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Cristiano
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I quite agree with you that the Church does a good job at making sure that the applicants clearly understand what the diaconate is about. However, the problem happens before that, when man automatically reject the priesthood because they could be married and deacons later in life. I think that the we, the Church, are still doing a poor job at explaining vocations to young people.Your concern re. an intermediary vocation is a big problem, and it stems from having an incomplete understanding of who a deacon is and what he does. We were spoken to very bluntly about this in the inquiry meetings. People see the deacon raising the chalice, reading the gospel and baptizing babies but that is the cherry on top of the icing on the cake. Every deacon helps in the liturgy, proclaims the word, and helps in the parish, but he does much more out in the world that most never see. I can tell you that anyone who considers the diaconate as “having their cake and eating it too” will get a rude awakening when he finds himself in a state prison conducting bible study or walking into a funeral home with a mother and father to help them pick out a casket for their son
The diaconate has been a stopping point for men on their way to the priesthood for the past 1000 years. The permanent diaconate hs only been restored for the past 50 years. There are many misconceptions about who the permanent deacon is. Any discussion of the merits of a permanent diaconate has to start with an understanding of it first.
At it’s heart, the deacon is the sacramental presence of the visible Church serving the world.
We heard stories of men in the past who were not screened well enough, and some of these got through to ordaination. They told us the story of one guy who put on his collar right after ordaination and said, “Now I can’t wait to tell the people what they need to know.”That’s not service.
Now there is a peer review process, where the other members of your cohort, the people who spend every Saturday with you in class and know you the best get to provide feedback. Archbishop Gregory in Atlanta where I live actually authored much of the "National Directory for the Formation, Ministry and Life of Permanant Deacons in the United States" when he was president of the USCCB. and he addresses many of these issues in formation, at least in our Archdiocese.
Obviously I’m right with you when you say that service “needed to be brought up to much higher levels both in the ordained life and among the laity.” A greater understanding of the role of the deacon in the early Church and how it has been and contiues to be restored will go a long way toward that, and toward dispelling misconceptions that a deacon is a married priest-lite.
Incidentally, I am not married. Unless God puts a woman in my life and makes it crystal clear that I am to be married, there will be no cake for me. I will be celibate. That is my intent for now, anyway.
-Tim-