Is this a marriage or a same sex fraud?

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We are of two different communities with different X values. I can apply the X value of your community or of my own. …
Again, you’re choosing relativism over truth.

One can say that a rock is a fish. Saying “one community chooses to say that rocks are fish” cannot make it true. Therefore it does not make it true. It’s untrue no matter who says it or how any given community feels about it. Same with marriage. No joining of 2 men or 2 women can ever be a marriage. Nothing can change that truth.
 
Again, you’re choosing relativism over truth.

One can say that a rock is a fish. Saying “one community chooses to say that rocks are fish” cannot make it true. Therefore it does not make it true. It’s untrue no matter who says it or how any given community feels about it. Same with marriage. No joining of 2 men or 2 women can ever be a marriage. Nothing can change that truth.
I’ve never understood this line of reasoning, as someone who submits to Church teaching. For example, in Japanese, the word 足 (ashi) means leg, but it also means foot. It has two completely different meanings that, in English, we would never separate. But does that mean they’re calling a foot a leg or vice versa when they use 足?

I mean, “marriage” isn’t even God’s term for the spiritual bond between man and woman. It’s specifically a Hebrew word that the creators of English decided to refer to with the term “marriage.” So, just as the word “marriage” was arbitrarily decided in the creation of the English language, it has no actual spiritual meaning, because it is not the word God called the spiritual bond of man and woman. So therefore, there is no lie when a society uses the term “marriage” in a broader sense, because it is merely saying that marriage can mean both the original Hebrew term and another term altogether, much like 足 means both foot and leg.

It is most bizarre to me the rabid defiance conservatives show to the word marriage rather than to the spiritual harms of homosexual sex. I have no problem with two people of the same sex calling themselves married. It does not bother me that they call themselves married, vow themselves to each other, or commit to the caretaking of each other. It only bothers me that they do spiritual harm to themselves by having sex with each other. Isn’t that what we should actually be focusing on, instead of semantics over a word God didn’t use? 🤷
 
Again, you’re choosing relativism over truth.
Nope, the differences are in semantics and conventions. This isn’t a relativistic difference.
One can say that a rock is a fish.
Yes, one can use the letter sequence f-i-s-h to refer to hard mineral cluster. Would you believe that in different languages or dialects within the same language the same sequence of letters or phonems can be used to express different concepts?
Saying “one community chooses to say that rocks are fish” cannot make it true.
It’s a matter of semantics. This “true” and “False” evaluation is non-applicable. I think you are trying to force civil marriage to have the same constraints as sacramental marriage.
Therefore it does not make it true. It’s untrue no matter who says it or how any given community feels about it. Same with marriage. No joining of 2 men or 2 women can ever be a marriage. Nothing can change that truth.
Sure it can! 🙂
I’ve never understood this line of reasoning, as someone who submits to Church teaching. For example, in Japanese, the word 足 (ashi) means leg, but it also means foot. It has two completely different meanings that, in English, we would never separate. But does that mean they’re calling a foot a leg or vice versa when they use 足?
I’ve never understood it either. The definitions of words comes from their usages. Words have no intrinsic meanings themselves. I think its not well known that dictionaries track word usage. As usage changes dictionaries are adjusted. Even if those usages were “wrong.” Example, the word “literally” now has the additional definition of “virtually” because of how people used it.
 
Nope, the differences are in semantics and conventions. This isn’t a relativistic difference.

Yes, one can use the letter sequence f-i-s-h to refer to hard mineral cluster. Would you believe that in different languages or dialects within the same language the same sequence of letters or phonems can be used to express different concepts?

It’s a matter of semantics. This “true” and “False” evaluation is non-applicable. I think you are trying to force civil marriage to have the same constraints as sacramental marriage.

Sure it can! 🙂

I’ve never understood it either. The definitions of words comes from their usages. Words have no intrinsic meanings themselves. I think its not well known that dictionaries track word usage. As usage changes dictionaries are adjusted. Even if those usages were “wrong.” Example, the word “literally” now has the additional definition of “virtually” because of how people used it.
You’re trying to prove relativism.
Each time, you first deny that you’re using relativism, then you proceed to use relativism to make your point.
 
