This apply’s to men and women.
A woman could think marrying a man with a lot of money will help her feel secure.
what do you think about that?
Is it ok, for women to do this?
NO, women should never do that, and men, bf, or husbands should never enable it, because then that is all they see them as, and love seems to be just an insincere necessity. Again men, be careful telling that woman, I will treat you like a princess. I know housewives and at-home-mother’s who are given an allowance like a child, and it is never enough, and fights break out about it. What if they need more money for clothing, food, and necessities, though? Just remember that relationships in the past survived and thrived because they were arranged, so they made a forced effort to make things work. If you came from European ancestry, then the woman’s family had to have a dowry to give to a man in the understanding that he would care and take dominion over her and the family they make together. Money now-a days are, in falsehood, looked at, as a big way out of problems. This partnered with a pretty face are still the main two reasons in stern countries as good and natural reasons for marriage. In first world countries, where work is not too hard to come by, there is no excuse to not work (other than caring for many young kids, youthful children, or tending to major illness), at least, part-time. Working also includes running programs, church ministry, and volunteer programs. I cannot tell you how the old images I have I my head of SAHM and housewives utilizing everyday just gossiping on the phone for literal hours, watching soap operas, and playing solitaire for hours on end, was so utterly disappointing to me. Is this sufficient use of lifetime?
Look at where we are now? We have the option to court for as long as we want, be picky, choosy, and careful. Now there are 50% single of my age range, not too many kids around as when I was a kid. (This can go off into so many more tangents; I will not get into much more of this).
In short, being a stay at home mom or dad is truly the hardest job in all the world, so many emotions and split second decisions all ride on their shoulders. No one can put a price on that. No woman or man should get into a marriage commitment with dollar signs in their eyes, although finances, plans, and responsibilities MUST be discussed ahead of time money in this vocation must and should be as modest as the other vocations. Single-hood will heed the most riches in first world countries, and it is usually those people who become pretty big philanthropists and donators of free service time and handouts.
This is the same reason some younger men want a successful woman, she is typically older, has a plan, educated, has strategies on how to keep things afloat, a sugar-mama, maybe? Seems like they like being taken care of, which can be a bit indicative of them finding their mother, which many pleasant men have admitted to believing of themselves. I think they crave being taken care of, or maybe following others because most of the younger guys I have dated have all, except for a few, been the youngest siblings in their families.
Again, enjoy conversations and your time together, and that is going to be the best indicator of your feelings, attraction, and love for that person. Good Luck! Sorry I took so long responding, I have been swamped, and have little time to respond to these posts, CAF is more of a guilty pleasure for reading, more than responding, at least for me, anyway! LOL
Here is a link to that one thread I forgot to include before.
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=303990
