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VivienneJ
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Something which people often do not realise about those “gold cups” is that they were donated by a member of that specific church in memory of someone in their lives who has died. Now how would your brother (or was it brother-in-law, sorry I wasn’t paying enough attention back there) feel if he gave something in memory of someone in his life and was told “Oh, sorry, we can’t have this because people will criticize us for using this valuable gold cup”. The donated item has been entrusted to the church to keep and use.