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undignified behaviour is behaviour unfitting the dignity one has been given
undignified behaviour is behaviour unfitting the dignity one has been given
Thatās not a bad response at all.undignified behaviour is behaviour unfitting the dignity one has been given
It gets buried under the muck and filth of oneās actions, it never disappears, but it can become very hard for others to see it in the person. Once one repents one starts to clean away the filth and grime allowing others to start to see your value as a human being again.Thatās not a bad response at all.
Howeverā¦
What happens to the dignity one has been given when the undignified behaviour is constantly part of oneās behaviour?
If the indignity of a behavior is contingent on the dignity the person in the first place, what can āhappen to the dignityā? If anything denegrates the dignity to the point of non-existence, the indignity is, in itself, non-existent.Thatās not a bad response at all.
Howeverā¦
What happens to the dignity one has been given when the undignified behaviour is constantly part of oneās behaviour?
ā¦and hence, the inherent dignity of the person. Not much argument there.In the fact that said person was known and loved by God from the foundation of the world, was made in the image and likeness of God, and is called to take on His nature.
This is the point of contention. As I asked of Dakota, what happens to that inherent dignity when oneās behaviour is constantly undignified? Especially in light of the foundation of dignity described by you in your opening sentence!Nothing that anyone does can ever take away from those facts.
I think you need to differentiate Christianity from the Church. Christianity now has many faces and a whole lot of those āfacesā preach different messages, do they not? I am arguing from the perspective of Catholicism, which is the very font of all of Christianity and where the correct Christian principles are to be found. I donāt think youād disagree with me on that, surely.They comprise a fundamental premise of Christianity. Itās been the teaching of the Church from her founding.
If that were true, then no behaviour can be called undignified and the edict we sometimes give to people, that of āpreserve your dignityā, is meaningless.The dignity of the human person remains in tact no matter what anyone does or says.
This point is arguable, but is a whole nother issue. However, I will ask, is the person being executed being stripped of his dignity? After all, we often hear how some people died an undignified death.Thatās one of the reasons serial mass murderers are not ipso facto deserving of death. In fact, no one deserves death for heinous crimes (Iām using this as an example to prove my point).
proportionality - yeah we know this, but it has little to do with this argument, exceptā¦wait for it - except if you think an unjustified death is actually the taking away of a personās dignity!?The Church teaches that in the case of protecting innocent life, the measure of taking the life of a guilty party is permissable as it is needed to defend innocent life.
Following on from the previous point, the innocents have had their dignity transgressed. No? So, has not the transgressor not sacrificed his dignity with an undignified act? Society will either kill him, or lock him away for an awfully long time. In other words, it will strip him of his dignity.Thatās the dignity God has bestowed on us as human beings, to the point of not deserving to die after killing innocents.
You are now comparing apples with oranges, which wont work. Suffice to ask, how does the continued undignified behaviour of the homosexual add, or subtract from, his dignity?How much more dignified is the active homosexual who hasnāt killed anyone?
Are you here dissenting from the Catholic Church, which describes homosexuality as a grave disorder? Cāmon, fess upā¦Modern Catholics get so caught up in sins that are taboo, sometimes to the point of ascribing too much gravity to them.
This is where your argument goes right off the rails. You are giving examples where people have had their free will impinged upon. They have no choice. homosexuals, like the rest of us, can choose how to behave.Iām pretty sure your idea of extremely grave matter is quite different than say, that of a woman living in communist China who was just forced to have an abortion, or a young girl sold into sexual slavery in a third world African nation run by thugs, or even a young man in North Korea.
Are you saying itās a bad thing?Iām not trying to say that participating in homosexual acts is a good thing, even a good thing compared to doing something else.
The Church describes homosexuality as a grave disorder. Are you saying otherwise?Iām just saying there are worse things, and it isnāt very becoming of someone to place so much gravity on something as relatively tame as deviant sexual practices.
Not for me it isnāt!The world is a big scary place, John.
So whatās an āaffront to the human personā exactly, if not a diminishing of the personās dignity? You are here at least admitting that homosexuality is an affront, but that there are worse affronts. Dunno. Grave is grave after all. However, I must ask, what are you going to say to God as a homosexual is cast into hell? āHey God, you canāt do that. Itās an affront to the human person. Itās undignifiedā!There are greater affronts to the dignity of the human person (which you seem to believe is contingent on their lack of sinfulness) than gay sex.![]()
My previous reply exlains that.This is the point of contention. As I asked of Dakota, what happens to that inherent dignity when oneās behaviour is constantly undignified? Especially in light of the foundation of dignity described by you in your opening sentence!