You’re trying to prove relativism.
Each time, you first deny that you’re using relativism, then you proceed to use relativism to make your point.
Nope, I’m describing different word usage and notation. In relativism given a single proposition for which the usage of the terms in that proposition are agreed the truth value of that proposition is dependent on other factors (ex: culture). What I am pointing out is that agreement has not been reached in how the terms within the proposition are interpreted. The same symbolic of verbal representation has been assigned to related but different concepts. When a Brit refers to a boot on a car and an American refers to a boot on a car they are not invoking the same concept despite the same symbolic and verbal representation being used. (The same could be said of inspector, geezer, football, and more words than I care to list here). Pointing this out isn’t relativism. It’s an example of different information being encoded to the same representation; the mapping between the concept and the word used to invoke it are different.

When one of my friends from overseas talks about watching a football game there’s generally no need to have a discussion on what is “true” football, and that the other group calling their different game “football” are telling a lie and presenting an untruth. It’s understood the word is used differently in one community vs another. I’m using communities that are separated by greater distances for this example, but the same can be found in variations in dialect within a single country. This isn’t relativism.

When you refer to marriage I understand to what you are referring. I don’t apply the same constraints to it that you do, but I understand what you are referring to. When one of my coworkers told me of his husband I understand what it is that he is communicating and understand what constraints and implications are associated with his usage of the word. Catholic Sacramental Marriage and Civil/Legal marriage where I live have different constraints. There’s some overlap (just as there’s overlap in the elements of those two games that have both been called “football”) and there are differences. Some one may have both types of marriage. And there have been marriages in living memory in the USA that may have met a religious criteria for marriage but were not acknowledged legally (see miscegenation laws).

I understand that the Catholic church (and many but not all other churches) have taken the stance that a marriage can only occur between people of opposite genders and that to them two people of the same sex will never be referred to as marriage. That’s fine (as in I’m not going to stage a protest in a Church or try to get some one to change their semantic constraints, nor am I bothered by it). But not every one in our communities are trying to conform to the word usage or behavioural prohibitions of the Catholic or other churches, nor are they necessarily trying to adopt the same word usage.
 
I’ve never understood this line of reasoning, as someone who submits to Church teaching. For example, in Japanese, the word 足 (ashi) means leg, but it also means foot. It has two completely different meanings that, in English, we would never separate. But does that mean they’re calling a foot a leg or vice versa when they use 足?
Are you suggesting that the Japanese see no difference between a foot and a leg? Is there a difference to a Japanese surgeon?
I mean, “marriage” isn’t even God’s term for the spiritual bond between man and woman. It’s specifically a Hebrew word that the creators of English decided to refer to with the term “marriage.” So, just as the word “marriage” was arbitrarily decided in the creation of the English language, it has no actual spiritual meaning, because it is not the word God called the spiritual bond of man and woman. So therefore, there is no lie when a society uses the term “marriage” in a broader sense, because it is merely saying that marriage can mean both the original Hebrew term and another term altogether, much like 足 means both foot and leg.
Aquinas via Aristotle held marriage to be more than a “spiritual bond between man and woman.” Marriage is where children are created, nourished, and educated. Same sex unions cannot do this by their design; they do not have a marriage.
It is most bizarre to me the rabid defiance conservatives show to the word marriage rather than to the spiritual harms of homosexual sex.
The subject of the thread seems to be dealing with how the government treats married people compared to single people. If a society, through its government, wants to subsidize marriage (the creation, nourishment, and education of children) we have to have a word for it
I have no problem with two people of the same sex calling themselves married. It does not bother me that they call themselves married, vow themselves to each other, or commit to the caretaking of each other. It only bothers me that they do spiritual harm to themselves by having sex with each other. Isn’t that what we should actually be focusing on, instead of semantics over a word God didn’t use? 🤷
I don’t have a problem with a same sex couple ‘calling’ themselves married or what they do in their bedroom as a result of it. But they don’t want to ‘call’ themselves married, they want a marriage license.
In regards to civil action, giving a marriage license to a same sex couple and calling them married is telling a lie, to receive government benefits not intended for single people; which they are.
Calling them married would be the same as using the same word for leg and foot. Does it matter what we call it? I hope it would matter to a Japanese surgeon when they have to operate on a person’s leg.
 
For a marriage to be valid it needs to be consummated.

