Is lying always wrong?

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Is lying always wrong? Can one get away with “white lies”? Civilization is obviously based on people normally and always telling the truth. Suppose you lied to someone to make them feel better. Is that wrong? Or suppose there was some sort of emergency, and you say “It’s going to be okay”. Is that a lie?
 
I believe one classic response has been one may be forced to do a minor (venial) sin to prevent the doing of a greater (mortal) sin, and the classic example of such:

Gestapo Officer: "Tell me Mrs Van Hort, do you know where there might be any Jews hiding around here?

Mrs Van Hort (Who has the Frank family in her attic) of course LIES
 
[2482](javascript:openWindow(‘cr/2482.htm’)😉 "A *lie *consists in speaking a falsehood with the intention of deceiving."281 The Lord denounces lying as the work of the devil: "You are of your father the devil, . . . there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks according to his own nature, for he is a liar and the father of lies."282
2483 Lying is the most direct offense against the truth. To lie is to speak or act against the truth in order to lead someone into error. By injuring man’s relation to truth and to his neighbor, a lie offends against the fundamental relation of man and of his word to the Lord.
[2484](javascript:openWindow(‘cr/2484.htm’)😉 The gravity of a lie is measured against the nature of the truth it deforms, the circumstances, the intentions of the one who lies, and the harm suffered by its victims. If a lie in itself only constitutes a venial sin, it becomes mortal when it does grave injury to the virtues of justice and charity.
[2485](javascript:openWindow(‘cr/2485.htm’)😉 By its very nature, lying is to be condemned. It is a profanation of speech, whereas the purpose of speech is to communicate known truth to others. The deliberate intention of leading a neighbor into error by saying things contrary to the truth constitutes a failure in justice and charity. The culpability is greater when the intention of deceiving entails the risk of deadly consequences for those who are led astray.
[2486](javascript:openWindow(‘cr/2486.htm’)😉 Since it violates the virtue of truthfulness, a lie does real violence to another. It affects his ability to know, which is a condition of every judgment and decision. It contains the seed of discord and all consequent evils. Lying is destructive of society; it undermines trust among men and tears apart the fabric of social relationships.
[2487](javascript:openWindow(‘cr/2487.htm’)😉 Every offense committed against justice and truth entails the duty of reparation, even if its author has been forgiven. When it is impossible publicly to make reparation for a wrong, it must be made secretly. If someone who has suffered harm cannot be directly compensated, he must be given moral satisfaction in the name of charity. This duty of reparation also concerns offenses against another’s reputation. This reparation, moral and sometimes material, must be evaluated in terms of the extent of the damage inflicted. It obliges in conscience.
 
IV. RESPECT FOR THE TRUTH
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The right to the communication of the truth is not unconditional. Everyone must conform his life to the Gospel precept of fraternal love. This requires us in concrete situations to judge whether or not it is appropriate to reveal the truth to someone who asks for it.
[2489](javascript:openWindow(‘cr/2489.htm’)😉 Charity and respect for the truth should dictate the response to every request for information or communication. The good and safety of others, respect for privacy, and the common good are sufficient reasons for being silent about what ought not be known or for making use of a discreet language. The duty to avoid scandal often commands strict discretion. No one is bound to reveal the truth to someone who does not have the right to know it.283
[2490](javascript:openWindow(‘cr/2490.htm’)😉 The secret of the sacrament of reconciliation is sacred, and cannot be violated under any pretext. "The sacramental seal is inviolable; therefore, it is a crime for a confessor in any way to betray a penitent by word or in any other manner or for any reason."284
2491 Professional secrets - for example, those of political office holders, soldiers, physicians, and lawyers - or confidential information given under the seal of secrecy must be kept, save in exceptional cases where keeping the secret is bound to cause very grave harm to the one who confided it, to the one who received it or to a third party, and where the very grave harm can be avoided only by divulging the truth. Even if not confided under the seal of secrecy, private information prejudicial to another is not to be divulged without a grave and proportionate reason.
[2492](javascript:openWindow(‘cr/2492.htm’)😉 Everyone should observe an appropriate reserve concerning persons’ private lives. Those in charge of communications should maintain a fair balance between the requirements of the common good and respect for individual rights. Interference by the media in the private lives of persons engaged in political or public activity is to be condemned to the extent that it infringes upon their privacy and freedom.
 
I believe one classic response has been one may be forced to do a minor (venial) sin to prevent the doing of a greater (mortal) sin, and the classic example of such:

Gestapo Officer: "Tell me Mrs Van Hort, do you know where there might be any Jews hiding around here?

Mrs Van Hort (Who has the Frank family in her attic) of course LIES
It is not acceptable to lie, even in that situation. The end does not justify the means.

Lying in your example might lessen the guilt associated with the lie, but it is still a sin to lie.
St. Thomas, Summa:

Question: Whether every lie is a sin:

I answer that
: An action that is naturally evil in respect of its genus can by no means be good and lawful, since in order for an action to be good it must be right in every respect: because good results from a complete cause, while evil results from any single defect, as Dionysius asserts (Div. Nom. iv). Now a lie is evil in respect of its genus, since it is an action bearing on undue matter. For as words are naturally signs of intellectual acts, it is unnatural and undue for anyone to signify by words something that is not in his mind. Hence the Philosopher says (Ethic. iv, 7) that “lying is in itself evil and to be shunned, while truthfulness is good and worthy of praise.” Therefore every lie is a sin, as also Augustine declares (Contra Mend. i).
 
It is not acceptable to lie, even in that situation. The end does not justify the means.

