Thanks to all of you who have passed along your wisdom and education, as well as your faith!! My son is 24, as is his girlfriend, and believe me, he has been taught the beauty and sacredness of married sex. However I suppose that it is very hard for the two of them, as it is, I suspect, for many of our young Catholics, to not succumb to the cultural messages and media bull**** that is fed to them on a daily basis. I know that he feels that he is a good Catholic,(and he truly is) : he loves the Mass, he reads the bible, prays for those in need, etc. And I know that my son is in a monogamous relationship, and I believe that this is his first and only partner. However, I had to tell him in no uncertain terms that his soul, his girlfriend’s soul, and my soul, if I am quiet, is in jeopardy, not to mention the fact that I could have grandchildren aborted that I never even got to love. I don’t have time to pussyfoot around, and I am not willing to let that happen if I can help it. That’s what a mother does for her children, however unpopular she may become…SOOO… I will forward the (name removed by moderator)ut you all have given me to him, and I believe that it will help him to make a more holy decision. Deo Gratias!! Kathy