Oh, thatās what you think?** I think you need to differentiate Christianity from the Church**. Christianity now has many faces and a whole lot of those āfacesā preach different messages, do they not? I am arguing from the perspective of Catholicism, which is the very font of all of Christianity and where the correct Christian principles are to be found. I donāt think youād disagree with me on that, surely.
If any āedict we sometimes give to peopleā concerning the preservation of their dignity were meaningless, that āedictā would most likely refer to dignity of a social, subjective nature that can only be perceived exteriorly (how one dresses, grooms him/herself, acts, etc.) and not the intrinsic dignity that God infused into the human person. Weāre talking about two different things at this point.If that were true, then no behaviour can be called undignified and the edict we sometimes give to people, that of āpreserve your dignityā, is meaningless.
Again, dignity of a different nature. The way youāre using the word with reference to the manner in which one died (subjective, perceived exteriorly, on the surface, and not even referring to the person who died but to the death that they died) and the way the Church refers to the intrinsic dignity of the human person are two different things.This point is arguable, but is a whole nother issue. However, I will ask, is the person being executed being stripped of his dignity? After all, we often hear how some people died an undignified death.
Ibidum, aka read above.proportionality - yeah we know this, but it has little to do with this argument, exceptā¦wait for it - except if you think an unjustified death is actually the taking away of a personās dignity!?
Again, different sense of human dignity than the theological one.Following on from the previous point, the innocents have had their dignity transgressed. No? So, has not the transgressor not sacrificed his dignity with an undignified act? Society will either kill him, or lock him away for an awfully long time. In other words, it will strip him of his dignity.
Iāve answered this above and no, itās not a comparison of apples to oranges. Sin is sin. Relative gravity of sin is, well, relative and debatable. Even if you try to convince me that one sin is more grave than the other, in theory you would be correct, however, the nature of grave sin doesnāt change when the sins themselves are different. Is this what youāre trying to argue?You are now comparing apples with oranges, which wont work. Suffice to ask, how does the continued undignified behaviour of the homosexual add, or subtract from, his dignity?
YOUāRE FUNNY!!Are you here dissenting from the Catholic Church, which describes homosexuality as a grave disorder? Cāmon, fess upā¦
I apologize, I wasnāt clear enough in making my point.This is where your argument goes right off the rails. You are giving examples where people have had their free will impinged upon. They have no choice. homosexuals, like the rest of us, can choose how to behave.
Have you read anything Iāve written? If Iāve maintained so far that homosexual acts are sinful, can you figure out the answer to your own question?Are you saying itās a bad thing?
Far from it. Which is why I asked again. The dignity described by you in your opening sentence in post #39 is given by God. Correct? My query to you was *"ā¦what happens to that inherent dignity when oneās behaviour is constantly undignified? Especially in light of the foundation of dignity described by you in your opening sentence!" * You got nowhere near answering that question. In fact, Iāll demonstrate right at the end of this post that you couldnāt answer that question and avoided trying to do so.My previous reply exlains that.
I mentioned the difference because in one sentence you mentioned both Christianity and Catholicism. Indeed, Catholicism is Christianity. However, a lot of so called Christian denominations have drifted from Catholicism greatlly and, consequently, from the bases of Christianity. Many Christian denominations and their followers admit what the Catholic Church does not. Agreed? Good.⦠Protestantism doesnāt detract from the fullness of Christianity that existed before it. Since I didnāt bring it up, I donāt see why you brought
it up ā¦
Your propensity to surmise is given away by your use of the phrase āā¦most likelyā¦ā.Could it be the case that some consistently carried out behaviours of people would give us a clear indication that their āinherentā dignity is being affronted, to paraphrase you?If any āedict we sometimes give to peopleā concerning the preservation of their dignity were meaningless, that āedictā would most likely refer to dignity of a social, subjective nature that can only be perceived exteriorly (how one dresses, grooms him/herself, acts, etc.) and not the intrinsic dignity that God infused into the human person. Weāre talking about two different things at this point.