Its legal significance arises from theories of marriage as having the purpose of producing legally recognized descendants of the partners, or of providing sanction to their sexual acts together, or both, and amounts to treating a marriage ceremony as falling short of completing the creation of the state of being married.Historically and traditionally, marriage was not considered a binding contract until and unless it has been consummated.

Only a man and a woman are physically able to consummate marriage.Homosexual couples are play-acting.
 
For a marriage to be valid it needs to be consummated.
…in the states of Alaska, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Idaho, Illinois, Michigan, Minnesota, Montana, Ohio, South Carolina, Vermont and Wisconsin. The other states don’t require consummation for a marriage to be valid. As for regions outside the USA I know the UK was removing the requirement. Not sure about other countries.
 
For a marriage to be valid it needs to be consummated.

Its legal significance arises from theories of marriage as having the purpose of producing legally recognized descendants of the partners, or of providing sanction to their sexual acts together, or both, and amounts to treating a marriage ceremony as falling short of completing the creation of the state of being married.Historically and traditionally, marriage was not considered a binding contract until and unless it has been consummated.

Only a man and a woman are physically able to consummate marriage.Homosexual couples are play-acting.
I think you are confusing canon law with civil law. In most if not all US states a marriage is becomes valid when both parties have expressed their free consent to be married through the exchange of vows, even though they have not consummated their union.

A marriage that has not been consummated is valid but may be dissolved by the church. The CCC does not say that the marriage MUST be consummated which leaves open the possibility of a celibrate spiritual marriage.
 
…in the states of Alaska, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Idaho, Illinois, Michigan, Minnesota, Montana, Ohio, South Carolina, Vermont and Wisconsin. The other states don’t require consummation for a marriage to be valid. As for regions outside the USA I know the UK was removing the requirement. Not sure about other countries.
I know what the law says. I’m just saying that traditionally a marriage needed to be consummated to be valid, and there’s a good reason behind that.
 
For a marriage to be valid it needs to be consummated.

Its legal significance arises from theories of marriage as having the purpose of producing legally recognized descendants of the partners, or of providing sanction to their sexual acts together, or both, and amounts to treating a marriage ceremony as falling short of completing the creation of the state of being married.Historically and traditionally, marriage was not considered a binding contract until and unless it has been consummated.

Only a man and a woman are physically able to consummate marriage.Homosexual couples are play-acting.
Yes, marriage being that place where children are created, it would seem that it would require consummation to be valid as a matter of fact.
 
I get the impression that you find value in it having been a tradition (?).
Yes, usually things that have stood the test of time do so for a good reason, because there is truth behind them. Believe me, this gay marriage nonsense will see its day.
 
Yes, usually things that have stood the test of time do so for a good reason, because there is truth behind them.
Okay, I feel a bit different. Traditions in the USA haven’t always been kind to various groups of people.
 
Like Jim Crow laws?
Well, I wasn’t thinking of that. But that might work as an example. Though that seems to be in part a codification of some already present biases and unequal treatment.
 
Well, I wasn’t thinking of that. But that might work as an example. Though that seems to be in part a codification of some already present biases and unequal treatment.
We can never forget that everything Hitler did in Germany was “legal” and everything the Hungarian freedom fighters did in Hungary was “illegal.” -Martin Luther King, Jr.
 
Okay, I feel a bit different. Traditions in the USA haven’t always been kind to various groups of people.
Don’t get me wrong. I in no way want to see different groups of people persecuted. I just think that the gay movemnnt has taken this too far. They want to have thier cake and eat it too.
 
We can never forget that everything Hitler did in Germany was “legal” and everything the Hungarian freedom fighters did in Hungary was “illegal.” -Martin Luther King, Jr.
it’s not certain to me what it is that you’re trying to communicate.

pardon my mistakes, entered using voice to text.
 
it’s not certain to me what it is that you’re trying to communicate.
…in the states of Alaska, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Idaho, Illinois, Michigan, Minnesota, Montana, Ohio, South Carolina, Vermont and Wisconsin. The other states don’t require consummation for a marriage to be valid. As for regions outside the USA I know the UK was removing the requirement. Not sure about other countries.
Your almost incessant appeal to law is not only irrational but also dangerous.
 
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