Originally Posted by JRKH
While I don’t have teh time to properly expound on my answer here the Short answer to your question is that We will. It is we who will seperate ourselves from Christ’s Love and the Love of the Father.
This gets very complex in trying to answer and I am not very good at trying to explain but I shall try.
Let’s Start with some “givens”
God has, as any Good Father, set up rules and parameters for us. He has also given us the examples of the obedience of His Son and the Saints in living and loving Him Properly and thus attaining heaven.
Jesus has taught us that the Road to perdition is Wide and many choose it while the Road to Salvation is narrow and few find it.
Christ has taught us that the Greatest commandments are built around Love
Christ has told us that all who cry out Lord Lord will not make it, but only those who do the Will of the Father. (Who wills us to Love him and eash other with everything we’ve got.)
Christ also tells us that we must be perfect as our heavenly Father is perfect.
Now - Given these things, which are all taught by Christ, it appears that not just any ol’ set of beliefs is going to accomplish teh goal of attaining heaven.
In addition, an even more importantly, not just any old effort on our part will be sufficient to attain the Goal.
In order to attain the Goal of the Beatific vision and eternity with God in heaven, regardless of our specific christian faith system, we cannot be complacient about it. Perfection, while not entirely attainable here on earth, must still be sought after. We must seek this through prayer and good works. We must turn our backs completely on our old sinful selves and focus fully upon God and Loving Him.
The reason we must do this is because this is the Will fo the Father, that we become perfect since there is nothing imperfect in heaven.
Now - We all know many “Church-goers”, and they will pretty much run the gamut from very devout to they just show up. We know those who work and study their faith and put it into action and those who aren’t really interested in doing anything more than what is “required”. We also know people who Sing Loud in Church Sunday Morning and curse God and neighbor on Sunday Afternoon.
As we progress on our spiritual journey our drive, or our complacency, become more and more a part of us. So much so that, at the moment of death, when judgement comes, the Choice between Heaven and Hell, we will choose that which we chose in Life.
St Catherine of Sienna in the Dialogue, explains it this way (As though God is talking):
Wherefore, know, that at the moment of death, they, having passed their life under the lordship of the Devil (not that they were forced to do so, for as I told you they cannot be forced, but they voluntarily put themselves into his hands), and, arriving at the extremity of their death under this perverse lordship, they await no other judgment than that of their own conscience, and desperately, despairingly, come to eternal damnation. Wherefore Hell, through their hate, surges up to them in the extremity of death, and before they get there, they take hold of it, by means of their lord the Devil.
As the righteous, who have lived in charity and died in love, if they have lived perfectly in virtue, illuminated with the light of faith, with perfect hope in the Blood of the Lamb, when the extremity of death comes, see the good which I have prepared for them, and embrace it with the arms of love, holding fast with pressure of love to Me, the Supreme and Eternal Good. And so they taste eternal life before they have left the mortal body, that is, before the soul be separated from the body.
Others who have passed their lives, and have arrived at the last extremity of death with an ordinary charity (not in that great perfection), embrace My mercy with the same light of faith and hope that had those perfect ones, but, in them, it is imperfect, for, because they were imperfect, they constrained My mercy, counting My mercy greater than their sins.
The wicked sinners do the contrary, for, seeing, with desperation, their destination, they embrace it with hatred, as I told you. So that neither the one nor the other waits for judgment, but, in departing this life, they receive every one their place, as I have told you, and they taste it and possess it before they depart from the body, at the extremity of death—the damned with hatred and with despair, and the perfect ones with love and the light of faith and with the hope of the Blood. And the imperfect arrive at the place of Purgatory, with mercy and the same faith.”
I cannot express it any better than it is expressed here. God tells us clearly how to make it home to heaven. But the temptations and the pulls of nature and of the things of Earth are strong and will trip up many, who will dispair at the last. Thus it is not God who condemns but the person who condemns themselves.
For even further explaniation on this I cannot recommend too highly the Book, “The Fulfillment of All Desire” by Ralph Martin. Subtitled, "A guidebook of the Journey to God based on The Wisdom of the Saints. He uses the quote above along wih many many others from 7 Doctors of the Church to illustrate the Journey.
Peace
James