Two issues here: 1) will I use that word? Not likely unless it comes up in a discussion like this over the word itself.
I’m glad we agree. I certainly wouldn’t use the word to render my thoughts as speech. There are also other words I tend to avoid for lesser reasons. One of my primary objections in attempting to communicate with some one is to be understood and interpreted in a manner that more closely matches what I wish to express.
For example, flammable and inflammable mean the same thing. I avoid inflammable because some people think it means “not burnable.” From popular usage the word “literally” can also be used to mean “metaphorically” (making it a bit of an auto-antonym). To avoid the ambiguity there I may use the word “actually” instead of “literally”. In 日本語 there’s a word that translates into the English programming concept “Regular Expression.” But the pronunciation is also the same as a medical term for genitalia. So I use a different term to avoid confusion and be better understood
unless I am in a community of people for which the term is of common parlance.
- Should we defend those who do use it legitimately and help them defend their free speech rights? Definitely yes.You seem to imply you say no to both questions.
I think we are not in agreement about what would constitute a violation of someone’s free speech.
I’ve never encountered some one’s free speech rights being violated for use of the word. I have encountered one’s popularity and acceptance within one of his communities lowered or some ejection from a community (yes, it’s always a male to which the use of the word has been attributed when I hear of it).
Take an exaggerated case If someone decided to say in public “I don’t like people in group XXXXX, I wish they would all go to an uncomfortable place” he may do so without legal penalty. It’s not illegal. If people within the community decide that they wish to have no association with the person for saying the phrase that is not a free speech issue. Some communities (including employers) are more reactive than others for certain types of things.
Were some one to try to pass a law to make the use of the word illegal I would be against the law. If a person decides to use the word and finds that his community strongly discourages the use of the word and no longer wishes to interact with him I’m not sure what it would mean to fight against that. Encourage people to study more etymology?
Because of my current association with a employer that has many clients that are attentive to social media there are some things for which I am selective about expressing. Among my friends I might say “Service provider XXXXXX has terrible service!.” That’s fine. On my social media accounts I don’t express this, nor do I “like” or “+1” or retweet any statement that expresses this sentiment with which I may already agree. I have been forewarned that I could loose my job if I did so. Loosing my job for these expressions isn’t a violation of my free speech. Being put in prison over them or prosecuted for it would be such a violation.
I do question the wisdom of using a word for which misunderstands and strong emotional reactions have been frequently known to occur in response.