No I said faith in Jesus is one sign or evidence that a person is born of the Spirit. I didn’t say it came first. Grace comes first to give us faith.
No, faith comes
first before a person can be born again… An adult cannot receive grace without first having faith.
Now there are two kinds of grace: The first is
sanctifying grace. Sanctifying grace, is what causes us to be born again. It is the supernatural life of God that He infuses into the soul, thereby making the person “a partaker of the Divine Nature”, a “temple of the Holy Ghost”, a "new creation in Christ Jesus, and an “adopted” child of God as the Bible says.
Sanctifying grace is what brings about the spiritual birth, since it infuses the very life of God into the soul.
The other kind of grace is
actual grace. *Actual grace *is sometimes referred to as a inspiration of the Holy Ghost. Actual grace enlightens our mind and moves our will in the right direction. Everyone, both the good and the bad, receive actual grace in order to bring them to God. But actual grace does not bring about the spiritual birth.
In order to receive sanctifying grace, a person must already possess faith. If they don’t have faith, they cannot receive grace (unless they do not possess the use of reason).
Faith comes before grace, and can remain even when grace is lost. Faith is required before a person can receive grace. Therefore, faith is not a sign or evidence that a person has been born again. It is only a sign that the person has faith. Nothing more.
Catechism of Pius X
10 Q: What is grace?
A: Grace is an inward and supernatural gift given to us without any merit of our own, but through the merits of Jesus Christ in order to gain eternal life.
11 Q: How is grace distinguished?
A: Grace is divided into sanctifying grace, which is also called habitual grace, and actual grace.
12 Q: What is sanctifying grace?
A: Sanctifying grace is a supernatural gift inherent in our soul, and rendering us just, adopted children of God and heirs to Paradise.
16 Q: What is actual grace?
A: Actual grace is a supernatural gift which enlightens the mind, moves and strengthens the will in order to enable us to do good and avoid evil.
17 Q: Can we resist the grace of God?
A: Yes, we can resist the grace of God because it does not destroy our free will. …
1 Q: What is the sacrament of Baptism?
A: Baptism is a sacrament by which we are born again to the grace of God, and become Christians.
2 Q: What are the effects of the sacrament of Baptism?
A: The sacrament of Baptism confers first sanctifying grace by which original sin is washed away, as well as all actual sin if any such exists; it remits all punishment due on account of such sins; it imprints the character of a Christian; it makes us children of God, members of the Church, and heirs to Paradise, and enables us to receive the other sacraments.
14 Q: When the person who is being baptized is an adult, what dispositions should he have?
A: An adult who is being baptized, besides faith, should have at least imperfect contrition for the mortal sins he may have committed.
We can see from this that faith is required
before a person can receive baptism; and it is baptism that confers grace to the soul thereby causing the person to be born again. Therefore, faith comes before grace.