And this is exactly where you are missing my point. Your argument is implicitly saying that no matter what the person does, there inherent, God given dignity, which you say is theological and different from the temporal idea of dignity, cannot be removed, or destroyed. When I mention āaffronts to dignityā you distinguish them from a theological definition of dignity and say one doesnāt harm the other. I say thatās wrong.Again, dignity of a different nature.
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Again, different sense of human dignity than the theological one.
Now you are confused. I said you were comparing apples with oranges when you compared people with no choice to people who have choice.Iāve answered this above and no, itās not a comparison of apples to oranges. Sin is sin. Relative gravity of sin is, well, relative and debatableā¦
I went āthereā, which was asking if you dissent from the Church, because you wrote this - *āIām just saying there are worse things, and it isnāt very becoming of someone to place so much gravity on something as relatively tame as deviant sexual practices.ā*In post #47, you quoted the Catechism as using the adjectives āgraveā and āgrave depravityā in relation to homosexual acts. Yet here you pass them off as āā¦relatively tame.ā¦ā. It would seem that my question regarding whether or not you dissent from the Church was a sound one. Like In said, fess up.Iāve made it very clear in my explanations that I donāt soā¦why go there?
Yes you were. Your point ignored the difference between free choice and no choice.I apologize, I wasnāt clear enough in making my point.
Again, you called them āā¦relatively tameā¦ā.Have you read anything Iāve written? If Iāve maintained so far that homosexual acts are sinful, can you figure out the answer to your own question?![]()
It really doesnāt behoove me or my position to answer anymore of this, as you made no point that was different than the ones you made previously. I feel like you talked past me the entire time. I honestly feel that it behooves you, however to read posts more carefully and to brush up on the true position of the Church regarding the human person.
God bless,
And right here you signed off, failing to answer the one single question that put to bed once and for all your theory that undignified acts do not destroy the inherent dignity of a person. Why is it that God throws sinners into hell? And when he does, will you ask Him why he isnāt respecting the āinherentā dignity of the person? His answer must, logically, be something along the lines of āā¦because it isnāt there any longer.ā
Now now Rob.It also bears mentioning that the phrase you used to discribe attraction to oneās own sex, āgravely disorderedā does not make any sense and, moreover, is not the language or the position of the Church.
CCC 2357 describes homosexual acts as acts of āgrave depravityā. The same then describes the acts as āintrinsically (by their very nature) disorderedā. CCC 2358 describes the āhomosexual inclinationā as āobjectively (truly) disorderedā.
Gravity, theologically speaking, only refers to sin (ie. homosexual activity). Youāre making things up.
One I am going to assume that your friend is telling you the truth about the attraction not being sexual and you should assume that as well. Once your over that hurdle than everything is easy or should be. You see that kind of love is the way God meant us to feel about each other and how those of us who are lucky enough to get to heaven will feel that way toward everyone. Your friend should focus on the good of the other at which point this is agape. Then he shouldnāt be surprised it this feeling spreads to others both male and female. Two cautions your friends friend may not return these feelings and so he has to deal with rejection. The other more important is the issue of paranoia about himself. The kind of love your friend may be feeling is something the devil hates. He will try to corrupt it if he can. He will use your friends paranoia to convince him that he is different that his feelings are unnatural. That said learning how to truly love others to see what is good and attractive in others is for a guy, the beginning of true manhood.I have a friend who is kinda paranoid about himself. He said heās a heterosexual, but has this inside feeling toward another guy. He thinks it might be romance; he claims that he has a special love and care for him. Heās not āturned onā by the other guy (thereās nothing sexual), but still has this breath-taking affection toward him.
You know what I mean. Heās not lusting, however, and he wouldnāt want a relationship nor would he even want a kiss or holding-hands session.
Nothing. Nothing happens to that dignity because it is inherent and God-given. But it should still be respected, as the Catechism instructs.My query to you was *"ā¦what happens to that inherent dignity when oneās behaviour is constantly undignified? Especially in light of the foundation of dignity described by you in your opening sentence!" *
No, I think his āpropensity to surmiseā is altogether appropriate, given that youāre talking about an āedict we sometimes give to peopleā. Such a thing is probably, most likely, subjective, and not the inherent dignity CorpusChristi is referring to.Your propensity to surmise is given away by your use of the phrase āā¦most likelyā¦ā.Could it be the case that some consistently carried out behaviours of people would give us a clear indication that their āinherentā dignity is being affronted, to paraphrase you?
