarming rate. And we need to get people excited about coming again and not chastise any walk of life we deem unfit.

Ps. I’m straight and catholic

So what is your view?
This is a great is a great idea if you want the Church torn to shreds. The Gay community are Marxist foot soldiers and it’s their job to wreck the Catholic Church - and they will do a first class job. We know who the Lord and Master of the Marxist is.It really depends on what you want for the Catholic Church on this topic,it’s a no brainer.
 
If by welcoming the gay community to ours you mean that we should condone sin then NO we absolutely should not and *must *not! The Catholic Church will never change her teachings to something contradictory to those teachings delivered to us by Christ. Its impossible. The Holy Spirit protects the Church’s Magisterium from any and all matters on faith and morals.

However, I do think we should welcome them to come into the Church, be converted, and live a chaste lifestyle if they are not already doing so. We should not judge them based on the fact that they are attracted to the same sex but we also should not, cannot, and must not condone any sin whatsoever.
 
This is a great is a great idea if you want the Church torn to shreds. The Gay community are Marxist foot soldiers and it’s their job to wreck the Catholic Church - and they will do a first class job. We know who the Lord and Master of the Marxist is.It really depends on what you want for the Catholic Church on this topic,it’s a no brainer.
They seem to prefer the Prodistant Church vs. the Catholic Church. I am sure that is true for the sane denominations rather than the primitive uneducated superstitious ones.
 
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