How so? You can actually see it quite clearly if you spend time in Orthodox churches and in Catholic churches, talking to Orthodox priests and Catholic priests, reading Orthodox sources and Catholic sources, etc. It is only vague if you treat one or the other form of life as being some sort of amorphous blob of Christianity. I don’t see anything vague in the Christianity of the Orthodox or of the Catholics. They’re not vague, they’re different.
Good for you. Where do you attend that the Roman Catholics fast and do not substitute it by other acts in accordance with the allowances made in “Paenitemini” (Pope Paul VI’s apostolic constitution on fasting and abstinence, 1966)? I’m curious because while I know that fasting is both allowed and very much encouraged in the Roman church (and long may it be so!), the practice is really something else in many places (as to make strict fasting something extraordinary), and there are various alternatives available to you, not so much as a matter of economia in an individual situation, but as (and here I’m quoting the constitution) “extraordinary practices of penitence aimed at expiation and impetration”. Again, the difference is in what is normative for either communion. If we have this idea of “extraordinary practices of penitence” in the Coptic Church, they apparently don’t include the fasting, prostrations, and all the other things that people do. Those are
ordinary. Therein lies a crucial distinction. But these are examples of externals for the sake of convenience anyway, as you detest so much the “vagueness” with which this might otherwise be explained.
Well, I can’t speak for others on that account, but I think it would be rude for me to call my time in the Roman Catholic Church an example of “bare minimum Catholicism”, or stereotypical. It included visits to monasteries, countless hours in confession and council, home visits, worship in at least three different languages within multiple cultural and ecclesiastical traditions, etc. And I am grateful to have been blessed by God to experience all of those things. I know that, sadly, that is not everyone’s experience of Catholicism (just as not everyone’s experience of Orthodoxy is the same; we’ve had enough one time visitors here to St. Pishoy COC to know that not everyone sees in it the true church). But that also has very little to do with why I now find myself not Catholic anymore.
It is not the relative spiritual level or involvement that ultimately made the difference so stark to me, but rather the spirituality itself. That’s what all this mindset/being/ontology stuff is all about. The faith, the spirituality, the way of life…whatever you want to call it, it’s different. We are ontologically different not because we fast more than you do, but because of how it is that we each
exist. To go back to the Russian joke, it’s not the pencil vs. the pen, it’s the path to the discovery.