Yes, sin is classified into Mortal and Venial, but surely you donāt mean to say that one Venial sin is equal to another. A boy who steals a cookie from a cookie jar and a boy who steals ten cookies have both committed Venial sins, but clearly the latter has been more sinful. I make this clear distinction to show that yes, there is relativity in sin (beyond the classification into Mortal and Venial). But what if, say, one boy stole a pen and the other a pencil? Both are Venial, but which is worse? A trivial example, maybe, but wouldnāt you say the question is open for debate?As for the relativity of sin, you seem to be forgetting that the Church classifies sin into Mortal and Venial, so there are indeed degrees of sin, and wrongness, and culpability. Yet you say itās ādebatableā. Cāmon, fess up now.![]()
What exactly does CorpusChristi need to fess up to? I see nothing wrong with the assertion that a āgrave depravityā can still be ārelatively tameā when compared to, say, serial murder.In post #47, you quoted the Catechism as using the adjectives āgraveā and āgrave depravityā in relation to homosexual acts. Yet here you pass them off as āā¦relatively tame.ā¦ā. It would seem that my question regarding whether or not you dissent from the Church was a sound one. Like In said, fess up.
I canāt imagine God saying anything of the sort. I was under the impression that God doesnāt send anyone to Hell; that if there are souls in Hell, they have put themselves there, and they have done so by sinning, i.e., disrespecting their own dignity (which, by the way, is still very much intact).And right here you signed off, failing to answer the one single question that put to bed once and for all your theory that undignified acts do not destroy the inherent dignity of a person. Why is it that God throws sinners into hell? And when he does, will you ask Him why he isnāt respecting the āinherentā dignity of the person? His answer must, logically, be something along the lines of āā¦because it isnāt there any longer.ā
It is a simple question. The Vatican document in post # 31 implies there is intrinsic dignity in each person. In post # 33 you claim that there isnāt. It sounds like you are disagreeing and I asked you to clarify your response.Are you trying to ask a leading question? Arenāt you capable of pointing out where you think someone is differeing from the Church. There are lots of documents āquoted aboveā.
As to my post above, I was referring to those who commit the homosexual acts. The wording of my post makes that rather obvious. So you tell me, how is it dignified to commit homosexual acts?
Letās reproduce the posts here, so there can be no misunderstanding.It is a simple question. The Vatican document in post # 31 implies there is intrinsic dignity in each person. In post # 33 you claim that there isnāt. It sounds like you are disagreeing and I asked you to clarify your response.
You say the Church is implying that there is indeed intrinsic dignity in each person. Iād say it was more than a mere implication, being so obvious that the Church writes of intrinsic dignity as a given aspect of the human person.āIt is deplorable that homosexual persons have been and are the object of violent malice in speech or in action. Such treatment deserves condemnation from the Churchās pastors wherever it occurs. It reveals a kind of disregard for others which endangers the most fundamental principles of a healthy society. The intrinsic dignity of each person must always be respected in word, in action and in law.ā
Well, there it is in all its glory! Can you see anything in that post that even suggests that I think there is no intrinsic dignity in a person? I actually ask if certain behaviour āā¦attack and erodes the intrinsic dignity of the individual.ā Something canāt be āattacked and erodedā if it doesnāt exist.Surely, if anything, homosexual behaviour attacks and erodes the intrinsic dignity of the individual. How can the dignity of an individual be preserved when their behaviour is so disordered? Anyone who immerses themselves into this so called āgay cultureā is sacrificing that intrinsic dignity. That, to me, is the bottom line in this entire argument.
NeedImprovement, you brilliantly nailed it in two sentences! :tiphat:ā¦
If homosexual acts are āintrinsically disorderedā , then I donāt see how they can be compatible with intrinsic dignity of the human person. There will be a conflict between the two.
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I really like the parable of the prodigal son on this one . The ādissoluteā living , the āsquandering of the inheritanceā , all marred the image of God in the prodigal son .The *intrinsically disordered *acts war against the *intrinsic dignity *- no question in my mind.NeedImprovement, you brilliantly nailed it in two sentences! :tiphat:
How can the intrinsic dignity of a person be preserved if intinsically disordered acts are habitual?