Lying in your example might lessen the guilt associated with the lie, but it is still a sin to lie.
I’ll happily take my chances with God on that one.
 
I’ll happily take my chances with God on that one.
Fair enough. But the Catechism was rather clear on the subject. Under no circumstances is a lie anything other than a sin. If, for the protection of others, you cannot reveal a truth, then remain silent, but do not lie.
 
And what about the Catholic doctrine of “mental reservation”? It seems to me to be splitting hairs here…an outright lie being unacceptable but a statement intentionally structured to deceive is ok.

newadvent.org/cathen/10195b.htm
 
I agree - I can’t imagine anyone who accepts the prime commandments of love *not *lying in that situation.
Charity (which is the highest form of love) is united to truth, just as the third person of the Trinity is united to the second. A lie, which is contrary to the truth, is never an act of true charity, but an act of false charity.

If one is willing to offend God by lying, then what they are willing to lie for (the Jew in the example, for example) has become a false God.
 
A stupid and lazy gunman holds you and your wife hostage. Your nine year old daughter is hiding under the bed in the same room. You know for a fact that she is hiding under the bed. The gunman, an extremely fat and lazy man, asks you “is your daughter hiding under the bed…? I don’t want to bend over and get down on the floor in order to see.” Knowing that to lie is sin, you keep silent. The gunman is enraged by your silence. He says to you “I swear to God, if you don’t answer me with a single word…‘yes’ or ‘no’… this very instant I will put a bullet through your wife’s head.” You know that he’ll do it because you’ve seen him kill other people just minutes before he took you hostage.

So, how do you answer? If you keep silent, your wife is dead. If you say “yes” then the gunman knows where your daugher is hiding and will probably kill her. If you lie…and say “no”, you know that the gunman is too lazy to bend over and see if you are telling the truth or not.

I know what I’d do. I’d lie to save my daugher and then I’d ask for forgiveness later. Somehow I think that God will understand.

Is this hypothetical ridiculous? Of course it is, but it’s designed to make a point. And, perhaps, it’s not as ridiculous as it sounds in light of the evil that happens in this world.
 
Charity (which is the highest form of love) is united to truth, just as the third person of the Trinity is united to the second. A lie, which is contrary to the truth, is never an act of true charity, but an act of false charity.

If one is willing to offend God by lying, then what they are willing to lie for (the Jew in the example, for example) has become a false God.
Wow. You are so far divorced from the teachings of Jesus that I don’t see how you can can call yourself a Christian.
 
That is the wrong attitude. Your first duty is to God. You should not be willing to compromise your fidelity to God for anything.
I think that you’re going way overboard on this one.
I don’t know a single parent who wouldn’t lie to a killer about the whereabouts of their child - even if they had a gun to their head. Do you have any children? sure doesn’t sound like it.

**I pray that you will never find yourself in a situation as horrific as that. **
I agree with BillP that I’d happily take my chances with God on that one - a venial sin.
 
Wow. You are so far divorced from the teachings of Jesus that I don’t see how you can can call yourself a Christian.
What I gave was the teaching of Jesus. If you are shocked by the truth, what does that say about you?

Here’s the teaching of Jesus: “…all liers, shall have there part in the lake which burneth with fire …”.

Show me where the Bible teaches that lying is the right thing to do.
 
I think that you’re going way overboard on this one.
I don’t know a single parent who wouldn’t lie to a killer about the whereabouts of their child - even if they had a gun to their head. Do you have any children? sure doesn’t sound like it.

**I pray that you will never find yourself in a situation as horrific as that. **
I agree with BillP that I’d happily take my chances with God on that one - a venial sin.
I honestly can’t say what I would do in that situation, but I do know that if I lied it would be a sin. I am not a saint, and therefore I migh give into the temptation to lie, but that would not make it right.

If you disagree, please show me any official Church document that says lying is alright.
 
A stupid and lazy gunman holds you and your wife hostage. Your nine year old daughter is hiding under the bed in the same room. You know for a fact that she is hiding under the bed. The gunman, an extremely fat and lazy man, asks you “is your daughter hiding under the bed…? I don’t want to bend over and get down on the floor in order to see.” Knowing that to lie is sin, you keep silent. The gunman is enraged by your silence. He says to you “I swear to God, if you don’t answer me with a single word…‘yes’ or ‘no’… this very instant I will put a bullet through your wife’s head.” You know that he’ll do it because you’ve seen him kill other people just minutes before he took you hostage.

So, how do you answer? If you keep silent, your wife is dead. If you say “yes” then the gunman knows where your daugher is hiding and will probably kill her. If you lie…and say “no”, you know that the gunman is too lazy to bend over and see if you are telling the truth or not.

I know what I’d do. I’d lie to save my daugher and then I’d ask for forgiveness later. Somehow I think that God will understand.

Is this hypothetical ridiculous? Of course it is, but it’s designed to make a point. And, perhaps, it’s not as ridiculous as it sounds in light of the evil that happens in this world.
“He that loveth father or mother more than me, is not worthy of me; and he that loveth son or daughter more than me, is not worthy of me. And he that taketh not up his cross, and followeth me, is not worthy of me.” Secundum Matthæum 10,37-38

“Greater love than this no man hath, that a man lay down his life for his friends.” Secundum Iohannem 15,13

You will note of course that the following verse telling the righteous man to lie for his friends is conspicuously absent.
 
In the book of Tobit, St. Raphael “lied” about who he was.

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Is an angel subject to the same morality as a human being? Moreoever, who’s to say that the name he gave was not a name by which he was also known, an alias rather than a false name.
 
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