Thatās like suggesting that A can exist in the same space as B.
It is logically impossible.
Theyāre not paying you enough. And it shows!Hey guys, mind if I throw my two cents in?
As this is your first post, Iāll go easy on you. You need to read the previous post more carefully. The question you are supposed to be answering here is not what the Catechism says, but my question about what happens to the intrinsic dignity of a person. You answered ānothingā because it is intrinsic. Scoose me, but thatās rather circular, donāt you think? Then off you went on a tangent about the Catechism.Nothing. Nothing happens to that dignity because it is inherent and God-given. But it should still be respected, as the Catechism instructs.
Surmising is guessing, regardless of the subject.No, I think his āpropensity to surmiseā is altogether appropriate, given that youāre talking about an āedict we sometimes give to peopleā. Such a thing is probably, most likely, subjective, and not the inherent dignity CorpusChristi is referring to.
Mortal and venial classifications prove that ā⦠there are indeed degrees of sin, and wrongness, and culpability.ā as I wrote in response to Corpus Christi. You are attempting to obfuscate the debate by asking for comparisons of one classification of sins. That attempt doesnāt alter the fact that there are degrees of sin and wrongness and culpability. You need to do better than this.Yes, sin is classified into Mortal and Venial, but surely you donāt mean to say that one Venial sin is equal to another. A boy who steals a cookie from a cookie jar and a boy who steals ten cookies have both committed Venial sins, but clearly the latter has been more sinful. I make this clear distinction to show that yes, there is relativity in sin (beyond the classification into Mortal and Venial). But what if, say, one boy stole a pen and the other a pencil? Both are Venial, but which is worse? A trivial example, maybe, but wouldnāt you say the question is open for debate?
If youād read the posts properly you would see that he is at odds with the Catechism. Your attempt at introducing a red herring is just so ametuerish. Really, two cents you say?What exactly does CorpusChristi need to fess up to? I see nothing wrong with the assertion that a āgrave depravityā can still be ārelatively tameā when compared to, say, serial murder.
You look rather silly when you suggest that I am quoting God when I wrote, for all to see that "ā¦His answer must, logically, be something along the lines of⦠. Rather obviously he hasnāt said it yet, so how could you possibly remember Him as having said it?!!I canāt imagine God saying anything of the sort.
So mass murderers, child molesters, murderous dictators and all other evil dudes are in Hell with their dignity intact?I was under the impression that God doesnāt send anyone to Hell; that if there are souls in Hell, they have put themselves there, and they have done so by sinning, i.e., disrespecting their own dignity (which, by the way, is still very much intact).![]()
I am interpreting the Vatican document to say that intrinsic dignity is immutable and absolute. You state that intrinsic dignity can be sacrificed, which implies that it is mutable or relative. Perhaps I am misinterpreting how the term is defined theologically, which is why I am asking for clarification. Which of these interpretations represents true church teaching?Letās reproduce the posts here, so there can be no misunderstanding.
In post #31 NeedImprovement posted a quote from the Letter To The Bishops Of The Catholic Church On The Pastoral Care Of Homosexuals and the quote was repeated by me in post #33. It is this -
You say the Church is implying that there is indeed intrinsic dignity in each person. Iād say it was more than a mere implication, being so obvious that the Church writes of intrinsic dignity as a given aspect of the human person.
However, you then unequivocally state that in post #33 that I claim there isnāt! Well, letās bring my post #33 to this page and see what I said -
Well, there it is in all its glory! Can you see anything in that post that even suggests that I think there is no intrinsic dignity in a person? I actually ask if certain behaviour āā¦attack and erodes the intrinsic dignity of the individual.ā Something canāt be āattacked and erodedā if it doesnāt exist.
Quite frankly, Iām rather amazed that you needed to have explained to you something so obvious.
Normally, adjectives such as immutable and absolute are attributed to God, who does not change. Naturally, persons are not immutable.I am interpreting the Vatican document to say that intrinsic dignity is immutable and absolute. You state that intrinsic dignity can be sacrificed, which implies that it is mutable or relative. Perhaps I am misinterpreting how the term is defined theologically, which is why I am asking for clarification. Which of these interpretations represents true church teaching?